Sexual Turn Offs For Women

sex is sex....pleasure with the almighty force

well i dont want to see his taint ,tainted ! LOL

there are several personal deal-breakers for me, and i think a lot of women will agree:
1) not bathing/personal cleanliness is absent. i can't stand it when a guy is dirty and still expects me to get turned on. showering is a must!
2) criticizing the woman's body. hello, we don't all look like porn stars and i don't see why we have to.
3) always having to initiate. some women may not mind, but i feel like a prostitute if i have to initiate every time.
4) extreme jealousy. a little is okay, but if the guy is really that convinced she is cheating, he would do better to leave her and move on.
5) drunken pawing is NEVER attractive. those breasts are attached, you know!!!

Well I had a guy who tried to sneak it in the backdoor after I told him upfront I DO NOT DO THAT. And then he had the nerve to ask why after I pushed him away! I got up and we never did it again.

i like but age factor

saying her body 'might not be the right fit' when you can't get it up is rude, right along with 'critiquing' body parts...why are on earth are you having sex with her body, or assuming she will want to have sex with you after being treated that way? She is not obligated to share any part of her body with you if that's your idea of "good sex".

I really hate it when guys refuse to do anything at all to even please you only worry about themselves orgasming... frankly its really fucking slefish like my ex....

A sexual turn-off for me would have to be way too much pubic hair.

A big turnoff to me in addition to the above would be rushing through or all together skipping foreplay. Women are built differently than men and need the extra warming up. Men are selfish when they skip over this very important step to sex. No foreplay - No nookie!

Yah know.. a lot of this is TMI.
but I personally have a theory that men who prefer to fk up the arse are repressed homosexuals.
That a long with other unwanted kinky sht.
the remedy for that is either
1.) come out of the closet and fk another man properly.
or.
2.) get your head out of pornville and learn how to fk a woman properly.
But don't mix up the two and think no one will notice.

Let's save "the one thing" for later. You should be already engaged, wearing your ring, & the date firmly set before any form of sex takes place AT ALL. Ladies, you give it all away just any old time & then you get on here & whine about how he won't propose. I know this sounds old fashioned, but nothing else could be truer; if he doesn't really want you, he'll take off. But if he does want you, he'll be so hot out after you it'll make your head spin! Hold back until your engagement! He will marry you FASTER.

o mylord this is all true an i think guys should read stuff like this so they can learn to be better men and actually be nice and treats them right

BTW, who the heck are some of you people dating!? Some of the things that are being done to some of you, makes me wonder. If you take/go home with a jerk, did you think once he took off all of his clothes he was going to magically be something more than that?

I've never understood girls that have one night stands. We aren't built like men we don't climax everytime that we have sex, so why waste yourself on some loser who will get his and more than likely piss you off in the process?

talking about other women you have had sex with is a major turn off. i don't care what sheila or kelly liked or how they made you so hot. if they are so great, why are you not with them? probably because they got tired of hearing you speak!

i agree with none on the sponteneous thing.it's a good thing !

i tapped that ass larry.

As a man, I agree that alot of the turnoffs listed here are definately turnoffs for some women. However, there is a large percentage of women who find rough sex, anal, oral and whatnot very much a turnon. The key is to communicate with you partner. Everytime I have a new woman come to my bed, even in the heat of foreplay, wants and needs are communicated. Its also not that hard to just be sensual and test the waters. If you ask her if she like it rough, she will tell you. And there should always be a safety word. Trust me..
If she hasnt already told you no to anal, I have found the best indicator if she is into it, is to let a finger pass over with a light carress, a moan is a good indication she is interested, but never just stick it there. that's just mean and inconsiderate.

My current girl, doesn't like the backdoor, but she loves to have me grab her hair and pull her mouth down on me. Completely contrary to what this author states is a turnoff for women.

And what the hell is wrong with you guys? yes we all know condoms are not the most pleasureable things, but put the damn thing on you idiots. Don't play roulette with your health. Just because you "trust" her not to have a disease? dumbasses. Unless you get tested every week, you dont know what you have picked up in your bareback lovein. She likely doesn't trust you dont have anything. And I know most women will call off your session if are insistent on not wrapping it, and they all women should insist. The only time I do not use one is when I have been with a woman for a long period of time. On a side note, try the new trojan with the odd looking end on it, they really do feel like they arent there. I love them.

I happen to be a complete freak when it comes to bedroom antics, but I communicate with my partners verbally and I can read body language. I highly recomend learning to comunicate guys. It allows you to keep your woman happy, and not go too far. Comunication skills is why my friends still try to get me into thier beds (many swinging partners). Well, that and the philosophy of the womans pleasure is paramount to mine. Make sure she gets hers guys, or you wont get yours for very long. Besides if she is in extasy, you will be too.

"Going in without a condom: Condoms might be uncomfortable but we all know they protect from cooties and pregnancies so please wear one."

Gee, and I thought I was the only one who used the phrase, "cooties." LOL

I LOL'ed at most of what this article had to say. Agreed lots of things would be a turn off the first time. But unless its your first first first time EVER in your life what the heck are you expecting? I guess I have been fortunate in my assignations that I was always asked. "Would you like..." Thing about me is if asked politely or considerately I was normally willing to give it a try at least twice to see if I liked it. Usually I did. Other then personal hygiene/condom issues most things in here did not squick me in the least. Even letting a guy finish on you as long as its not in a way that can disease you is not out of the question.{and doggy style is my fav you weird author WTF is wrong with you?} Guess what when this happens usually you get asked, or at least I always do get asked. Train em right and then they know what to do next time. keep your undies on until you have cleared your expectations out into the open if you are that worried about it. But if these things were collectively so horrible our species would be extinct by now. Do what most of us do, and show some caution and toss some caution to the winds. Life is a lottery not a sure thing. You can improve your odds but after all is said and done things will fall out mostly the same way anyway. in short 3 things
1. You are not your mother/grandmother/Catholic School teaching sister of doom. Whoever planted the idea in your mind that some things to do with this topic were both gross and wicked was right! Thing is she most likely knew it was that way cause she did it, and what she didn't tell you about the wickedness is what makes it great, the fact that once the whole cringe at the negative tape effect is gone you will have a good chance of LIKING it.
2. Ask for what you want. If you need the clarifying statement of "Um this may sound kind of silly/dumb/stupid/weird, but could you..." then make it. Chances are they will grin like their jaw is gonna break off and tell you yeah sure no problem. Feel free to blush or not, whichever.
3.Ask them what they would like to do. No boys we cant read your mind and some of us might not know what the hell you mean by various slang terms. You can teach us those for later though!
After you have gone through the negative tape shut off and the verifying of what each partner would like then you are clear for liftoff.
Last statement
Since When is clean sex any fun? It can still be safe and dirty and wrong and of course thusly OH SO RIGHT! SO GO FIND IT!

touch and be touched a women knows what she wants and a man knows what she wants...both enjoy oral sex.lol