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    The place men are most likely to cheat will surprise you


    Do these women want your man?
    If you think your man is more likely to cheat at a bachelor party than anywhere else, think again. It's actually the wedding where your man is most likely to stray, especially if you aren't there. And after my wedding 8.5 years ago, I believe it.

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    The news comes after IllicitEncounters.com surveyed 2,000 cheating men and found that one third of them had cheated at a wedding where they had gone solo. So if you have ever sent your man to a friend's wedding alone, just hope he didn't do more than you know!

    Here are the places men are most likely to cheat:

    • Wedding: 32 percent
    • Bachelor party: 27 percent
    • Office Christmas party: 21 percent
    • School reunion: 9 percent

    Meanwhile, women thought their partner was most likely to cheat at these places:

    • Office Christmas party: 37 percent
    • Bachelor party: 35 percent
    • School reunion: 17 percent
    • Wedding: 11 percent

    So, ladies, your men have picked the perfect place to cheat! It's the place you would never suspect. Grrr ... it makes sense, right? Weddings are the perfect pick-up place. People are in from out of town, they get close fast, drink together all night, and celebrate love.

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    So what is the answer? Here's what: Don't let your man go alone to a wedding! Seriously. Even if you totally trust your man, like I do. At my own wedding, there were more illicit hookups than one can even imagine. Though I won't reveal names, I wasn't all that thrilled with most of them.

    Remove the temptation. Trust me on this. Get on that plane with your hubs or both of you stay home. You will be happy you did!

    Would you let your man go to a wedding alone?


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    Written by Sasha Brown-Worsham for CafeMom's blog, The Stir.

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    100 comments

    • Jeremey  •  Gainesville, Florida  •  1 month 14 days ago
      How little you ladies appear to know about men.
    • Julissa  •  9 months ago
      If someone is going to cheat on you they're going to do it whenever they have the chance, it can be in your own home for all you know. I just think cheating is disgusting, selfish and disrespectful. If you're going to cheat on someone just break up with them.
    • shine  •  9 months ago
      In all my life I never had a man who didn't cheat . Nor lie . Three relationships in the last year and half ended because of cheating , and it was NOT because they couldn't have anything in the bedroom with me they wanted , it was because they had done it all thier life with other's . Cheaters cheat , doesn't matter male or female , they are just not good people .
    • Wicked Sister  •  9 months ago
      Men cheat because they're insecure creatures and they need illicit female attention to boost their ego. I boost my man's ego plenty, and I know he's about as likely to cheat on me as I am on him... which is 0% chance. An insecure man will cheat any chance he gets. A secure man who knows he's loved will not... unless he's got a screw loose that makes him genetically inclined to screw around on his significant other.
    • bookworm  •  9 months ago
      I went to the wedding of my in-law's youth minister at their church, and at the reception of the huge fancy wedding, they had the event of paying a dollar to dance with the bride/groom. While my husband and I were taking our turn, the groom and I smalltalked a bit, and then he starts flirting with me! I was like, "Er?" and he said more, and ohh I was so grossed. I said, "I don't kno if this is some kind of fidelity test, or what, but hello, I'm married, and so are you, so go flirt with your wife, she's right over there, dancing with my husband. I won't drop you, because that would be rude, but I am so ready for my turn to be done". I couldn't wait to step away. Gag.
    • Sabrina  •  9 months ago
      women lie, men lie so therefore women cheat, men cheat... its all the same ppl... dont matter where they are most likely to cheat at.. they gone cheat regardless.. hell they can meet at wal mart, or the malll...
    • AXLE  •  9 months ago
      Men as well as Women most often cheat because they have an emptyness inside thats not being filled. And most often its not the sex thats wrong. Its just an outlet. for an unfofilled need. Sad to say most of the time it don't help. Kinda like drugs. Good in the short turm but very bad over the long haul. Thats my view AXLE:}
    • A Yahoo! user  •  9 months ago
      WE ARE CHEATERS AND WE WILL KEEP ON CHEATING (Re-edited)

      Listen ladies, all the theories, all this opinions and fuss about cheating will get you nowhere, until YOU FINALLY UNDERSTAND that cheating is a man's driving force triggered by his libido, with only few exceptions... First, we saw our father flirt, give the dirty look to curvaceous women, or simply cheat our mother with another woman, knowingly so. When little and inocent BUT NOT DUMB, we always suspected of something, did hear something or simply saw something. We kbew something was going on... Nowaday We --as grown ups-- assumed that that was permissible even though it wasn't right. School days taught us to look and desire more than one girl, do whatever it takes to see their underwear, take secret pictures and have two or more girlfriends at the same time and place. And we brag about it!!! Yeah! Remember the secret competition between us and our friends betting on who would get to the beautiful one first or chasing fresh meat? And then the other girl? Get the picture? Well, that's where it all begun... There were instances when two girls fought hard for the right to our love... I imagine. Oh, Baby! Did we feld proud about being a "DISPUTED MAN!". That's how and when we learned to be cheaters. All those stories about "OUR SWEET HEART FROM SCHOOL DAYS" are mostly a lie. We made never ending conquests, we have pleny sexual encounters; we laid there, over there and who knows with whom and where... All that put together made us the cheating men we are today. We were made cheaters and it is too late now. Even when we don't commit the carnal sin, our eyes wander around, rooming, scanning the environment looking for the thrilled and the kill, looking for the possible encounter that will stump us over the emotional hills. So, all this stuff about PLACES WHERE WE CHEAT, OCASSIONS, HONESTY, INFLUENCE OF OTHERS, TRUST, DRINKING, LOYALTY AND SO ON, are simply circumstantial ingredients of the theating state of men. Is true a man can be faithful. But the only person that can stop a man from cheating is himself; when he --for conviction of his heart-- decides to say ADIOS to cheating. Other than that, there's no way we will ever stop being cheaters!
    • A Yahoo! user  •  9 months ago
      WE ARE CHEATERS AND WE WILL KEEP ON CHEATING

      Listen ladies, all the theories, all this opinions and fuss about cheating will get you nowhere until YOU FINALLY UNDERSTAND that cheating is a man's culture, with only few exceptions... First, we saw our father flirt, give the dirty look or simply cheat our mother with another woman. If not, we always suspected of something, did hear something or simply saw something. We --as now grown ups-- assumed that that was permissible even though it wasn't right. Shool days taught us to look to more than girl, do whatever it takes to see their underwear and have two or more girlfriends at the same time; and probably at the same school or neiborghood. Remember the time when we brag about it? Yeah!!! Remember the secret competition between us and our friends betting who would get to the beautiful one first? And then the other one? and then... Well, that's where it all begun... There were instances when two girls fought hard for the right to our love... I imagine. Oh, Baby! Did we feld proud of being a "DISPUTED MAN!!! So, we learned, we made never ending conquests, we laid there, over there and who knows where and with whom... All that put together made us the cheating men we are today. We were made cheaters and it is too late now. Even when we don't commit the carnal sin, our eyes wander around, rooming, scanning the environment looking for the thrilled, the possible hook up, the one lover who stumped us over the emotional hills. So, all this stuff about PLACES WHERE WE CHEAT, OCASSIONS, HONESTY, INFLUENCE OF OTHERS, TRUST, DRINKING AND SO ON, are simply circunstantial ingredients of the theating state of men. Now, the only way person that can stop a man from cheating is himself; when he --for conviction of his heart-- decides to say ADIOS to cheating. Other than that, there's no way we will ever stop being cheaters!!!
      cheater is a cheater no matter what not sexualy satisfyed or sex

      To cheat or not is a personal decision /

      Honesty leads to Trust and Trust leads to Loyalty / Men will cheat no matter what!

      The place isn't what makes a man or woman decide to cheat
    • james  •  9 months ago
      Gregory is correct!! & it is true for both sexes
    • Scott G  •  9 months ago
      Wow, way to write an article that just makes men look like crap. Anyone feel like a little man-bashing today?
    • BAKARE  •  9 months ago
      95% of men cheat, it may be anywhere, it may even be at ur nose.
    • charity  •  9 months ago
      maturity is an attitude so if a men cheat when trusted not to then....
    • Vagabond King  •  9 months ago
      I don't think a serial cheater would cheat at any of those; I think they would cheat at the supermarket, etc., i.e. the very lowest of the low-key under-the-radar situations.

      The above list is for amateurs, much the same as the type who get drunk on New Years are amateurs. Real drunks stay away from that.
    • banana  •  9 months ago
      im a firm believer in behind even the most beautiful woman theres a guy that cheated on her and even the greatest of men theres a girl that did it to him. you have to have trust in a relationship. if you have to tell your guy to stay home from a wedding cuz you cant go and you think he might cheat on you, you are not secure in your relationship and you either need to get rid of it or have some serious conversations with your man. trust and communication are key in relationships. there is nothing that will kill a relationship faster than no trust...and you look like a controlling b---- in the end!
    • beautiful oak  •  9 months ago
      Couldn't help but notice that all of these events typically involve a lot of drinking. Interesting.
    • nympha  •  9 months ago
      it is one"s responsibility whatever activity he or she deal with.it all starts from within having peace in life.then thats the time u can share how beautiful life is and give all your best to someone you love most.100percent u will have a happy family.
    • HakunaKahuna  •  9 months ago
      Why, of all the different Yahoo sites, does this one not allow you to give Thumbs Up or Thumbs Down to comments? That's the best part of commenting!

      Oh yeah...it's a WOMEN'S site, where everyone has to learn how to agree with each other all the time...
    • Q  •  9 months ago
      Also, what women and this article describe as "cheat", is simply what 20+ million years of evolution has bred men to do: Spread their seed far and wide in order to ensure continuation of his line. A man is a "sperm factory", producing billions of sperm each day in order to support this process. A woman releases one egg every 28 days.......... You guys do the math.........
    • Q  •  9 months ago
      Hate to burst the bubble on this article, but every woman at every wedding I've ever attended was there with a date. There were NEVER any women at any wedding alone - EVER that I've ever been to or seen.

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