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    12 Kids' Symptoms You Should Never Ignore

    Child SneezingThe wait-and-see approach is fine for some kids' health problems. But not these.

    By Kristyn Kusek Lewis

    When you become a parent, you earn a medical merit badge of sorts. Whether you're sopping up a goopy nose or extracting a dangling-by-a-thread baby tooth, eventually few things faze you. But sometimes it's tough to tell what warrants a call to your doctor's office: Which temperature actually classifies as a "high fever"? What kind of tummy ache means your child has more than your average stomach bug? And when something truly frightening happens -- say, your child suddenly breaks out in hives -- should you call your pediatrician or head straight to the E.R.?

    "Parents should always err on the side of caution and seek immediate medical care when they're worried about something," says Anita Chandra-Puri, M.D., a pediatrician at Northwestern Memorial Physicians Group, in Chicago, and a spokesperson for the American Academy of Pediatrics. However, to give you more specific guidelines to follow, we talked to top pediatricians about the 12 symptoms that always require medical attention.

    Symptom #1: A fever that's 100.4°F or higher in a baby younger than 3 months; higher than 101°F in a baby 3 to 6 months; or higher than 103°F in a child 6 months to 2 years
    Pediatricians stress that when fever strikes, the number on the thermometer isn't as important as your child's disposition. The one big exception: infants under 3 months old, who need immediate medical care if fever rises to 100.4°F. "If their fever is caused by a bacterial infection like a urinary-tract infection, it could quickly spread through the body," says pediatrician and Parents advisor Jennifer Shu, M.D., coauthor of Heading Home With Your Newborn: From Birth to Reality. "It's usually just a common virus causing the symptoms, but we have to check it out to be sure." It's important to call your doctor right away; if it's after office hours, be on the safe side and head straight to the E.R. In kids older than 2, fevers aren't urgent as long as your child appears to be well hydrated and acting normal. Call your pediatrician for guidance.

    Symptom #2: A fever that doesn't go down with treatment, or that lasts more than five days
    If you've given your child a fever reducer like acetaminophen or ibuprofen and the number on the thermometer doesn't budge within four to six hours, call your pediatrician. This is a sign that the infection may be too strong for the body to fight off, and your doctor may want to do a thorough examination to determine the cause. A fever caused by a common virus like cold or flu typically goes away within five days. One that hangs on longer -- even when it's low-grade (100.4°F) -- may be caused by an infection like bacterial pneumonia, which requires antibiotic treatment, explains Alanna Levine, M.D., a pediatrician at Orangetown Pediatrics, in Tappan, New York.

    Symptom #3: A fever that's accompanied by a stiff neck or headache or a rash that's either bruise-like or looks like tiny red dots
    Call your doctor -- these can be signs of meningitis and need immediate attention.

    Symptom #4: A rash that resembles a bull's-eye or consists of tiny red dots that don't disappear when you press the skin, or excessive bruising
    A ring-shaped rash with a pale spot in the center can signify Lyme disease. Get help right away if you see pinpoint-size spots under the skin, which can signal many serious conditions. Any inexplicable, widespread bruising may be a sign of a possible blood disorder. In addition, a splotchy rash, often a little raised, may be a sign of an allergic reaction. If your child also has difficulty breathing or is agitated or lethargic, she should be checked immediately by a doctor.

    Symptom #5: A mole that's new or changing
    Keep tabs on your child's moles, especially any that she's had since birth, because those have a higher risk of becoming malignant, says Parents advisor Ari Brown, M.D., a pediatrician in Austin and author of Baby 411. Do a monthly skin check during bathtime. Alert your doctor if you notice a mole that's irregularly shaped, has ragged borders, is not all one color, or is raised. All of these are signs of a potential skin cancer.

    Symptom #6: Stomach pain that's on the lower right side, or that's sudden and crampy and comes and goes
    If your child has pain on the lower right side, ask him to jump up and down -- if it's excruciating for him to do so, it can be a sign of appendicitis. Although the appendix is on the lower right side of the abdomen, the pain caused by appendicitis can start around the belly button and migrate to the right. "With a normal stomach virus, there's typically fever, then vomiting, then stomachache and diarrhea," says Dr. Brown. "With appendicitis, it's sometimes diarrhea, then abdominal pain, then vomiting, then pain, then fever." If you notice these symptoms, call your doctor -- appendicitis progresses quickly and it's most effectively treated when caught early.

    Symptom #7: A headache that occurs in the early morning or wakes her up in the middle of the night, or that's accompanied by vomiting
    These could be signs of a migraine. Your doctor can determine the appropriate treatment. Migraines in kids are not dangerous, and tend to run in families. However, morning and middle-of-the-night headaches can also be a signal of something more serious, and that's why you want to see a doctor right away.

    Symptom #8: Dry mouth and lips, decreased urination, a flat fontanelle (in an infant), dry skin or skin that stays bunched when you pinch it, or excessive vomiting or diarrhea
    These signs are all associated with dehydration and need to be treated fast because dehydration can lead to shock. Call 911 or get to the hospital if you think your child is nearing this stage. Otherwise, call your doc and try to get more fluid into your child.

    Symptom #9: Blueness or discoloration around the mouth; labored breathing where you can see your child sucking in his chest and abdomen; or panting, grunting, or a whistling sound when breathing
    "Breathing problems are more worrisome when the sounds come from the chest and lungs, not the nose," says Dr. Shu. Critical breathing issues are often due to choking, an allergic reaction, an asthma attack (which can occur in kids as young as a few months old), pneumonia, whooping cough, or croup. Seek help right away or call 911. If it's not obvious that your child is having serious trouble, check his respiratory rate. Count each breath taken in for 30 seconds and then multiply by two. A normal rate is less than 60 for newborns; less than 40 for babies under 1 year; less than 30 for 1- to 3-year-olds; and less than 24 for 4- to 10-year-olds.

    Symptom #10: Swollen tongue, lips, or eyes, especially when accompanied by vomiting or itchiness
    These often signal a serious allergic reaction (anaphylaxis). Symptoms may include swelling, breathing problems, and severe hives and need immediate attention. Call 911 and, if possible, give your child a shot from an EpiPen or a dose of an antihistamine like Benadryl in the meantime. For less severe reactions, call your doctor and ask about giving an antihistamine to quell symptoms.

    Symptom #11: A fall when your child is less than 6 months old, or has obvious neurological changes like confusion or loss of consciousness, or that causes vomiting and/or any damage to the body, such as broken bones
    These emergency situations must be addressed by a doctor -- so head to the nearest medical facility. Falls are generally not problematic in kids older than 6 months if they only fall the distance of their height and don't land on anything hard or sharp.

    Symptom #12: A cut that gapes open widely enough that you could stick a cotton swab in it, or that doesn't stop bleeding within a few minutes of applied pressure
    These are signs that your child needs medical attention (and perhaps stitches, skin glue, a butterfly bandage, or staples). Depending on the severity of the injury, your next step should be to either call 911, go to the E.R., or call your pediatrician. You should also always see your doctor if an animal bites your child or if another child bites your child and breaks the skin.

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    This article first appeared in Parents magazine.

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    • Stephanie  •  Saginaw, Michigan  •  1 month 20 days ago
      #13-projectile vomiting in an infant 3-8 weeks old. My first born son would have his bottle and 2 hours later would projectile the entire thing. He seemed to struggle to eat and when we took him to the ER, the nurse said "babies don't projectile vomit"...oh, really??? The ER doc, however, took us more seriously. He performed one simple test and it turns out, our son had Pyloric Stenosis. The valve where the stomach and intestine meet fails to grow, and allow food to digest. It is quit common, but I had never heard of it. A simple surgery and 2 days in the hospital and he was good as new. Hasn't stopped eating since!
    • BeeBlush25  •  Pleasanton, California  •  1 month 20 days ago
      When I was 9 I had a fever higher than 100 F and I kept sneezing a lot. My mom kept taking me to the doctor and they kept on saying it was a virus. Fortunately, my mom is pushy so when she didn't see me getting any better she took me to the doctor's again and demanded that they did something. I was hospitalized and given IV. When they were about to send me home and took me off the IV my fever spiked up again so they decided to draw some blood where they saw something wasn't right, I had a bone marrow check and they found out I had APML Leukemia. I was given 3 months to live (it has been 9 years this february) but that scare could had been avoided had the doctor's run some tests in the first place, thank goodness my mom is persistant :)
    • salin  •  Atlanta, Georgia  •  1 month 20 days ago
      My sister and I took my at the time 3 year old nephew to the doctor for a fever that he had and wouldnt eat or drink anything and was vomiting constantly. She said it was a viral infection and sent him home. 3 days later he still had the same symptoms and looked terrible I convinced her to take him to Childrens Hospital in Atlanta. He was diagnosed with Kawasaki syndrone. he was in the hospital for 10 days. He was being treated for the kawasaki and dehydration and they had to monitor his heart everyday. His whole body hurt and he was just pitiful. He has to have an echo done every year to make sure his heart is still ok. They think we are silly to bring in our children when its just a fever and vomiting. I think they should have went into another profession if they care so little that they wont take the time to run some test.
    • beeb  •  Anchorage, Alaska  •  1 month 20 days ago
      So I have 2 children that I have taken to the E.R becasue of a fever and a rash that covered there body and we still sat in the waiting room for for at least 4-5 hours, finally the lady sitting next to us said her daughter had the same thing and that it would go away once the fever broke and she was right. Kinda sad that a stranger had an idea what it was becasue of her daughter, yet we NEVER seen a doctor. The doctor said it wasn't serious enough and we had to wait. Thank god it wasn't something seriou. That doctor better be glad he was a military doctor or I would of told him to F-OFF. (Don't want to get hubby into trouble) Plus the same 2 children lips would turn blue off and on, not sure why and we still don't know why. The E.R at the Military base where I live is at least a 7-8 hr visit :( We try very hard to never go there!
    • Shannon K  •  Eugene, Oregon  •  1 month 20 days ago
      Excessive thirst and urination that goes along with a lot of changes in behavior. Did you all know that most Type 1 Diabetes in children is not discovered until the child is unconscious and non-responsive? My friend's two year old was diagnosed and the doctors couldnt give her enough props for taking him in when she did, and he had been sick for a while with it. He became a very unhappy little boy but we thought it was more the moodiness of a two year old. He was drinking a lot but it was kind of his way of soothing himself so often. And then there were the overflowing diapers from just one pee. All things that are often just marked up to being two going on three. Most parents dont recognize that something is seriously wrong until they are calling 911 because they cant wake their child up.
    • Petit4  •  Seattle, Washington  •  1 month 20 days ago
      I disagree with #3--don't call your doctor--you'll waste precious time! Call 911 or RACE to the nearest ER. Only high dose IV penicillin given very soon after the onset of symptoms can help survival. One infectious disease director said his new doctor orientation was one sentence--treat meningococcemia with antibiotics within 30 minutes or you're fired! I have personally amputated both legs and the hand of a 14-year-old with the disease. There are few bacteria as frightening and Gonorrhea meningitidis! (please don't mistake the name for it's cousin which causes the STD)
    • Jas  •  Charlotte, North Carolina  •  1 month 20 days ago
      Lately my 7 year old daughter has been complaining of pains in her legs, had several nose bleeds in one week, and occasionally will complain of headaches. She is VERY active, rides her bike, loves the outdoors, runs, etc. I naturally assumed the leg aches were growing pains, or just from being so active, but the nose bleeds have really concerned me. I took my daughter to the pediatrician and she said that her nasal membranes looked irritated...long story short, took her to the ENT he said sinus infection. They did a needle stick on her finger to check for enemia, but that came out fine. It's a 3 minute test, but is that conclusive in stating whether it could be something more severe like Leukemia (God please forbid)? I'm just worried b/c she's seen the dr.s & specialist, & they seem unclear about their diagnoses...the ENT wants to see her in 3 weeks, which is protocol, I'm sure, but I still don't feel content. What type of blood test should I request to check for leukemia? I don't want to be a worrier for nothing, but at the same time I don't want to ignore the realms of any possibility when it comes to my children. Thank you to ALL the parents that shared their stories on here. I don't know any of you, but I promise you, you are all in my prayers. What strength many of you demonstrate...I wish I had an ounce of it. Sorry to make this post so long.
    • Cynthia  •  1 month 20 days ago
      My son suddenly started coughing during gym class. I thought he was having an asthma attack. The ER doctors said his lungs were clear and hooked him up to a heart monitor to check his hear. It turned out that he had ventricular tachycardia in his lower right chamber of his heart. I shudder to think of what might have happened had it not been detected in the ER.
    • funtimes  •  1 month 20 days ago
      They forgot to mention that you need to be prepared to wait up to 5 hours to see a doctor in the Emergency Room. I felt so sorry for my 10 year old the last time we had to go to the E.R. He had a fever of 103, vomiting, headache, and body aches and we had to wait 2 hours in the waiting room and then another hour to see a doctor. Next time if I absolutely have to take my kids to the ER, I will bring a sleeping bag, pillow, and blow-up mattress, so that they will atleast be comfortable while waiting. There is nothing worse than feeling like crud and having to sit in an uncomfortable plastic chair in a room with flourescent lighting with a bunch of other sick uncomfortable people for hours on end waiting for someone to call your name. Hospital emergency rooms are dreadful places.
    • Patty  •  1 month 20 days ago
      On the #3 signs of meningitis note... my 14 year old cousin came home from school with a headache at noon. My Aunt gave her tylenol and had her lay down. She heard noises from the bedroom 2 hours later... she was burning up and vomiting and convulsing. My 14 year old cousin was dead at 4 PM... no complaints until noon that day. There was only a 4 hour window. That was a total shock to the whole family :-(
    • Kathleen  •  Beaverton, Oregon  •  1 month 20 days ago
      With Symptom 11 or a child falling, know that you may be accused of child abuse. Get an attorney before talking with the police - no matter how nice they are. After $150,000 in legal fees and a horrible two years my son was found not guilty of serious charges.
    • Jessi  •  Thornville, Ohio  •  1 month 20 days ago
      I take my son to the doctor when I know there's something wrong. When he was about 7 or 8 months old, he started screaming whenever he tried to drink a bottle, after a few tries I took him to the ER. They told me he was just congested, after checking his throat, ears, nose, etc. I told them that it wasn't a cry of frustration, it was a scream of pain. They didn't believe me... We got home and about an hour of crying went by and he finally started coughing like crazy and eventually coughed up a clear piece of plastic that had been stuck in his throat. It ended up being a plastic tab that was pulled off of a battery pack, he'd apparently found it on the floor at the babysitters.

      My point is that it is extremely important to take your child to the doctor for issues like these, but sometimes even doctors are wrong and motherly instincts ARE correct. If you aren't sure of what the first doctor finds, ask another and another until YOU are satisfied with the results. YOU know your child better than anyone, there are certain symptoms that only a mother or father can see or hear..
    • Sharon  •  1 month 23 days ago
      #9 happened to me on a flight home from SF. My 6 m.o. daughter started wheezing up a storm on our flight, but I couldn't do ANYTHING. Got home and went straight to the ER. Turned out she had pneumonia. Poor baby!
    • Feelin groovy  •  Oakland, California  •  1 month 20 days ago
      Many people take their kids to the doctor way too often. This list of important symptoms is a great list. I would like the next list to be for things you don't need to take your children to the doctor for. That list might be equally valuable since it could decrease the congestion in emergency rooms caused by non-emergencies.
    • John  •  1 month 20 days ago
      Anxiety should have been mentioned too.. My son has dealt with Anxiety at school and I get calls about him having chest-pains and it scares me! I run him to the doctor and they do all the test.. he suffers from Anxiety.
    • Sandra  •  Augusta, Maine  •  1 month 20 days ago
      The best advise is that if you think there is a problem, there is a problem. I fought for a year about our daughter. When they (doctors) finally listened we learned she had a brain tumor that was covering her pituitary gland and all her labs were still normal. The tumor had become cystic as well. She lost her vision and after 3.5 years her life. I still wonder if they had listened would she have lived.
      Being a parent is not always a great job, but we do know our kids. Follow the above and your instincts!
    • D's mom  •  Columbus, Ohio  •  1 month 19 days ago
      Tell all pediatricians about the fever sign. When my son was less than 6 months old, my husband went to check on him in the morning because he would usually wake us up (very early riser!) and our son couldn't be woken up. He was calling his name over and over and I ran to him. He was burning up. Took temp and it was 103. Called the doctor who said to wait until it got over 104! It did, even with fever reducing meds, and they still said to keep trying to meds. We switched docs the very next day. Thankfully the fever eventually went down and thankfully my husband is a nurse who called off his own job to monitor our son. Don't put all your faith in your doctor. Sadly you should be able to but sometimes a parent just knows their child.
    • AndreaT  •  Pocatello, Idaho  •  1 month 20 days ago
      Doctors also need to listen more closely to your children's heart. My 17 year old son passed away 12/02/11 for an undetected hole in his heart. I took him to the doctor with his left arm hurting. They dismiss teenagers as having heart problems. They did an ex-ray on his arm,and said there was nothing wrong and no reason he couldn't use it. They said take ibuprofen, now he's gone :(
    • A Yahoo! User  •  1 month 20 days ago
      The picture shows a kid at the age of like 7 or 8 & gives advice only on babies........... how does that help anyone with older kids ????????
    • leslie f  •  1 month 18 days ago
      As a nurse, I will tell you to take you child to a doctor any time they have a fever that lasts more than 24 hours, esp. if it is accompanied by respiratory symptoms, or nausea, vomitting or diarrhea. Kids dehydrate super fast!