- I recently had the unfortunate opportunity to experience flirtation from a man I fell in love with. Has this ever happened to you ladies? There's a man who smile at you all the time. He makes eye contact with you all the time. He treats you like the real lady you are, you know; he opens doors for you, he picks up things for you when you drop something to the floor, whenever you need him for something he's always there; you know he makes himself readily available you before anyone else? Let's say: there was even a time or two where he pressed up his body against yours. He' even very consoling and so very touchy feely but in his touchy feely-ness he was also sending you mixed messages and included in those messages were some that were sexually explict. He tries to communicate nonverbally by facial expressions and gestures and body language and gestures. And...let's say that he even assured you, repeatedly, that the ring on his left hand ring finger didn't mean nothing when you went to examine it. Then come to find out this same man who was sending you mixed messages really had a pregnant wifey? My question to the ladies is, what would you do? How would you handle the situation and this particular man next time one of these little instances happen? Is it that he just wanted somebody to just play with? ....or what do y'all think? Why do men get away with all of this by just saying words like, "I didn't mean to lead you on". Why do they lie to the death of themselves when we all good and well KNOW the TRUTH??! Why? Sisters.....let's talk!!! All women of all race are sisters....ok? Thanks everyone for sharing and for your time. Men; you are welcomed to give your input too.
White peacock
4 comments