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- If someone on a date is pressuring you to do something that you don't feel comfortable with, that goes against your values, and that you simply don't want to do, then stand up for yourself and don't do it! Knowing yourself and your boundaries is way sexier than being a wishy washy weakling. (Bonus tip: If you have a job that requires you to use debate skills - like, we don't know, say, a trial lawyer? - then there's no shame in employing some of those skills on a date to make your case. This does NOT, however, mean you should, under any circumstances, roleplay that you are actually doing your job - like, we don't know, say, a local news reporter? - in the middle of a date in an attempt to be playful, especially if you have not yet mastered the skills of said job.)
- Don't be Drunk Girl from SNL: KNOW YOUR ALCOHOL LIMITS! Always. But especially on a first date.
- When you're going to dump someone, don't string them along with extended kindness, concern, and sympathy - it will only give them false hope. Be nice and gentle, but get to the point quickly. It's like taking off a Bandaid: the longer you take to remove yourself fully from the relationship, the more it's gonna hurt.
- If you do something dumb on a first date, don't dwell on it on the second date. In fact, don't even bring it up. Forget about it and move on…to the totally normal and not-at-all awkward rose ceremony portion of your second date.
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