by QuickieChick Laurel House
Laurel House and checkhimout.com Man-VentoryDo you now what men find seriously sexy in a woman? Confidence. Now, women get to show that confidence from the very beginning...
Roles are being reversed in the realm of online dating. Forget men taking hold of the reins, because women are now taking charge of their dating destiny!
In order to fully grasp this revolutionary swapping of gender roles in a dating situation, it is important to address the problems that have plagued online dating scenarios, until now. The typical, antiquated online dating situation usually consists of:
1. Singles sifting through loads of messages, pokes, likes and other modes of acknowledgement trying to find the "few and far between" gems.
2. Dealing with some seriously creepy messages.
3. Dealing with other "spam-like" messages that are clearly cut and pasted.
4. Dealing with messages that are, simply put, just solicitations for sex.
5. Stressing over the question of "do I seem desperate if I reach out first?"
6. Waiting - sitting and waiting over and over again for someone who you viewed, hoping that they have noticed you too.
7. Wondering if the other person actually exists. Is the profile dated? Is it simply fake? The curiosity can be torture!
8. Feeling rejected when you don't get a response, discover the profile is a sham or are simply told that they aren't interested.
And that's why it's time to change up the old system and give women the power to take control and show off their sexy, confident selves!
It is time for women to rid themselves of those crazy hurdles that hinder online dating and embrace the new dating culture. Now, singles in America and the United Kingdom can eradicate no-win scenarios in online relationships, thanks to a new dating service, that seriously is revolutionizing online dating culture and it's called Checkhimout.com. Basically, it's a female-controlled love market, the only dating website where women are in the driver's seat and doing the picking! Because really, men often use the wrong head when it comes to selecting their potential mates… while women use our hearts and minds too.
Strong is Sexy
Let's face it, women who are strong and confident- are sexy! This doesn't mean that guys are allowed to be lazy or cease to put effort into the relationship. Men like a woman who can take charge, knows what she wants and goes after it, without being overly demanding. Women can be all of this and more, but still do like to be taken care of. So while the lady might do the picking with Checkhimout.com, or in any real-life scenario, she can still put it on her guy to plan and take care of the date- there's nothing wrong with a woman being an independent traditionalist!
Why would a guy want to be part of the inventory of men- the "man-ventory" (that's what they call the "products" or men on checkhimout.com)? Guys, let me ask you:
Wouldn't it be nice to be the desired one for once?
Wouldn't you like to be the one who is chased?
Stop wasting time sending all of those unanswered emails and see how it feels to be on the receiving end for a refreshing change of pace! Women actually are just as into the chase as you. We know what we want, and we're ready to go after it! No games, no gimmicks - just dating made easy.
Whether you're into the new form of online dating or not, ladies must remember that a date isn't a one-sided thing. This isn't a job interview where you sit and think "pick me, pick me!" You have a say. He's out with you because he finds you interesting too (and most likely, he's also thinking "pick me, pick me!") Remember to have confidence ladies…Confidence is key.
Laurel HouseLaurel House is a LifeStylist, Dating and Relationship Expert, 4x published Lifestyle Author, and nationally recognized Print and Online Magazine Writer covering travel, relationships, healthy food and fitness (New You, Women's Health, First for Women, Men's Journal, Yahoo! Shine, Elegant Bride, Fit, Spa, Fit Yoga, Playboy, etc). Beyond writing, she has appeared as an expert on television morning shows including E! News, Weekend TODAY, The Daily Buzz, Better.TV, Good DayLA, CBS, Fox, NBC, and ABC Morning News shows both locally and nationally, and her YouTube videos have received over 9 million views. Her 4th book "QuickieChick's Cheat Sheet to Life, Love, Food, Fitness, Fashion and Finance on a Less than Fabulous Budget" was published by St. Martin's in May 2012. She is also hired to give personalized dating and relationship advice at ScrewingTheRules.com