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    What Does Your Erotic Fantasy Mean?

    By | Love + Sex – Tue, Aug 24, 2010 6:27 PM EDT

    You had that fantasy again, the one where you came home to find George Clooney in the kitchen, in a towel. Now you're feeling aroused, and a little embarrassed. But don't. Whatever your sexual daydreams, they are normal, says Hilda Hutcherson, M.D. She tells us what your sexual daydream says about you.

    1. Sex with another man (usually he's a celebrity). This doesn't mean you're dissatisfied with your real sex life, just that you're excited by new experiences - and, of course, gorgeous stars. Related: 28 Hot Little Sex Life Ideas

    2. Ménage à trois. If you're picturing yourself with two men, you want to be adored and doted on - heck, maybe even fought over. Thinking about yourself and your guy with another woman ignites the very sexy idea that other ladies find your guy attractive too. Related: 15 Ways to Channel Your Inner Seductress

    3. Domination. This fantasy allows you to engage in sexual stuff that may seem taboo, without any guilt. Seeing yourself as submissive can signify a desire for a loss of control; freedom from responsibility is thrilling! Related: Check Out These Other Sex-plorations in Our Sex-Life Road Test

    4. Sex with a woman. No, this doesn't necessarily mean you're questioning your sexuality. It shows that you appreciate the sexiness of the female form (we are gorgeous) - and that you're open-minded about pleasure. Related: Men Confess Their Sexual Fantasies

    5. Last but not least: Sex with your guy. This is the most common fantasy for women. It's usually more exciting than your average roll in the hay - say, a replay of your hot honeymoon. And it simply means that sex with your partner turns you on. What a great thing! Related: 26 Good Sex Tips for Married Couples


    Hilda Hutcherson, M.D., is a clinical professor of obstetrics and gynecology at Columbia University's College of Physicians and Surgeons in New York City and the author of Pleasure.

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