A hard working woman has to deal with all kinds of tiring, strenuous activity throughout the day. From waking up and cooking breakfast for her male counterpart; usually giving up extra amounts of sleep each day. Next, depending on whether she's a school student, or executive woman dealing with the stress and headaches that accompanies these two professions; from bosses to professors. After that coming home and still being responsible for her fiduciary responsibilities like washing the dishes, doing laundry and preparing an excellent, exquisite cuisine. When it's all over and its all done off goes the television along with the lights and what comes next has to be on the minds of at least 85% of all men. SEX, and the question surfaces is there such a thing as being Too Tired For Sex?
From a males perspective I would say the answer is no. Forget Anniverseries, birthdays and some holidays the one thing a guy knows and never loses track of is, the last time he had sex. We can tolerate a woman being tired and lazy on most of her other activities and responsibilities, but this one in particular has to be fulfilled. I'm not stating that when a man demands it he should receive it automatically every time, but a claim of being too tired does not signify a plausible enough reason for such a prudish temperament in the bedroom. I know what women are asking themselves. "What if I'm just not in the mood?" I understand that state of mind, every once in awhile guys are not in the mood as well, but sex serves as more than just an aphrodisiac. Sex strengthens the intimacy of relationships as well as relieves stress, releases tension and ultimately improves the overall health of ones codependent connection with their partner. The absence of sex for a guy is almost the same as a woman's time of the month. We start going through withdrawls, becoming irritable, even losing sleep because our bodies physically and emotionally can not function without it. Right up there with communication, the key to a healthy relationship is a healthy sex life.