Judgmental Mother! Are They Bullies? or Are They Jealous? or Are They Being Human

This is mainly about young moms, teen moms, and teen pregnancy. I have been judged many times for being a Young Mother, for bad grammar/spelling, and being married at a young age. All by other mothers. So what is it? Are they Bullies or are they Jealous that you are happy with your life and the theirs is miserable? Or is it just human nature?I have done some research and it leaded to believe it is all three. On the other hand all Mother judge other Mother for everything from the way they parent, dress, what social class they are from, whether they are on welfare, single moms, divorced, etc... the list goes on. So is it just a mother nature to judge what she dose not like. It really scares me that my daughter has to grow up in a world were if she makes one mistake she becomes a disgrace. It is just not right. Why are mothers who are judged; be made into disgrace by their life style. Is this not Bulling. The one thing we want to stop? Many parents are complain about their children being bullied in school, daycare, by friends or even family members. What these parents don't get is that their children see them bulling or judge someone; their kids are picking up on this and they see that it is okay. By doing so your kids see that judge other that it is okay too. That is how the bully cycle starts. People are to quick to judge that teen mom walk down the street with her child in the stroller. Most people are to busy to even wonder was she raped, was it planned, was it unplanned; before they start judging that poor girl. People need to slow down and think before they say something. By just spiting out what first comes to mind that is hurt full or rude. If I am correct that is Bulling and it is wrong.500,000 teenagers try to kill themselves every year, and about 5000 succeed. That is just teens ages 14 - 25 year old. Young mother are more likely to be bullied because of there age. Most women that judged me because they thought I was on welfare, a dropout, a failure, a single mom, my parents did teach me about sex or how to use a condom, I push my daughter off on my parents, I go out partying every night, I don't work, I am to lazy to go back to school, and that I just a bad person for one mistake I made in high school. Let me tell you Something I'm not on Welfare, not a dropout i graduated high with honors, or a failure, or even a single mom, My parents did teach me about sex and what a condoms is and what it does, I take care of my daughter and I always will, I hate parties and teens who party do drugs and drink underage, I work everyday as a stay at home mom by choice, I'm going to collage, and I am a great person if you really get to know me. Anyone who shares the same things in life such as children should not judge other because you don't like something about that person. What really bother me is that people only think about stopping teen pregnancy, but what about the teen mom that are out there? how many of them have you bullied, judged, or both till they committed suicide? Think about it and think about it hard. Teen are very curious. they want to try new things. It mite be drugs, drinking, smoking, and sex. Teen with have sex if their parents like it or not. Some will use protection and some wont. Some will get a STD and other will get pregnant. Most that get pregnant will get a Abortion, put it up for adoption , or keep the baby. To all three there is a dark side. Now i don't care if you are pro choice or life, Abortion is murder and the psychological damage is higher, which lead to depression, domestic violence, or suicide. Adoption has some perks but it can also lead to depression and suicide. Keep the baby has greater perks, you get to take care of the life you made, but the dark side is the judgement that your life is ruined, you are a $!^#, a failure, and that you life is over.
I am not trying to say go out and get pregnant and I'm not say I regret having my daughter at 16. I am in the middle on the subject of teen pregnancy. I take neither side of it. I just don't feel that it is right that fellow moms judge you because our age or life styles.