So, I met this guy 7 years ago at a party of a mutual friend and we dated long distance for about 9 months while I finished college and he was in the military. We saw each other about once a month and talked on the phone almost every night, depending on our schedules. But then, just when summer was starting, he broke up with me sayint that it just wasn't working. Which, I will agree that it had dwindled to a pretty weak relationship with us not seeing each other very much. So, I hadn't seen or talked to him for almost 5 years, when good ol' Facebook saw that we had mutual friends and suggested that him and I become friends. On a whim I decided to add him as my friend just to see what he would do. To my surprise, he added me and we started talking again. We exchanged phone numbers and by the end of the week we went on a date. By the end of the weekend, we were back together! Things were fantastic and so much better than when we were together before. We lived closer, but still about an hour apart, and saw each other every weekend, and talked on the phone everyday. He even came to my family's Christmas. Things were going very well (we had talked about what we wanted out of life and both want to get married, have kids and dogs...etc), but then he broke up with me again after a few months, this time saying that work was too busy right now and he couldn't be the boyfriend he wanted to be or the one I deserve. We didn't talk for about 3 weeks, and then he texted me out of the blue Valentine's weekend, and we've been talking on the phone almost everyday since. We've even hung out a couple times since then (nothing's happened), and have a date planned for this weekend. I asked him why we can talk everyday and hang out and have a blast, but aren't dating, and he just says "I don't know." I have made it clear that I want to be with him, but he won't tell me how he feels. He talks to me about everything except his feelings about me. What is a guy thinking when he says he just wants to be friends, but then still calls or texts you everyday? He talks to me more than he talks to his best guy friends! I just don't understand! Please help me out here. What is he thinking?????
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