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    VIDEO: Help! I'm More Attracted to the Men I Work with Than My Husband!



    Do you have a "work husband" or "work wife" that you like to flirt with in the office? Are you worried that this attraction-however small-might border on overpowering your attraction to your own spouse?

    In this video, Therapist, Spiritual Healing Expert and YourTango Expert Dr. Erica Goodstone helps a reader who finds that she's more attracted to her successful, hard-working coworkers than her husband, who doesn't have the same drive when it comes to his career. She's worried that this discovery will have a negative affect on her marriage.

    Dr. Erica gives her advice to this surprisingly common dilemma. See why stopping the comparisons and starting to be more supportive of your spouse can be just the thing your real relationship needs.

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    21 comments

    • ler  •  26 days ago
      Work husband is just a way to put a cutesy spin on an "adulterer in waiting."
    • H S  •  24 days ago
      .. Baaaahh.. Just a cover story for how babes advance at the workplace 90% of the time.. Nothing more than prostitution.. zzzzzz..
    • Moatcat  •  Atlanta, Georgia  •  26 days ago
      I used to work with a woman who was more like an "older sister"(about 11 yrs older to be exact) than an "office wife"---however at a get-together I was introduced as her "boyfriend"...by her own husband (they were married over 30 years and I guess it showed he was more than OK with it)!!
    • Cheery  •  24 days ago
      It's not a decent thing for a lady to do.
    • anonymous  •  Lorain, Ohio  •  25 days ago
      I can't stand all this support for work husbands/wives. All that is just another way to justify cheating on your spouse without admitting that's what you're doing. If you are that attracted to someone other than your spouse, then I believe you need to step back and take a long, hard look at your relationship because something is definitely wrong there.
    • cave fish  •  Jackson, Mississippi  •  26 days ago
      Here kitty kitty kitty...
    • cave fish  •  Jackson, Mississippi  •  26 days ago
      Cat scratch fever...
    • Mike  •  Mt Prospect, Illinois  •  22 days ago
      stories like this ruin the idea of marriage for a man! what a #$%$
    • Silencio  •  Houston, Texas  •  25 days ago
      Just asked Ward.."if I had a work husband, what would you do"..His answer "wouldn't let you go back to work, I'm your "work" husband!"..lol gotta love that man of mine ;-)
    • Anony  •  Lakeland, Florida  •  23 days ago
      Woman sounds really shallow....her priorities are all wrong.
    • George Jetson  •  24 days ago
      just be glad it's not the other way around. your husband would be more attracted to the men you work with than you are.
    • Andrea  •  Boynton Beach, Florida  •  26 days ago
      I think it's easy to find the men you work with interesting, because you're not the one who has to soother their anger after a bad day; wash their dirty clothes; make their dinner; deal with their family, etc. In other words, you're getting their best side. I know at work I'm on my best behavior and I'm very outgoing, but at home I'm very tell it like it is and quiet. I'm not married mind you, but I remember the days when I was lol.
    • Paul  •  26 days ago
      I can understand what you are talking about, I would advise you to really look at your relationships before you continue with this type of relationship.
      I have what I would consider a work wife, we became very attracted to each other and still are but she is married now and Im in a relationship, what I did find out was that even though we both have strong feeling for each other more than likely we would have never been anything more than that because people are different out of work.
    • cave fish  •  Jackson, Mississippi  •  26 days ago
      Go ahead and do them...you know you are a little wild cat deep down inside and if you feel this way then you are not in love with your husband...but I would seriously consider if I actually like my husband as a person first... because if he is a nice guy and is faithful to you and you betray him over lust then you are going to end up looking like a dirty whor* I had a girlfriend do this to me and I'm not mad at her for being human...but it was the betrayal and the lack of decency to let me off the hook instead of making me play the chump role...for that I will not forgive her...I just wish I would have been in the other guys shoes and been the one doing her instead of the guy that cared and was at home...oh well...you live and you learn..
    • Biscuit  •  25 days ago
      I think those shoes she has on are ugly, look like witch shoes. She should be in some sexy stilettos.
    • NeikosGirl  •  23 days ago
      You should be faithful and not get yourself into these kinds of situations....... that's what Marriage and Vows are .... !
    • NeikosGirl  •  23 days ago
      Then you probably shouldn't be married then.....:'(
    • FallenA  •  Mays Landing, New Jersey  •  17 days ago
      i know one that dumped her husband for a "office" romance (lol).
      after all that lovey dovey display of "i love my man", it came down to doing her lover in the downstairs bathroom. but then again, i don't really know her surrcomstances that drove her to that. to bad though, her Ex was a HOTTIE.
    • Monkey  •  Port Orange, Florida  •  26 days ago
      Aw Hell, just go find the nearest closet and have at it. On break time.
    • George Jetson  •  25 days ago
      there you go show more interest and you can move up in the company.