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    Sexual harassment, yes or no?

    Okay, so this is what happened, as reported in USA Today:

    Ines Sainz, a Mexican TV reporter, is at the center of an alleged harassment controversy with the New York Jets. At practice on Saturday, Sainz said the Jets were deliberately throwing footballs to players in her direction, but couldn't definitively say whether the Jets' conduct crossed a line that would warrant discipline.

    "I personally believe that if (NFL security) find that (Jets players) are very aggressive in the way they speak about me, yes they deserve (punishment)," Sainz said in an appearance on ABC's Good Morning America. "But I'm not sure it happened." When she went into the team's locker room to interview QB Mark Sanchez, who has Mexican heritage, she said she heard comments from players such as "Oh my goodness she's here," and "OK, I want to be Mexican." Sainz originally sent out a Twitter message saying she was embarrassed. On ABC, Sainz, who said she's a nine-year veteran as a reporter, added that she had received similar treatment in the past but "nothing as strong as this."

    So my question is this, do YOU think she was unduly harassed or treated unprofessionally?

    I don't. In fact, I think this woman is a joke and an embarrassment to both her profession and to all of the women who have worked hard to get equal treatment in journalism. Once again there is no personal accountability here and "rights" are in conflict with COMMON SENSE (which unfortunately is not so common anymore).

    Her style of dress is meant to evoke a certain response from men so how can she complain when she received the exact response she was going for? If she was embarrassed because her target audience decided to pay attention to the show she was putting on then perhaps she ought to have selected a different wardrobe for this particular venue. These players did not come into the reporters lounge heckling and making comments, they were in their own space, doing their own thing, which in case nobody noticed is a highly charged, testosterone laced setting. As I recall, male reporters aren't even allowed into the locker rooms at women's sporting events, much less male reporters in Speedos, right?

    Sure, she has a legal right to wear whatever the heck she pleases, just like I have a right to leave my purse open on the sidewalk in front of a group of drug addicts, or take a casual hike along the Iranian border, but that does not make it the correct or intelligent thing to do. This is why professional businesses have done away with "Casual Friday's" and both schools and offices have dress codes, because there is always some idiot who acts like they "didn't get the memo".

    It annoys me when the gains made by thousands of professional, intelligent women are undercut by the provocative, unprofessionalism of a single pin-up girl. Women fought hard to get past the male dominated barrier in sports reporting, which makes it all the more frustrating when some so-called professional thrusts her unnecessary sexual energy into the mix. And although I applaud the Jets for speaking up on her behalf and admonishing their players for what they deem to be inappropriate behavior, I think anything more than a general team chat about good manners and behaving themselves is both unwarranted and unnecessary. And besides, maybe it wasn't THE PLAYERS doing the harassing afterall, perhaps she is the guilty party...hmmmm, just a thought.

    But, that's just MY opinion, what's yours?

    Danine Manette
    Ultimate Betrayal

     

    4 comments

    • just walter  •  1 year 8 months ago
      lol casual walk on iranian border

      but on topic i agree with you. a female shouldnt walk into a MENS lockeroom dressed like that.
    • Joshua  •  1 year 8 months ago
      I have a couple thoughts on this.

      1. While the players behavior probably wasn't the MOST professional, I'm willing to wager it was more intended to be in the spirit of fun, as opposed to harrassment.

      2. If anyone has spent any time watching telemundo, or any latino based programming, what Ms. Sainz is wearing is pretty tame. Much of the programming puts amazingly beautiful people is scantily clad outfits. What reaction do they expect?

      It's really hard to cry sexual harrassment, when your job expects you to dress provocativly, and solicits response based on that sexual level.
    • Nicole P  •  1 year 8 months ago
      Yea if you want to be taken as a professional reporter, dress like a professional reporter. If you want to look like you're trying to pick up guys at a bar, well dress like Sainz did. I have no problem with anyone wanting to dress sexy and advertise what you have, but don't cry about it when you get a reaction. You know what you're doing.
    • Lori  •  1 year 8 months ago
      Absolutely! I was blown away as I watched the interview. I could not believe what I was hearing. I'm sure there are thousands of women that will run to her defense but I found it very hard to do so. Why? For one, how can you ask for or expect to be treated in a professional manner when nothing about you screams professionalism! Secondly, there is a time and place for everything and the attire that she wears during business hours do not represent business.

      I have no problem with women showing our feminine side, being sexy, or dressing however in the heck we want to dress. I do however have a problem with women who make it difficult for me to be taken seriously as a respectable woman. I want to be seen as a respected, intelligent and professional woman sure; it’s ok if some might think I’m attractive. What I don’t want to be seen as, is a hot piece of @$$ who works in the office.

      I think we would all agree that no woman regardless of what she wears deserves to be sexually harassed or even worse, attacked. The point I think we are trying to make is that there are ignorant people in this world that see you as nothing more than a woman and, if you don’t show them that you are more than that you can’t expect to be treated as more than that.

      Thanks Danine for letting us vent on this one.Whew!

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