Resolutions? Feh. Here's what'll really work.

Getty ImagesThinking about organizing your filing cabinet? Spending more quality time with the kids? Increasing your core strength? Improving your finances? Hmmm ... it must be getting close to New Year's Eve.

Resolutions are great ... until the resolve melts away around the 13th of the month (or, for some of us, the 3rd). Then they simply become a list of broken promises cluttering the front of your fridge.

This year, instead of composing a list of New Year's resolutions, try something completely different: In your quest for financial improvement in 2010, simply commit to a single New Year's habit. My suggestion?: Become more mindful of your everyday spending.

Stick with me here. Consider this all-too-common scenario: You open your credit-card bill or bank statement and wondered exactly what it was that you got for $39 at Acme Mart or where that $100 ATM withdrawal went.

Wonder no more. If you vow to be more mindful of your money, you'll make smarter decisions with every dollar that passes through your hands. Of course, a natural outcome of this new habit is that you'll save money every single day.

How to form a new -- good -- money habit
Why "habit" and not "resolution"? Simple: Resolutions are made to be broken. Habits, on the other hand, ingrain themselves into your daily routine. Once formed, habits require practically no extra effort to follow. Best of all, habits are hard to break.

In other words: Form a good habit and improvements are all but guaranteed.

Here are four ways to stop mindless spending and become more conscious of your everyday finances:

1. Pay with actual cash when you can. Credit cards are a major cause of overspending. When we whip out the plastic, our mind goes numb; we don't process the transaction the same visceral way we do when we spend cash. (Think of it like using poker chips in Vegas -- only without Wayne Newton tunes cranking through the sound system.) In fact, some experts say people spend 15% to 30% more when using credit instead of cash. Spending actual cash forces you to think about every dollar you spend, so you experience a physical reaction to forking over $1s and $5s.

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2. Set up an instant no-brainer budget. The "envelope" budgeting approach will help you get in tune with your spending in a snap. The idea is that you carry around just the amount of cash you want to devote to various spending categories (lunch, entertainment, cute shoes) for that week. Try it for the first couple of weeks in January and see how it affects your purchasing. Chances are it'll keep you from frittering away your money so much so that you'll tell the whole family to play along.

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3. Keep your big wants/dreams in the forefront of your mind. Think of every financial decision in the context of your larger money goals (be it buying a new coat, paying cash for your next car, or securing your retirement). Before you toss a gossip magazine into your grocery cart while waiting in the checkout line or buy something just because it's on sale consider whether or not such purchases get you to that two-week cruise or covering Junior's college costs.

No, I don't advocate sacrificing all short-term pleasures (love those gingerbread lattes, by the way). But combined with the budgeting method above, this is a pretty powerful motivator to keep the mindless spending in check.

Write a list of your big money goals on a small index card and keep it in your wallet. This constant visual reminder of what you really want to do with your money will make you think before you buy anything that doesn't align with your real wishes.

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4. Always shop with a list. It may be cliché, but shopping with a list will keep you honest. Studies show that as much as 60% of supermarket purchases are unplanned. With the average family shelling out $5,000 for groceries each year, that's $2,000 of unnecessary stuff running across the scanner.

Lists (and that "envelope" budgeting method, again) are great for big-ticket retail excursions, too, like holiday shopping and "Skip Work To Go to the Outlet Mall Day" (y'all celebrate that one too, right?).

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Try out a few of these money practices over the next month. You might be surprised how quickly they become habit -- and how much more attractive your finances look when it's time to ring in 2011.

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Dayana Yochim prefers to think of her habits as "charming quirks." In 2010 she plans to eat more leafy greens while watching less TV.