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    Trash the Dress Pics Make Wasting Money Look Fabulous (PHOTOS)

    Trash the dressTrash the dressA show of hands: who has a couple hundred, maybe even a couple thousand dollars to burn, sometimes literally? As if there just aren't enough ways to blow money on the grand ol' affair that is the American wedding, trash the dress photo shoots are becoming more popular, which in turn makes me more intrigued.

    The average walk down the aisle, with all the bells and whistles, already costs about $26,501. (Ouch.) Some brides wear their actual dress, which means anywhere from $200 on up to $2,000 is down the tubes. (And, judging from what I see on Say Yes to the Dress, even more than that.) Others buy another gown specifically to be trashed, which is an added expense - especially if you don't scoop that bad boy up from the local thrift store.

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    It may not make the most sense to destroy a dress in the name of individualistic photography for your nuptials, but some of them sure do come out looking hot. Like this:

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    OK, I guess that looks like fun?

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    A photo shoot should never necessitate stop, drop, and roll
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    And then there's this...
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    Not even if somebody paid me, but hey--they're happy
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    Walking through an NYC subway? Yep. Trashed.
    Of course, to some people, the whole shebang is a waste of cash, this fascination we have with weddings. But I say if you're going to do it, at least make it memorable and, for heaven's sake, creative. If you're going to trash a sentimental, expensive-as-all-get-out gown, make the shots mean something. Truth be told, trashing the dress doesn't necessarily mean you have to trash the dress. Sometimes it ain't nothing that a little dry cleaning magic and elbow grease won't get out.

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    However it came about, Trash the Dress photography is raising eyebrows - and changing the way brides are documenting their journeys to the big day. I've yet to be proposed to, much less outfitted in a fluffy confusion of white tulle, satin, or crinoline. If and when I am, I reckon I'll be one of the more conservative dress trashers, just in case I want to pass the gown down to Girl Child just so she can roundly reject it and poke fun at its old timey-ness.

    So would you trash your wedding dress? Even a little bit?

    Written by Janelle Harris on CafeMom's blog, The Stir.

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    9 comments

    • life_is_good2010  •  3 months ago
      As a photographer, I think this would be an excellent shoot to go on! I would definitely be all for it if the bride was interested. I don't really get the symbolism (if there is any?) behind burning the dress? The paint one looks like the most fun :)
      • Andrea 3 months ago
        My friend is ruining her dress, because she recently got divorced. Maybe the fire represents her marriage went up in flames so her dress should too?
    • Dana  •  Omaha, Nebraska  •  3 months ago
      This is kinda fun but I can't help but to think why not donate to someone who is less fortunate and would appreciate the kind gesture?
    • jade  •  Wilson, Kansas  •  3 months ago
      Even though this is super creative, I rather donate my dress to someone.
    • Wicked Sister  •  3 months ago
      These pictures p*** me off. I was fortunate to have my amazing father spend $750 on my gown, which is GORGEOUS!!!, and there is absolutely NO WAY IN h. e. double hockey sticks I would do anything to damage it. These people that are "trashing" gowns that are more than likely far more expensive than mine are wasteful creatures. But, then again, I suppose I've forgotten the fact that we DO live in a throw away society.
      I could almost see it if they wanted to pick up a second hand gown at a thrift store for 50 bucks and snap some creative photos. I'm all for crazy creativity. But most of the dresses above do NOT look like $50 thrift store buys.
    • Julie  •  Austin, Texas  •  3 months ago
      I thought the whole trash the dress thing was for wemen getting remarried to trash the dress from their first marriage. You devorced the man now it's time to kill the dress that you married him in. I have also seen these pics on the invites to a I'm finally devorced party.
    • Isa  •  3 months ago
      Well, first of all, economically speaking... it was meant to be a dress to wear once, by making a trash the dress shoot, I'd wear it TWICE (and maybe the second time would be funnier, since no stress would be in my mind that day), so, it makes the "wear" 50% cheaper.

      Second, why would I want to keep my dress untouched for the rest 50 years of my life?? (actually, it may be already a little torn at the wedding night, if you know what I mean) Just to see it how yellow-ish it became, and how after my pregnancies I just can't even try it on?? No thank you.

      Third... no, I don't want my daughter (if I ever have one, I need to find her a father first) nor my daughter-in-law-to-be (again, if I happen to have a son) to wear my dress on her wedding day, it's gonna be her day, and she should wear HER dress. It would be more useful if, in a rush Halloween, she may dress up as a zombie bride, the dress would be a cheap and easy option for her, or even when she's 4 just to play dress up with her little friends. If she wants to wear something her mommy wore on her wedding, the accessories would be untouched, I swear (not the shoes, those would be destroyed before her parents' wedding party is over).

      And finally, if I get married, I will be married to a man, not the dress... so, when we get old,
      looking at the dress would mean nothing compared to see all the trouble we went through, all the fun we had together, and what we achieved after all those years, and those photos would mean much more to us than an untouched wedding dress, because we had a hell of a time taking those, with all the wedding stress behind us, starting our journey with the right foot after the honeymoon.

      So... economically speaking, after the session, the dress would be worn not once, but twice, used as a toy, and a Halloween costume. Sounds like a deal, doesn't it?
    • Nassira  •  3 months ago
      lol yeah i just wed last year. I'm on the fence with this decision. But I do like the idea alot.
    • George Jetson  •  3 months ago
      I LIKE MY WOMEN A LITTLE ON THE TRASHY SIDE.
    • Andrea  •  Boynton Beach, Florida  •  3 months ago
      I love the "mud" dress lol. My friend and I are going to do this with her wedding dress and my brides maid dress. She wants to get rid of her dress in a grand way, so the beach is looking like the place to do it.
      • George Jetson 3 months ago
        I do love dirty women.... Just a bunch
      • George Jetson 3 months ago
        Andrea; nice to walk in the sunshine...but sometimes it's oh so great to dance in the rain.
      • Andrea 3 months ago
        George - I love that :)

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