It didn't take long before I found out he had never been with a woman in any sort of way. Not even a first kiss. We quickly changed that, but that is when the drama began. I learned that he came from a sheltered family, was home schooled, is far more religious than myself and his parents are CRAZY. After a month of this whirl wind romance his parents had enough and forced him to break up with me. I don't mean they asked him politely, I mean they forced him to call me, break up with me and threatened to kick him out if he didn't. He is 19 years old. I was distraught and so was he, but I left it alone tried to get over him, and dated a bit. I had thought that once school started again he might still have feelings for me.
I was wrong. Once classes started at our university we started chatting again, since we have classes together 4 days a week. He apologized for everything but then dropped the bomb that he had started dating someone, the same someone who his parents wanted him to date instead of me in the first place. I figured they would break up soon, again, I was wrong.
Now the plot thickens. They have been dating three months and they are engaged! When I commented on how quick that seems, he said "well we are counting since April", and this is where I nearly lost my mind. Him and I were together for 1+ month through May. I wont pretend like that is a long time, it's not. But last time I checked May comes AFTER April. He is either lying to the girl he is engaged to, lying to the rest of the world, or lying to both. If there is one thing that pisses me off it it lying.
At this point I ask what do I do? Should I call him out on this? Should I remind him that you shouldn't marry someone if you can't be honest. I don't want him back, it is obvious of what kind of a person he really is. I just can't stand here and deal with the fact that he is denying it ever happened (especially after the "L" word came up a lot). I still have the conversations on my iPhone and the close to naked pictures he sent me. Not that I really want to black mail him but I feel like this poor girl needs to know.