Sexy ways to make your lover last longer

yeah, more foreplay and the position. I like the man on top better. I also love stradling my guy spontaneously while he is sitting. Slowing things down can help also. He has to go slower and mash and grind a little harder. One good position that will help is man on top with one of his legs over yours and you scoot down some to where he is over you more. Almost always works. Or he put both his legs over yours and both your legs closed and that almost always works in shorter time. Also, the man's mission has got to be to satisfy the woman first and always his main goal. He needs to get more turned on by seeing and hearing the woman satisfied. I had a great lover like that once, no matter how long, he was there to finish the job. It helps when the guy dont rush you or make comments like it takes you a long time when it has only been 15 minutes of non stimulating in/out. Otherwise, say no or act annoyed with him when he ask for sex and he will try to figure out a way to last longer so you wont say no anymore.

More foreplay sounds acceptable to me.

What?! No comments in regards to the photo? Gotta luv it!

Considering that the problem isn't that one's lover reaches orgasm quickly--it's that one's lover reaches orgasm much quicker than you do--you have three options. You (plural you) can slow down your partner, you (plural you) can speed up yourself (singular you), or you (plural you) can do a combination of the previous two. Quite honestly, you're more likely to have success if you try for the second option. For you to know how to go through your arousal cycle more quickly, you have to know your triggers, and this means spending some time self-loving. If you don't know how to arouse yourself, expecting your partner to figure it out is just ridiculous. If you have difficulties with getting enough lubrication quickly enough, there's no law against using lubricant, even if you're relatively young. Reaching sexual compatibility (I do think that most couples can find a sex life compromise that leaves them both happy) is a two-way street, and we'd do well to remember it.

It's called cuniligus and topical rub before entering the vaginal region.

It's sad that some women would want to make sex less pleasurable for their partner via desensitization instead of working together to make it better for both partners.

Look, it might be selfish if he just humps you twice and is done but it's equally selfish for you to numb him up and use him as a toy while he hardly feels anything.

You deserve a nice 9 incher silent night

That's easy...Find one that will. Never try harder to help someone who wont or can't help themselves and things happen as they should when it comes to matters of nature...even mistakes. If thier mind and heart aren't in it, then they will always lack the emotional content for you to touch thier soul.

Laughing at David's comment :)
Somehow I missed the photo..It was the best part of the entire article..

Bebefj- I dont really agree with you that if your partner comes too quickly and doesnt respond to your needs that you should say no to him for sex, thats just cruel. If your partner doesnt know exactly what it is that turns you on or makes you orgasm then tell him. Tell him what it is you like and dont like and he will get the hint. Telling him no to sex because you cant express your feelings on not being pleasured is immature. If you are both adults you should be able to talk about this kindof stuff and if not then whats the point of a relationship. So if acting annoyed or saying no to sex because your not fully satisfiesd is what you do then I feel sorry for you and your man!