Why Men and Women Think Differently

hmm. but most of the women i know can recall with astounding accuracy every mistake or negative thing that was ever done to them. and hold a grudge like no other. i guess they must be an anomaly. :)

Yes, the sexes are absolutely wired differently.. if you think otherwise you are just fooling yourself...I've researched the subject for a decade and read many books and articles on this very subject and have a clearer understanding of myself and ment in general...it's very helpful and less stressful if you understand the "why" of it all....

Too funny and so true!

sorry for the typos

I do not think woman like positive experience more than guy. I think depend on ther personality of that person. In my situation, I would rather think nice and positive thinking better than thinking bad about other people, I do not want my self become miserable because thinking other people bad. If something bad is happening to me, I will avoid it and try to forget it. Maybe I had bad memory, I will completely forget bad thing in short period. I choose the happy memory in my mind forever.

SEXIST NONSENSE!

Since the title had the term "why" in it, and the article didn't tackle the subject at all, I'll submit my own very biased analysis -- men remember the bad stuff because they are taught to learn from their mistakes, while women live in a dream world where everything will work out just fine if you just hang on to pleasant thoughts...

that is so crazy!

This is the stupidest thing I have ever heard. If this were really the case wouldn't men be so despondent that they would be killing themselves in mass numbers? Also, I have had the displeasure to know quite a few Debbie Downers who are constantly negative. Sometimes I really wonder who gives the green light for some of these so-called "research projects".

I still don't know the why. I already know that we do. Men look for potential threats, whereas women look for comforts.

this article makes me think about things i can't change or control. like many things it is what it is.
you guys figure it out. i have to make a beer run. i know i can handle that.

For me life is a big game. i am a game peice in the game of life. god lets me move the way i want
because he watches me play the game. if i make a bad move..( have a problem) god waits to see how or if i can solve the problem. if i can't solve the problem i will be replaced by another piece.
thats just my take.

i swear one day animals and humans will have a civil union and i will procreate the first one....Go Beasties !!!

I don't know, when I think back on past relationships and experiences the things I recall first are the more pleasant ones. For example regarding relationships the first thing that pops in my mind are more happier ones like some of the concerts we went to or places we visited. I guess I'm definitely an anomaly.

I've always wondered why we are so different. I mean, why God decided to make us this way knowing that it wasn't going to be easy, lol. The book "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" is a very good and true book. I have also read another called "Men are like Waffles, Women are like Spaghetti". Alot of truth in that book as well. And they make them funny so that you can relate while you are reading them. Especially if you don't particularly like reading, these are good reads and will keep you well entertained! I have however always managed to envy how guys can be mad at each other and fist fight one day and the next day they are buddy's again. Women, OH NO, its surely not the same when it comes to women. They will hate each other till the very last breath! It's crazy....

I don't buy it; my experience has been that many women can hold grudges not just for days, but months, years! And vindictive to boot!