Ever wanted to know what goes on inside the male mind during sex? Well, you can stop waiting for your guy to tell you what he's thinking when things get hot and heavy! We have the lowdown on what real men think about kissing, hot dates, foreplay, fantasies, getting busy, and more.
On what gets him in a sexy state of mind: "I think my wife is totally hot. She'll point out what she perceives as flaws, but I think she's nuts. Even if I'm not in the mood, I'll catch a glimpse of her taking off her bra, and bam! I'm in the mood. Which is great at night, but slightly problematic in the morning if she's trying to throw some clothes on to make her train." -Dan, 31
On all-day foreplay: "One Saturday morning, my wife and I started fooling around, but before it could get hot and heavy, she jumped in the shower. Then we went shopping. But whenever we had a semi-private moment, she'd touch me. By lunchtime all I had on my mind was sex. When we finally got home, we went at it as if we hadn't seen each other in weeks." -Tim, 35
On how to make a date hot: "When we're at a dinner party and she's in the mood for some privacy with me, she'll take my hand under the table and place it on her leg - and then push it up dangerously high on her thigh. Instantly, I can't think of anything except getting home with her as fast as possible." -Paul, 38
On kissing styles: "Kissing is romantic, but having my wife suck on my tongue is so much more of a turn-on. And a guy can't help being reminded of oral sex." -Tim, 35
On a woman making the first move: "I know I'm in for quite a morning when she kisses me awake. The fact that she can't wait until I wake up on my own before pouncing shows me just how much she wants me. This impulsiveness is such a turn-on that I walk on air for the rest of the day." -Sam, 25
On his fantasies: "I fantasize about my wife doing things she won't, or things I don't want to tell her I want, like anal sex or role play." -Dave, 41
On how he keeps his love life from going MIA: "After my wife had each of our three kids, I encouraged her to go out with the girls. Women need time to reflect with friends; it's given her a clearer view on balancing her emotions about being a lover and mother in the same body. She started coming home much happier and - can I say this? - hornier." -Doug, 38
On romance: "I dig our postromp discussions. No stressy house and work talk, just fun, random stuff. We talk about our kid and what he did that day or if he said anything funny. I get teary-eyed just thinking about it." -Dan, 31
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