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    How to Breastfeed and Still Have a Life

    Breastfeeding a Go-Go

    Contrary to popular belief, breastfeeding-once you get the hang of it-is the easiest way to nourish your baby. It's also the healthiest, proven to reduce many childhood illnesses (including ear infections) and health threats in later life (obesity, to name just one). You also save time and money because you don't have to buy and prepare formula, which can cost up to $1,200 a year. But how can you breastfeed and still have a life? What if you want to go out to dinner or have to travel? What if you go back to work? We'll show you.

    Nursing in public
    This can feel unwieldy the first few times you do it, but after having to feed your baby in the ladies' room while everyone else is enjoying their meal, you get it. The secret is to wear the right clothes; a loose pullover or nursing top is best. Also practice at home or another "safe" place before you venture out.
    Here's how to do it Hold your baby with one hand, use the other to unhook your bra, then lift up your top and go for it. If you want to be more discreet, drape a light blanket or
    specially designed breastfeeding cover-up over your nursing baby. Be prepared: You might get reactions, even from friends. But the more relaxed and casual you can be, the sooner everyone around you will get used to it.
    TIP: Maintain eye contact with whomever you're talking to; they'll be more likely to look at you rather than your breast.

    Traveling
    Flying across the country with your baby to visit your in-laws? Leaving her at home during a work trip? Here are some tips:
    With the baby Nurse during takeoff and landing to reduce pressure in your baby's ears. Be sure to wear your easy-access clothes (dresses do not work). Request a window seat so you have a bit more privacy.
    Without the baby Become a member of the other Mile-High Club: pumping moms. Make sure you have a good breast pump, preferably one with a battery-power option, then head to the bathroom when your breasts feel full. In a pinch, you can also pump at your seat under a blanket. At airports or conferences, go to the nursing lounge.
    TIP: After pumping, date each bottle and get it cold as soon as possible. Never, ever put it in your checked baggage; luggage gets lost.

    Going back to work
    Planning to return to work and keep breastfeeding your baby? Good for you! It's perfectly doable; all you need is a good breast pump and a private place at work to pump. Try to build up at least one week's supply of milk in the freezer before heading back to the office.
    TIP: Make sure your baby is accustomed to taking a bottle. Too many moms have found out the hard way that springing one on a baby at the last minute just doesn't work.

    Read More:

    The Ultimate Guide to Breastfeeding

    Express Yourself
    The nuts and bolts of pumping breast milk for your baby


    The Benefits of Breastfeeding

    200 Reasons to Breastfeed
    The abundance of good things in mother's milk offers your baby lifelong benefits.

    Breast Is Best
    Nursing your baby is great for both of you.


    Breastfeeding Stories

    Meet My New Breasts
    For this mom, some previously private property became quite public.

    Adventures In Breastfeeding
    From short nipples to pumping in public, some surprising nursing challenges and how five women overcame them.

     

    3 comments

    • Sarah Y  •  2 years 2 months ago
      Honestly, I did not have much of a life when I was breastfeeding. I could breastfeed at home when my g/fs were over, but I could not do it in public. I live in a very conservative town and the public reaction made me never want to do it. I would usually go into a restroom or dressing room and that is not the most comfortable.

      Plus, as your baby gets older, they pull off the blanket and you have no hopes of privacy in that scenario. Also, my son refused to take bottles of breast milk, so I was forced to do it the natural way (always).

      After a year of breastfeeding, I was happy to quit and get my life back. I'm not trying to discourage other women, but I wish that people had been more honest with me about how difficult it was going to be.

      I think breast is best, but it will be a sacrifice on your part.
    • Laura S.  •  2 years 2 months ago
      Amen, Sarah Y! I also breast-fed for a year and it is HARD WORK. Because I went back to work, I wound up pumping exclusively and DD had it all in bottles.

      One thing that no one told me, even though I went to all the classes and whatnot: 5% of breastfeeding moms' milk does not come in properly. I was one of those; when I took her in for her one-week checkup, she had lost weight, was coming down with jaundice, and was dehydrated. This was after breast-feeding for HOURS every day. If someone had told me that I could breast-feed her and then offer formula to make sure she was getting enough nutrition, we wouldn't have had to go through that.

      I get it that no one wants to advocate any formula use because it's "too easy" to quit breast-feeding (like ANYTHING about being a new mom is "easy"), but if 1 in 20 moms are having trouble with something, that information should be out there.
    • birdy85  •  2 years 2 months ago
      Laura makes a very good case. My son was also dehydrated, and lost over 10% of his body weight in only 4 days. I was up for the first two nights at home trying to figure out why he was crying constantly, and was hungry all the time. My nipples were so raw they were bleeding! Yet, I thought it was all breastfeeding or all formula.
      We still supplement 20% of his feeding with formula.

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