blonde-woman-textingFlirtexting. At some point you're going to have to do it, but if you don't know where to start or what to say, here are some pointers for tapping out a teasing text that's sure to get his attention.
Once you've been dating someone for a while and are comfortable enough to talk about new positions over brunch, you can send him some racy stuff. But if you've been dating for less than a month, it's best to keep it PG-13. The point of these texts is to tease - you want him to snap that phone shut with a little spring in his step because you're starting to be more forward about your interest and attraction. The point is to be fun and outgoing, and leave him wanting more.
DO start simple. If you haven't talked in a few days and you're ready to get a conversation going, a simple "Hi :-)" lets him know you're thinking of him and are ready to flirtext. DON'T say, "What are you doing?" That comes across as though you're stalking him or accusing him of something.
If you want to plant a sexy seed that can bloom at your date later, DO let him in on the sweet way you're spending your afternoon. "Just doing a little shopping at Victoria's Secret!" or "About to relax with a glass of wine in the tub." Anything that gives him the idea that you're doing something sensual is a good idea. DON'T overshare. He doesn't need to know you're naked or pleasuring yourself.
DON'T underestimate the power of your camera phone! But leave a little something to be desired. DO try a "What do you think of my new skirt?" text that shows your skirt from a sexy angle that reveals as much as it conceals. DON'T do this if you haven't been dating for very long.
DO flirt by being indirect. If you're stuck at a lame work event, make a joke that lets him know you're thinking of him. "All this super interesting talk of upcoming projects and outreach almost makes me miss you less."
If he's leading the conversation, DO ask questions. "Oh yeah??" "How come?" "Why's that?" He might be trying to flirtext you; questions will give him the green light.
DON'T use 2 mny abbrvs. It's hard to find a text sexy if it's heavy on the symbols, numbers, and shorthand. "Want 2 do u" is trashy. "I want you tonight" is hot. DO use emoticons to keep it from sounding like an old-fashioned romance novel.Read 5 More Teasing Text Tips at TechCoquette.com
by Rachel Wilkerson
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