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    School district cancels prom rather than face gay rights issue

    AP Photo/Matthew Sharpe: Constance McMillen, 18, reads online messages about her dashed desire to attend her senior prom with a same-sex date and in a tuxedo.AP Photo/Matthew Sharpe: Constance McMillen, 18, reads online messages about her dashed desire to attend her senior …How far we haven't come.

    The good news is this AP story about a Mississippi school district canceling a school-run senior prom to avoid legal complaints in support of a lesbian student--who was told she could not attend with her girlfriend and could not attend wearing a tuxedo--is getting lots of play. The bad news is the 18-year-old student had a tough day returning to school after the Itawamba County school board made its decision. And she doesn't think she'll be invited to a privately organized prom.

    The American Civil Liberties Union, which notified school officials that a policy banning same-sex prom dates violated students' rights. The ACLU also argued that not allowing Constance McMillen to wear a tuxedo violated her free expression rights. So instead of dealing with any of it, the district canceled the prom "due to the distractions to the educational process caused by recent events." It never mentioned McMillen by name or the ACLU for that matter, but no further comment was forthcoming.

    McMillen went back to school to face some nasty comments from fellow students about ruining their senior year and messing up prom plans. A brave move by a brave young woman who challenged a Feb. 5 prom memo that said, in part, that a person's date must be of the opposite sex. She's pretty sure if there's a privately run prom, she won't be allowed to bring her date or wear a tux because whatever rules they want to apply will be applied. But what McMillen is doing is having a far greater impact on the rights of gay students than the ability of one couple to attend one prom in rural Mississippi.

    "My daddy told me that I needed to show them that I'm still proud of who I am," McMillen told the AP. "The fact that this will help people later on, that's what's helping me to go on."

    Go on, girl! We know this isn't making senior year fun for you, either, but there is never a wrong time to be true to yourself, and you've done that and more.

     
    • V  •  Buford, Georgia  •  1 month 10 days ago
      If you look at the so called men nowadays I can almost understand why there wanting to go with women.Seems to me the only difference between the men and women today is they have different parts.IM just saying"
    • Caitlin  •  1 month 0 days ago
      Darling, I hope you can find happiness. As P!nk would say, "We can always, we can always, party on our own".
    • The Rev  •  Los Angeles, California  •  1 month 10 days ago
      I'm kinda glad the school didn't fold to the homosexual minority. It's time we stopped trying to be politically correct.
      • Meghan 1 month 10 days ago
        Explain to me how allowing a girl to bring a female date and wear a tux is going to hurt anyone's prom experience? When I was in high school different students went stag together, often of the same sex and that was allowed. I guess because they were straight it wasn't harming anything. And my school officials would have loved some of the girls to arrive in a tux because their bodies would have been more covered than by the more fashionable dresses. Maybe we need to stop being politcally correct to the narrow-minded minority as well?
      • Kenny 1 month 10 days ago
        People need to think about how they would feel if they were in the other person's position before judging people for their actions. If more people did that then the world would be a lot kinder place than it is now.
      • Crystalnmage 1 month 9 days ago
        I see no problem with same sex dates going to the prom. It's rules like that that remind me of when I was growing up - you didn't dare cross the racial divide. Nowadays most of us are smarter. Sure there are still some narrow minded bigots out there but more of the younger generation has learned that who we are is what is important. Just because I don't look like you, act like you, care more about how I feel about a person than what sex that person is, or don't feel comfortable in the skin I was born in doesn't make anyone inferior to another. I've got wonderful neighbors that are a same sex couple who have been together a long time & are great people. On the other hand, I used to have a heterosexual couple that lived across the street from them & considered it was perfectly fine to have sex in their living room w/the drapes wide open since they felt it was necessary to show the same sex couple what normal behavior should be. Those perverts actually told them why they did it. Did they ever think about all the kids in our neighborhood? The kids could have seen them going at it just by walking down the street.
    • Jae  •  1 month 10 days ago
      So, girls can wear too-clingy, way-way-way-too-short-and-low-cut dresses, but not tuxedos? What's wrong in this world?
      • mac 26 days ago
        exactly, grils can look like ho's and no one says a word, but let one be different and she get's judged? what's up with that
    • Camo Chick  •  1 month 10 days ago
      Children are being indoctrinated into the homosexual agenda younger and younger. School boards are fighting a losing battle to maintain normalcy in the face of an outright assault. Homosexuals not only refuse to acknowledge that their lifestyle is unnatural, they can't resist shoving themselves down the throats of normal people at every opportunity, and their REAL mantra is "LOOK AT ME! LOOK AT ME!"
      • The Rev 1 month 10 days ago
        RIGHT ON
      • Beth 1 month 10 days ago
        Un natural? Go study biology. Bottlenose dolphins engage in homosexuality. Male giraffes are more likely to seek out male partners than females.
      • Crystalnmage 1 month 9 days ago
        If their lifestyle is so "unnatural" then why has the same behavior been documented in animals? I think part of it is being attracted to the inner person more than the physical details outside. Some people are attracted to the opposite sex, others to their own sex & others are attracted to both. I don't see why it is anyone else's business than the parties involved.
    • Mrs. Mommy  •  1 month 16 days ago
      I went to prom with another girl, but that was because she and my other best female friend went to a different school than I and we had been friends since pre-school. My one best friend brought her boyfriend and my other best friend brought me, it was just as friends, but no one at their catholic school seemed to mind.
      • Camo Chick 1 month 10 days ago
        You weren't going on a homosexual date. Girls go in groups all the time - we did it one year. Boys go in stag groups. But that didn't include include slow dancing and french kissing another girl, did it? Of course not.
      • The Rev 1 month 10 days ago
        Friends is different than homosexuals.
      • Mrs. Mommy 1 month 10 days ago
        Actually it did involve slow dancing with girls and not just my 'date'. In fact I didn't dance with a single male the entire night. And while there was no french kissing between me and anyone that night there was none between anyone that night the chaperone ratio was 4:1. There is nothing wrong with homosexuality. And if you do think it is wrong your only showing your lack of intelligence.
    • Freddie  •  Winston-Salem, North Carolina  •  1 month 10 days ago
      Nice to know public schools are furthering the causes of hate and discrimination.
    • Anthony  •  Lansing, Michigan  •  2 months ago
      seriiously? "pursuit of happiness people....enough said
      • Camo Chick 1 month 10 days ago
        I doubt very much if the Founding Fathers, when speaking of the pursuit of happiness, were thinking of the right of homosexuals to flaunt their abnormality to the world.
    • Merry  •  6 months ago
      The public school should allow her to bring whomever for her "date", but her wearing a tuxedo is ridiculous. She's just wanting attention. The school is and should be allowed to enforce a dresscode for both boys and girls. The ACLU is more trouble than it's worth.
    • Andreanna  •  6 months ago
      Thats messed up how can discrimnate against same sex dates i think thats riduclous. I went to my junior prom with a female because my boyfriend wouldnt take me jeez some school systems are wack and as for her fellow students they obvisouly have no minds of their own if fthe got mad at her for prom being cancelled it wasnt her fault for beliving in her rights
    • michael  •  6 months ago
      The writer calls the girl, "brave." Would she say that if the girl were attempting to break down the incest taboo by bringing her sister to the prom and engaging in romantic behavior with her?
    • A Yahoo! User  •  6 months ago
      It is the schools prom and they can cancil it if they want.... Code they have a code and that is what you live by....
    • KyleeC  •  9 months ago
      It's not her fault that the prom was cancelled and it's HER prom too, she should be allowed to bring and wear what she wants (within taste).\
      Martha, your comments are disgusting on the mere fact that you're saying "oh it sucks you're getting discriminated against but do you have to ruin it for everyone?" You are BLAMING THE VICTIM. Pretend for a second she was white and wanted to bring a black date, would you still be singing the same tune? It's homophobic, even if you don't want to see it that way.
    • Captain Rand  •  9 months ago
      This is the kind of thing that makes the south look bad
    • Dickie Smythe  •  9 months ago
      Hell yeah...long live the South! Yeeee ha.
    • Ethan T  •  2 months ago
      Good grief, this is ridiculous. I can't actually believe her father condones such behavior. A girl in a tuxedo, for God's sake! What next, is she going to want to pee in the men's room?
    • West  •  2 years 2 months ago
      I'm a very straight, religious father of two straight daughters. Any school district that would cancel the prom rather than allow a gay or lesbian couple to come to the prom together by this point in time is truly sticking its head in the sand like an ostrich and pretending the perceived danger will go away or just isn't there because they can't see it.Are they going to cancel it forever? They are missing a great teaching opportunity to enlighten the students that they better get used to the idea, but the school doesn't have to condone it and homosexuals should also show the rest of the world that what is right for them may not be right for everyone and stop the campaign by some amongst them to promote it toward those who may not be sure of their sexual orientation. Homosexuality has been around since the beginning and is nothing new. Both sides need to back off, chill, and use some common sense. Let people be who and what they are, yes its an adjustment for most of us but gays are human and deserve the respect given to anyone else. We all have people we admire and highly respect until we find out they are gay, then some are treated like they are anything but someone deserving of respect. We all have relatives, friends, teachers, doctors, etc. that are gay but we just don't know it. This issue will eventually settle itself if allowed to do so. I'm not certain God sees it as an abomination but we need to realize it exists among other species at approximately the same percentage it exists in the human population and it exists all over the world. There are no exceptions in Africa, Asia, Middle East, Central/South America, it exists everywhere. Gays in some countries would be stoned to death and that IS an abomination. Thou Shalt Not Kill. These are people who are just different from the majority of the population when it comes to who they are attracted to otherwise they are just like the rest of us. They are us all of us. I'm a dinosaur, who isn't comfortable with seeing two men being affectionate with each other and will probably never be comfortable with it but I surely don't condemn someone for being who they are. There are inherent immense dangers and problems that occur when people repress who they really are. Let people be who they are.
    • MLB  •  2 years 2 months ago
      I see a lot of people focusing simply on the lesbian couple issue. Look at the broader policies of this school and all that they are saying. First, they say that you can not go without a date. If your child is not dating someone, is it right to force them to choose someone they do not want to spend that evening with just so they can attend with their friends? Second, requiring that a female student wear a dress is, in my opinion, sexist. Third, prom is a celebration of your high school career coming to an end. These students should be allowed to hang out with their friends and partners, whatever their gender, and just have a good time. Quit trying to make it some antiquated mating ritual. Fourth, this girl has the right to date whomever she chooses to, whether the school likes it or not. It is their refusal to acknowledge her rights that caused this, not her request that her rights be honored. As far as the school board goes, the right thing to do would have been to say that they were allowing the couple to go because it is their legal right to do so. I understand that the school has policies, and a lot of them are there for good reason. Requiring someone to pretend that they are straight in order to attend a school event does not accomplish anything for school safety, dress code or anything else of benefit to the school. Requiring that everyone that attends have a date is ridiculous. In short, this school's policies for prom are not in place for any reason of value and should be reevaluated.
    • ƒℓαωℓєѕѕ ƒαѕнισηιѕтα  •  6 months ago
      Sorry, but when was there a handbook of rules for prom? I organised my school prom. We never told anyone what they had to wear, who to go with. I wouldn't have allowed it. In fact we had 2 gay couples come. Everyone was happy.
    • Alexis  •  2 years 2 months ago
      J Montana,

      Just like you aren't inclined to side with the ACLU, I am not inclined to believe anything the Liberty Counsel publishes. And I did my research on WestLaw, not via google or any politically oriented web-sites. As a matter a fact, I haven't read anything from the ACLU on this case.

      I am too lazy to spend my afternoon searching for your previous post regarding vested interest. It doesn't matter what it says, the courts have ruled time and time again, that liberty rights are not left at the door when a student walks in. There is an interest in protecting students, but it will not be at the cost of discrimination.

      Honestly, I think you are over your head and trying to argue Constitutional law.

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