VIDEO: Help! I'm Getting Divorced for the Third Time; What Am I Doing Wrong?

If you or someone you know has been married more than once, you may wonder if you'll ever be able to make it last a lifetime.

In this video, clinical psychologist and YourTango Expert Dr. Jack Singer explains what to do when you struggle to make marriage work. Read More: Should I Leave My Alcoholic Husband?

"The first thing you have to realize is that this may not be your fault." Though you may be inclined to blame yourself for the downfall of your union, it's essential to understand that in order for a marriage to thrive, both parties must be on board and cooperate fully.

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