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    Teacher Fired For Having Premarital Sex: Justified or Too Far?

    By Marianne Beach, GALTime.com staff

    photo: courtesy Jarretta Hamilton

    Jarretta Hamilton was excited as could be when she found she was pregnant with her sixth child--until she found out that child would cost her her job.

    A widower and mother of five children from her first marriage, Hamilton was working as a fourth grade teacher at the Southerland Christian School in Saint Cloud, Florida when she met Samuel Treftz and started dating. They got engaged and three weeks before they said I do, she conceived her daughter.

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    But when she went to the school to ask for a standard six-week maternity leave in the fall, she says they first balked at the cost to cover her, then questioned her conception date. Soon after she was terminated from her position due to "fornication, sex outside of marriage." And, she says, they told all her co-workers about it, too.

    Seriously? I mean, sure, in an ideal world, teachers would serve as role models to their students. But this isn't exactly Pamela Smart, convicted of having sex with her students and convincing them to murder her husband, now is it? This is an adult woman, conceiving a child, out of love, with the man she planned to marry 21 days later. Heck, she could have just lied and kept her job. But because she was honest to a very invasive, unfair question asked the administration, she was given a pink slip instead of a baby shower.

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    I could understand a little better if Hamilton had signed some kind of morality contract--specifically stating she would not engage in premarital sex or other such activities--at least she'd know what she was getting into. But she didn't--and she claims she didn't even know she was doing anything wrong. So was it really a case of moral depravity that prompted her dismissal? Or perhaps a school looking to make a costly leave of absence go away?


    In either case, do you believe teachers--either in private or public schools--should be held to a certain moral code? What do you think about THIS case? We want to hear from you!

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    • Jean Summers  •  7 days ago
      -.- i dont even know what i read right now
    • Donnie G P  •  Lake Charles, Louisiana  •  8 days ago
      She should have known it was part of the job and a moral issue .
      • Nobody 7 days ago
        Um, no. Unless it affected her job, the school should have had nothing to do with it. I'm sick of these (mostly Christian) institutions thinking that they have the right to fire people for not following their personal beliefs. What if a jew fired somone because they weren't kosher? What if, instead of a Christian institution, the school from the article was Islamic? The hell raised would be enormous. My job/boss/coworkers have NO BUSINESS being in my personal life! I don't care what religion you follow.
      • Mr. Suspicious 7 days ago
        I agree. Unless she does something that negatively affects her coworkers or her job they have no right to fire her in such a way. Sex before marrige isn't a crime, christian school or not they obide by the law of the state and the nation, not their religious laws. Unless it is specified that she can't have sex before marrying the to-be sexual partner then doing this is completely irrational.
      • Donnie G P 4 days ago
        I don't think sex was the problem it was she was not married at christian school and how can she be an example if she does not carry moral values .
    • TONY  •  Richardson, Texas  •  10 days ago
      SERIOUSLY???????????? FOR REAL?????????????
    • Natashia  •  Everett, Washington  •  1 day 17 hours ago
      If I may share my blunt opinion... yes, people are roll models. That goes for everyone. People are human, that goes for everyone. I think between jobs and personal life this is drawing the line and dissrespecting the individuals personal comforts and PERSONAL lifestyle. To me I would maybe expect and state that it's a different situation you would see in a christian private school but I'm sorry, who says that the higher up isn't making any wrong choices outside of their christian relationship with God? Guess what? If God didn't agree with her having a child... guess what, she wouldn't have been born. If the gal didn't get pregnant, do you think they'd be getting on her about still having sex outside marriage? Who says the rest of their teachers aren't doing the same thing? Let God deal with his people, not some school program just because they feel they need to make some statment about what they may dissagree on. There are more important things to be dealing with. Be happy you have a good teacher who embraces life! :)

      I think I've said enough.
    • Tejuana  •  7 days ago
      So instead, they'd rather teach the students that you should be perfect and without flaws, and that it is unacceptable to make mistakes? Yeah, I'm sure something like this will never happen to any of them right? Smh!
    • kayllie  •  Warren, Oregon  •  6 days ago
      I don't think it's right - private or public school. If the issue was morality then a contract would have exsisted beofre this, adn she would have known the day she was hhired becasue they would have asked her to read and sign something. Thia sounds like the school did not wnt to have to pay for her leave. This is just a case of acompany being cheap- whose morality should be questioned. I think the school's because this does not set a good example! It's similar to an employer not giveing workers full time hours (regardless of insinuated or verbal understanding) because they don't want ot have to pay into benefits for the employee! Very sad... what the name & location of this school. I wouldn't want my students going to a school where they practice hypocracy!
    • Litree  •  Tipton, Iowa  •  17 days ago
      Are all of you stupid? In the artical I just read, it states that she (DID NOT SIGN) ANY such agreement! I also did not see where it mentioned any amount of money for the 6 week leave. And if she is in a relationship with a man and they decide to have relations! That's his/her business! She had 5 children from her first marriage, and it sounds like she had no problem raising them herself after her first husband died. Last, who in the hell made any of you negative ppl God and said you have the right to judge any one? LET HE WITHOUT SIN CAST THE FIRST STONE!
    • TWH  •  Grand Rapids, Michigan  •  12 days ago
      If u have a problem with the couple being different, (enter racism), check yourselves!!!
    • TWH  •  Grand Rapids, Michigan  •  12 days ago
      I hope this couple does not recieve reprecussions to the behavior, it is usually spontanious! Usually driven by the sub-concious, not the concious. (Really human nature vs. our own reality). Stuff happens in the midst of sexuallity!
    • Anothervoice  •  1 month 2 days ago
      @Marianne Beach, Your article is a perfect example of the media trying to form public opinion. You didn't bother mentioning the important fact that this teacher worked for a private, Christian school. I think that your reporting capabilities are sorely lacking.
    • Tikanni  •  1 month 3 days ago
      It's a Christian private school, it becomes their call! I personally don't agree with the school's position however the school has their private laws. Personally, I sympathize with the couple but, rules are rules. If it were a public school it should make national news and the authority of that public school should be replaced and the woman should be reinstated as a teacher in good standing with
      complete remuneration!
      • Nobody 4 days ago
        So, if I slap a religious symbol on something, I can discriminate against whoever I want to? Cool! I can't wait to fire someone for not being kosher!
    • Trebor  •  Melbourne, Australia  •  22 days ago
      And if they did there studies correctly they would truly know the meaning if a man lay with a woman it is good they he take her up for his wife (yes) that is honour ok and trust the meaning is man was ment to be honest and to take a wife did not mean marrage it ment life long comitment to that one person and it was made public that all should know this is how God wanted man to be honest to his word and curruption has torte us all different.
    • Baqir  •  Khartoum, Sudan  •  18 days ago
      Conception of a child out of marriage for a mother of six and also a widower is no doubt an indecent thing but this should not be amounting to firing her at her job which was very indecent of that school's administration. So its a clash between two indecencies :)
    • Kelly  •  Boise, Idaho  •  25 days ago
      to far the schools need to learn rights human rights not just theres
    • Jerry  •  Portland, Maine  •  1 month 12 days ago
      Horny is horny,6kids i rest my case!
      • BreannaW 1 month 11 days ago
        So then, if you've had sex more than six times, you're horny? Lol Sometimes, it only takes one time to get pregnant...
      • Jerry 1 month 10 days ago
        Only did it 6 times what planet you from ! Six times in one nite maybe!
      • Betty Spaghetti 1 month 8 days ago
        Jerry. You are stupid. That is all.
    • World Traveler on night o ...  •  1 month 16 days ago
      The school board is behind the times. Back in the 50s it would make some sense, but now days it's ridiculous. When I was in college the strictest upbringing led to the wildest kids in the dorm. Parents need to teach good judgement not rely on images from school to be the moral code.
    • marvin  •  1 month 22 days ago
      i see a lawsuit in that school's future
      • Alicia 22 days ago
        The Pregnancy Discrimination Act of 1978

        An Act

        To amend Title VII of the Civil Rights Act of 1964 to prohibit sex discrimination on the basis of pregnancy.
    • Beverly B  •  Caledonia, Wisconsin  •  1 month 11 days ago
      the Southerland Christian School in Saint Cloud, Florida are sending out a message. We know if you date this might occur and the school will not stop interracial dating or marriages
      this is from bibical times to now. The wrong message to children yet a right message to them
      there is surely a debate on this matter. Children don't have sex before marriage or children don't date outside your race?
    • Amy  •  Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania  •  1 month 23 days ago
      I dont buy it. Anyone working in a Christian institution that I have ever known had to sign a morality clause as a condition of employment. I'm not saying what the school did was right by any means. But generally Christian schools hire christians to teach there and premarital is frowned upon in the christian faith--I can't see how she could claim to not know that?
      • LilianaA 1 month 22 days ago
        I'm with you on tht...I teach in a Christian School and if I were yo end up pregnant...the same thing would happen to me
      • Lucie 1 month 21 days ago
        I don't know what type of Christian faith that you all have but my Christian faith teaches me that I have right to judge other and that God is a forgiving God and all I have to do is go to him and ask him for his forgiveness with a pure heart and I will be forgiven! No where in the Christian faith does it say that a school has a right to judge someone because they fall short of his will because he knew that we would fall short that is the reason that he sent his Son (you know Christ of which the Christian faith is based on). This is the exact reason why religion has always been the down fall of society. Get a relationship with God and I promise you won't be condemn someone for their mistakes!
      • stratis 1 month 12 days ago
        the christian faith is based off of a general ideal that despite each HUMAN BEINGS short comings they should be treated with love and compassion despite the choices they have made . Clearly she is a widow ( not a widower as the typo in the reported story would suggest ) and has obviously been involved in a serious and committed relationship with her now fiance , while premarital sex OBVIOUSLY occurred doesn't it set a sound moral objective to see her already engaged and moving towards a marriage before the actual birth of the child. OF COURSE the school morally feels outraged , but in the 21st centenary..._- is it not better to show someone who follows a moral belief instead of terminating what seems to be a valid life embraced by the same faith that she teaches? Gods plan for EVERYONE in life is varied ; like snowflakes no two are the same. Who are we to terminate this woman or judge her choices ?! I don't know what her contract stipulated in her employment contract but i do know that she has made the best out of difficult situation and should be at least commended for that , especially in an age where the values of a family unit have come into question , my mother became pregnant with me in a much different situation , but was blessed by god in not only the renewal for her faith but her ability to counsel others , perhaps Jarretta Hamilton will also be able to share this message to other young ladies. She is to be commended for her bravery , as christian _TRUE_ Christians our compassion is to be without end _ to terminate this woman's employment is to say that we have turned our backs on compassion and understanding even though in may not be our fondest with or viewpoint ! Expected or not , this child is part of her life and in gods plan _ as a christian organization she should NEVER have been disposed from her position ( case and point the virgin Mary ( who wile not widowed was blessed with a child which was an unpopular concept of her time and conceived a child of great influence - while Jarretta Hamilton's child may not be the second coming it is no less a child of god who of no reason should be shunned from the CHRISTIAN eye ... or faith ). This child clearly brought two people closer two the bonds of gods holy matrimony and the fulfilling bond of marriage -THAT is the lesson every true christian should be able to embrace , next to loving thy neighbor as thy self and not casting aspersions unto others. Christians teach LOVE , and that is what we should preach. Its saddening that this would even be a discussion !!!
    • Teresa Leake  •  Oklahoma City, Oklahoma  •  1 month 8 days ago
      that went over my head.i know that if the student is young I CAN understand them getting fired,.these are the sign of what was told to us when we where little .in the bible,.tell things that are going to happen..crime.fauid.shooting.lying.teacher are suppose to be married for a life but that not the case..I don't know the whole story of the matter or sitaution.but in the end it will tell itself.to many people are getting married for the wrong reason not the right reasson.I am not herr e to judge only God can do that.

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