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    Kids' Bad Reactions to Gifts: Hilarious or Heinous? (Video!)

    By Charlotte Hilton Andersen, REDBOOK

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    Zooming the camera in on my son's excited face, my husband and I waited while he tore into a Christmas gift sent to him from his distant grandparents. Our plan was to tape the present opening and then send them the DVD along with a thank-you card. The fact that we thought this plan was a good one will attest to our newbie status as parents. Parenting rule #1: Kids never do what you expect them to. As the wrapping paper flew and the box was opened, his 2-year-old face fell. With tears dripping down his cheeks he wailed, "Cwothes?! Dis is worst pwesent EVER!" Then, he threw them at the fireplace. The camera was quickly turned off as we gave him as stern lecture about manners and politely saying "thank you" no matter what. He's now 9 and is the picture of politeness, but I'll admit that every Christmas Eve my husband and I watch that video and giggle all over again. I still think it's hilarious.

    Jimmy Kimmel recently asked parents to reenact this very situation by purposely giving their kids a terrible Christmas present. Here's the highlight reel.

    Did you laugh? While I thought it was mostly funny, my mom friends' reactions were more mixed. Anne wrote, "The one time my girls tried that the Christmas tree and all the decorations were down by noon. They never did it again." Robyn added, "Most of the kids were funny, but the one that flew off the handle about the Hello Kitty shirt was disturbing. Calling his parents stupid? Not funny." Jennie summed it up by saying dryly, "That kid who told Jimmy Kimmel to 'Suck my b***s' needs to be kicked in the b***s." I have to agree that I was surprised that whichever parent was holding the camera didn't drop it and run across the room with a bar of soap in hand. But then I suppose the kid had to learn it somewhere.

    Most parents seem to agree thought that whether or not you giggle a little, you need to nip this behavior in the bud. The only trick is how. For my son, after his lecture, we re-wrapped the gift and made him try it again, this time politely.

    Have your kids ever reacted badly to a gift? If so, how do you handle it?


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    30 comments

    • pmc  •  5 months ago
      Most of the kids were very young so I can understand their response, especially since the gifts were really over the top (a half eaten sandwich) The ones that I found absolutely horrible were the older kids who had more outrageous reactions. A few lessons about gratitude and politeness are definitely in order. My parents would have washed my mouth out with soap and sent me to bed at a minimum. But then I have friends, a successful marriage, have held down a job without a problem, and have had no run ins with the law...meaning I have a few manners and consideration of other people's feelings.
    • Linda  •  Huntingdon, Pennsylvania  •  5 months ago
      Thought the Hello Kitty kid and the last one were despicable, had I been the parent, I'd been too ashamed to have sent in the video, and sad to say the tv station had the audacity to air it. Whatever happened to old fashion good manners and clean vocabulary? Doesn't seem like either exists any more....Sad...
      • Snoopy 5 months ago
        I agree that his behavior was really bad; but the parents are also very much to blame because they didn't tell him that it was a joke right away, and milked it for all it was worth - even following after him with the camera. I would think they even egged him on. He called them bad parents, and the were, in fact, acting like bad parents. They were being cruel.
    • Face Plate  •  Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania  •  5 months ago
      My cousin's kid, who was inflicted with "center-of-the-universe" syndrome, used to open a gift, make a snarky comment about it (mostly nasty, but occasionally giving it his coveted "stamp of approval"), then throw it aside like garbage and demand the next one. When done, he always got even nastier -- the "take" was never enough to suit him! I was absolutely appalled at his parents, who beamed at the little monster, no matter what rude, obnoxious comment he made. There was never an attempt at discipline. The kid grew up to hate his parents and now wants nothing to do with them unless he needs a handout. His dad was nearly institutionalized over it.
      • Face Plate 5 months ago
        I should have written "afflicted" -- not "inflicted." Duh.
      • Ann 5 months ago
        The parents are totally responsible for this....SPOILED, ENTITLED, EFFIN ROTTEN.
    • ChiChi  •  5 months ago
      Oh and about the kid crying because of the Hello Kitty shirt, I would like a refund for the kid...I'd keep the shirt...
    • Lilly  •  5 months ago
      The little girl who was explaining to her mom why half of a sandwich is not a real gift was adorable, but some of the other kids clearly have dumb parents who didn't even realize how their kids' reaction makes them look bad.
    • yahoo user  •  Pleasanton, California  •  5 months ago
      Jimmy Kimmel is a #$%$
    • Snoopy  •  5 months ago
      I think a child reacting badly over a gift they don't want is horrible. A person who loves them went out of their way to find something for them that they believed the child would like. It is extremely ungrateful for a child to carry on and complain when opening a gift they're not happy with. It is the parent's job to instruct a child that, if they open a gift and don't like it - or already own it, to just say "thank you" and give the person a hug. That's what I've always told MY children to do, and they've never put on a scene like that.

      If a child doesn't learn at a young age to appreciate the nice things people do for them, even if only for the sake of the "thought", what kind of adults will they become? Selfish, greedy, self-centered adults.
      • Laurel 5 months ago
        I'm all for well-mannered people, but this wasn't a case of reaction to a gift they didn't want. The children were set up with, what could be construed as trash (a partial sandwich) or non-existent "gifts" (the invisible fence). Although the boys with the Hello Kitty shirt and electric fence gifts had extremely rude reactions, one questions the kind of parent who would pull this mean stunt and violate their children's trust just to get on national television. The children with the sandwich leftovers and the little girl who ate the rotten banana deserve better parents. The very rude children are products of their environments, may the Lord have mercy on us all.
      • Snoopy 5 months ago
        I think it was really bad, on Jimmy Kimmel's part, to ask people to do this to their children. And it was really bad on the parents' part to actually do it. But, if the parents immediately told their children it was a joke, the kids would have seen the humor in it. Then the parents could have either given them a real gift, or just laughed and told them to wait until Christmas for the real gifts and they will be happy!
    • Fawn116  •  5 months ago
      I loved the little boy that offered to eat his sisters half eaten sandwhich. lol The boy and the hello kitty shirt was a bit ot old to behave like that in my opinion. the last little boy needed to be disciplined for the language.

      Joylynn was right about the kids being set up tho.
    • Joylynn  •  5 months ago
      As much as I hate to see children acting like brats there parents did set them up. When you purposely put your child in a situation where they are going to have a meltdown (and bring a camera) you really can't say anything.
      • Fraulein 5 months ago
        Uh...what happened to teaching children humility, gratitude, and resilience in the face of "adversity" (which is really stretching the term when referring to Christmas gifts). Maybe they should be glad they have a roof over their head, food in their stomachs, clothes on their backs, and parents that love and support them....?
        People need to get over this rampant consumerism.
      • Laurel 5 months ago
        Oh, please. I'm sure you weren't such a Pollyanna at their age.
    • Justathought  •  Jefferson City, Missouri  •  5 months ago
      My son has had his share of poorly chosen gifts (the pop-up dragon book when he was 12 comes to mind) but I had a standing rule from early early on. No matter how much you hate it, smile and act like it's exactly what you dreamed of. Or at least say "Thanks". Throwing a fit doesn't make the gift better, it just make the event worse. To this day (17 Years Old) he's really good about bad gifts. He smiles and carries on, until we are alone. Merry Christmas!
    • Sad  •  Sunnyvale, California  •  5 months ago
      I think it is bad. My kids would always say, loudly, "oh thank you, it is just what I wanted!" Exactly like they were taught to say. Sometimes the expression on their faces would reveal that they were wondering if it was more of a sin to lie about liking the gift or to disobey what mommy told them to say, lolz.
    • Snoopy  •  5 months ago
      The child with the Hello Kitty shirt......they parents went way over the top to continue the joke far beyond where it should have gone, following their child around with the camera. They should have just laughed when he opened it and told him that it was just a joke. His reaction, as bad as it was, could have been stopped immediately if they told him immediately. The parents' behavior was just cruel.

      Most of the children in the video, in spite of the "bad" gifts, still had pretty good reactions to them. Those children need to be commended.

      This would be funny if the parents immediately laughed and just told their children it was a joke. Then they should have let the children open a REAL present.
      • Ann 5 months ago
        The problem with your post is this: The little #$%$ who is now on YouTube, is getting all of the attention. This teaches the kids that did behave, just exactly what in your mind?
    • Eva  •  Manila, Philippines  •  5 months ago
      The brother and sister interaction over the half-eaten sandwich was so cute! At least the little girl didn't shout out her disapproval. The last kid, yeah, had me dropping my jaws. I have never said that, ever! Well, probably because I'm a girl but I have never said stuff like that!
    • l  •  5 months ago
      the point of the challenge was to capture the funny reactions kids would have to terrible gifts. if you were given a half eaten sandwich, or a brown banana, you probably wouldn't be all the grateful. most of the kids were really good sports surprisingly, it was a cute video.
    • TBrown  •  5 months ago
      What's even more disturbing is the parents actually submitting videos of their kids acting badly....are they proud of it?
    • A Yahoo! User  •  Chicago, Illinois  •  5 months ago
      If any of my children reacted in anyway similar to any of these kids, their presents would all be donated to a more deserving person. Better luck next year.
    • H  •  5 months ago
      my kid would've just laughed and would've known it was a joke. but then again, we aren't uptight around here, so it makes sense.
    • chris  •  Richardson, Texas  •  5 months ago
      I have to admit the video was rather funny, but the parents missed a perfect opportunity to teach their kids about the true meaning of Christmas. Some of the kids clearly need to learn some respect.
    • Ann  •  Phoenix, Arizona  •  5 months ago
      None of them realize how lucky they are to be receiving anything this year. Most of this occurs with the have's as usual....They didn't receive enough throughout the rest of the year to hold off until Christmas....Poor things.
    • Irene  •  5 months ago
      Hilarious!!! Spoiled brats!

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