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    How Children of Celebrities Struggle with Grief

    Bobbi Kristina Brown's grief over her mother's death has become public fodder.(Getty Images)Bobbi Kristina Brown's grief over her mother's death has become public fodder.(Getty Images)Mourning the loss of a parent in the public eye is a struggle all its own. Sadly, Whitney Houston's daughter, Bobbi Kristina Brown, is facing it head on.

    Just as fans learned of Houston's tragic death, the singer's 19-year-old daughter was rushed to the hospital after an emotional breakdown. She returned to the hospital a second time over the devastating weekend.

    "My daughter Bobbi Kristina is doing much better," her father, Bobby Brown, said in a written statement. "We continue to provide love and support to Bobbi-Kristina. She is dealing with the tragedy of her mother's death and would prefer to do it outside of the public eye. I ask again that our privacy be respected."

    Read more: Whitney's last days

    The sudden loss of a parent is unimaginably traumatic for any child, but for those foisted into the spotlight, the burden is particularly stressful.

    "They face additional burdens because all of the speculations and emerging details of the death and of the parent's life," a grief specialist at Madonna University, Dr. Kirsti Dyer, tells Shine.

    In some cases, the grieving kids become the focus of curiosity, as much as the deceased.

    In 2009, when Michael Jackson died of an overdose, the three young children he kept shrouded behind masks, quickly became familiar faces without their father's protection. Present at his televised memorial, Paris, just 11, at the time, alarmed both fans and dissenters by calling Jackson "the best father you can ever imagine" before bursting into tears. She reminded onlookers that his death was as personal as it was public. She was also defending her father's honor, a task many children of public figures are forced to do in the face of controversy.

    "Children see both the good and the bad being written about, broadcast, tweeted and posted on Facebook for everyone to see," Dr. Dyer says. "Limiting their exposure to the media can be beneficial to their grieving process, so that every time they see a news report, read a magazine or go on line they will not be reminded of the death again, and again."

    Some children have managed to escape the exposure. After Phil Hartman's tragic death at the hands of his wife, his young son and daughter were placed in custody with their mother's family in a small Midwestern town and allowed opportunity to grieve and grow up privately.

    Francis Bean Cobain wasn't as lucky. Very public custody battles, leading to a restraining order against her mother, forced the music legend's daughter to grow up in the shadow of her father's death. Meanwhile, the Jackson
    kids have barely escaped a day without paparazzi stalking since their dad's death.

    Sometimes, that attention may be comforting. Jackson's three children recently left their mark in their father's honor at the Hollywood Walk of Fame. Now at just 13, Paris seems to want to make a mark of her own in the industry. She's got a Twitter account, a publicist and a starring role in an upcoming movie.

    Watch: Michael Jackson's kids honor their father in Los Angeles

    When a parent's memory is shared with millions, bonding with their fans may be a way to connect with the deceased. Last year, the daughter of Blind Melon singer Shannon Hoon, who died of an overdose in 1995, stepped on stage with the reunited band to sing a song. Cobain has embraced the rock legacy, if in a roundabout way, interning at Rolling Stone and becoming engaged to a musician with uncannily similar appearance to her late dad. After a rocky relationship with the music industry, Lisa Marie Presley recorded a posthumous duet of "In the Ghetto" with her dad. "I got more emotional during that recording than I've ever gotten," she said.

    But for Elvis's only daughter, coming to terms with her father's death took decades. "I did a lot of strange things that day," recalls Lisa Marie Presley, who was just 9 when her father died. "It didn't really settle in. I ran around and smoked cigarettes at 9, in the guard shack somewhere. I was crazy. I don't know, I did, like, wacky things."

    In the years that followed, Presley battled substance abuse as a teenager and troubled relationships as a young adult.

    For Bobbi Kristina, the coping process may take as much time. After rumors of drug problems, which she's denied, many fear the singer's daughter will face the same battle with addiction as her mom. "When people are stressed, when they turn to substances, is when they can turn the switch on for addiction," Dr. Drew Pinsky told ABC News. "That is my greatest fear for Bobbi Kristina."

    Meanwhile, music critics and fans are already wondering whether the aspiring singer will pick up the career her mother left behind. A video of Bobbi covering an Adele song has gotten renewed attention over the past few days. Like Jackson and Presley, she may try to capture the fans her mother left behind. For now, however, the support of her close friends and family are far more important for her well-being.

    Copyright © 2012 Yahoo Inc.

    Related:
    Details of Whitney's death emerge
    Paris Jackson talks to Ellen about her dad
    Bobbi Kristina hospitalized

     
    • Ruthie  •  1 month 24 days ago
      Wow, a decent news article posted on WH and her daughter. How refreshing. Thanks.
    • jack straw  •  Geneseo, New York  •  3 months ago
      and the people who create that stress is....you got it...the press. guess what, we don't need to know every detail of how a person is grieving, leave them alone for christ sake. let them cope without asking them how they are doing it you freakin morons.
      • Laura 3 months ago
        you are so right.. there's no privacy anymore..leave her alone!!!
      • Mr G 3 months ago
        Stop blaming the press. The press only gives people what they want. If people wouldn't buy The Enquirer or World News or other gossip rags, there would be no outlet for this type of reporting. All are in the business of making money and they only make money if people buy it.
      • ChrisC 3 months ago
        The press doesn't just give people what they want, they shape what the people want as well. Of course people still buy the issues of the gossip rags with this stuff in it, but it was the presses decision to run it to begin with. Money may be a motivating factor to sell this to people, but that doesn't justify it nor does it take away guilt.
    • Roe  •  New York, New York  •  3 months ago
      I think Bobbi Kristina should stay with her grandmother Cissy...away from the limelight...away from drugs etc. Then she'll have a chance of having a semi-normal life.
      • ro 3 months ago
        I agree, I believe that was part of her mother's problem. Once she left the safety net of her mother it seem to have when downhill for Whitney.
      • galaxyquest10 3 months ago
        Agreed! Also she needs to distance herself away from Crack Head "Bobby Brown". No ones perfect, but that dude is not even trying to set a good example for her daughter.
      • joyce 3 months ago
        i agree. her grandmother is the best one.
    • ladydell  •  3 months ago
      They cope like everyone else - - one breath at a time! I know when my son died I felt like I could not breathe, much less live. The social worker told me just concentrate on one breath at a time. I have been breathing for almost 27 years now.
      • Denise W 3 months ago
        Maybe you need to PINCH yourself to see if you are still ALIVE, I do see that you are ANGRY, but AT WHO ?????
      • CZL 3 months ago
        I understand and I am sorry for your loss. Yeah, it's not a day at a time, it's a second at a time in the first few years.
      • Kim 3 months ago
        Are you talking to yourself Denise W? There was no anger in Ladydell's comment ~ she was sharing her pain. Your reply makes no sense & is cruel.
    • Pen  •  3 months ago
      Quite a number of very talented people lost their lives to drugs/alcohol and still no one seems to think it will happen to them. And the most stupid question the media always seems to ask and never learns from is, "How do you feel?" They should stay out of any one's face who is grieving or they just might get their an physical answer they weren't expecting.
    • ergo you bought me a falc ...  •  3 months ago
      I was twelve when my dad died. My mom then became an alcoholic and ended up in jail. I went from upper middle class to no class in the blink of an eye. Yet, I graduate law school this spring. The reality, death is tough on everyone, not just the rich. But if you don't make excuses and don't act weak, you can get through anything.
      • A Yahoo! User 3 months ago
        "Don't act weak??" You know, it's ok to be who you are and what you're feeling. Grief is a process; there's no way around it.
      • Vanessa 3 months ago
        Kudos to you for not making excuses and doing your best. I'm sure it wasn't easy and it felt unfair. You overcame so do well with what you have and help others who may go through something similar to your situation along the way.
      • Sally Fusco 3 months ago
        I commend you for making, and sticking to, sensible choices in spite of the overwhelming pain you must have gone through. God bless.
    • debbie  •  Alpena, Michigan  •  3 months ago
      When my brother was murdered it was the most tramatic thing in my life. 10 years later my Dad died. I still grieve for both of them. But somewhere we find peace.. There is comfort. If we Believe. I don't care what religion you are.. There is solace in our maker. Have faith and you will have peace. RIP Whitney Houston.

      RIP
    • DIVINEORDER  •  Great Falls, Virginia  •  3 months ago
      Children also don't want their parents trashed in the media about their life,because I don't know nobody who is perfect and I am tired of the media talking about her drug addition, sex life it is not their business and yes a child will defend their parents from cruel, stupid people who don't have a heart or a life.
    • anytime42  •  3 months ago
      Bobbie, look out of the window. This world is not an accident no matter what the godless say. Surround yourself with good people. Choose them wisely. Envelope faith! Your mother would want you to be happy. This is your goal in life. It comes from making others happy. Find faith and hold on to it.
    • FasterPussycat  •  Jacksonville, Florida  •  3 months ago
      Six or Seven big celebrities dead in five years......WAKE UP CELEBS!!!! HOW MANY MORE DEAD IS IT GOING TO TAKE TO LEARN A LESSON?? LAY OFF THE DRUGS AND WE WONT HAVE ARTICLES LIKE THIS TO MAKE COMMENTS!!!! You think people would have woke up after Micheal Jackson........
    • dragon queen  •  Kansas City, Missouri  •  3 months ago
      i feel sry for anyone who loses a parent
    • Bruce  •  Colorado Springs, Colorado  •  3 months ago
      The same as every other person in the world I would think. I'm so sick of glorifying celebrities. They may be talented, but they are not different than you and me when it comes to eating, breathing, grieving, etc.
    • silviat  •  Harrisburg, Pennsylvania  •  3 months ago
      Bobbi Kristina you are not alone Whitney is right with you spiritually, in your heart and mind and soul baby. I lost my mother 2010 I am the baby girl of my familiy and it hurts so badly baby NO can understand that pain till they walk in your shoes, it's OK to grieve it's part of the process, God is with you and eventually the acceptance will comewhen in time. God Bless you and remember you still have your Dad. Keep that in Mind. Keep your your mind Clear and your heart Open and life will seem very simple.
    • cindy  •  3 months ago
      unless you were a child, and lost a parent early in life you have not got a clue how it feels.so watch out for karma, and you never get over the death at such a young age, money can help,but your mother or father is still dead........
    • WAHEED J  •  Plainfield, New Jersey  •  2 months ago
      NICE
    • Angie  •  Portland, Maine  •  3 months ago
      How many children have grieved the loss of a soldier parent?? How come we never hear about them, however the media overwhelms people like Bobbi because they flood the media with it. CRAZY!!
    • destiny  •  3 months ago
      It's going to be hard enough on this young lady living with a mother who died of drugs and a doped up father,but the media is sure to ride her into the ground as usual.
    • NK  •  3 months ago
      The father asked that her privacy be respected, but instead of doing that, the media keeps purging the same crap about her having to be hospitalized and how she's dealing with her mother's tragic loss. Why can't you respect this family and let them mourn without plastering their faces all over the news and regurgitating the same news that we have seen over and over again?
    • Michelle  •  Fort Myers, Florida  •  3 months ago
      y cant the media leave these people alone let her grieve for her mom in private and anyone who dont like it they can kiss my a** both my parents died and i am still having a hard time with it so let her and the family be like bobby said leave them the h**** ALONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    • vv  •  Richardson, Texas  •  3 months ago
      Fortunately for her, she's 19 and not 9, so she doesn't have to live in Bobby Brown's house.

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