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    The Moment I Realized I Never Gave My Mom Enough Credit

    By Redbook | Parenting – Wed, Feb 1, 2012 11:25 AM EST

    By Charlotte Hilton Andersen, REDBOOK
    three generations
    Grocery shopping with all my my kids starts with me schlepping them all through the snow, getting something besides fruit snacks in my basket and then running the candy gauntlet at the checkout. Then I truck everyone home and cook dinner while they drive me nuts. And the other day it ended with me laying on the floor thinking that it's amazing any kids ever survive to maturity. Then it hit me: I never truly appreciated my mom until this moment.

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    There comes a point in every mom's life when you realize that the woman who gave you life did way more than that. And as a kid you never appreciated it. Here, some parents share "I never really appreciated my mom until..."

    "Every time I try to feed my kids anything that isn't bread, cheese, pasta, or sugar-laden." - Natalie

    "I drove my daughter to her friend's house (seven minutes away) and was grumbling about having to do it. Then I remembered that my mom drove one hour round trip times two to pick me up all the time so that I could be with my best friend. And I don't ever remember her grumbling about it." - Lizzy

    "My mom was a horrible worry wart. She worried about everything that we did. Boy do I know how she feels now! If I could dress my kids in a Michelin man suit everyday I would!" - Krista

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    "As a kid, I remember going the store with my whole family (eight girls with only nine years between the youngest and oldest!), and I clearly remember my dad taking off and leaving my mom with all the kids to watch and the shopping to do! Driving home after my shopping trip with my two kids, I always wonder how she stayed sane." - Melissa

    "Every time I do laundry! My mom did laundry for five kids, including four smelly boys, plus my dad. We were all involved in sports and other activities, changing clothes frequently every day. Plus, she washed and ironed all of my dad's button down work shirts. I can only imagine how never-ending it must have felt." - Megan

    "When my 13-year-old daughter was asked to do some chore around the house, her comment was "Who do you think I am, Cinderella?" When I realized she got that snarky mouth from me, I immediately called my mom and apologized for years 11-18." - Brenda

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    "When my girls all got on their periods in the same year." - Justine

    "When one of my daughters is muttering under her breath (yes, I was a champion mutterer!). I can't really get too mad because they definitely got it from me but boy do I appreciate my mom!" - Allison

    "When I became a mom, I finally understood why my mom liked to serve leftovers so much!" - Melissa

    What was your moment of parental epiphany?

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    15 comments

    • Tye
      Tye  •  Baton Rouge, Louisiana  •  3 months ago
      When my son starts asking the never ending series of "but why" questions. I remember my mom just smiling and answering ever single one for me.
    • Ruffled Feathers
      Ruffled Feathers  •  3 months ago
      When I had to change her diapers, do her laundry and take her to the doctor, I realized that I could never do enough to repay her for all she had done for my.
    • Heather
      Heather  •  Indianapolis, Indiana  •  3 months ago
      I really found out how hard my parents had it when I had my first child at nearly 21(missed by two weeks) and realized my parents had two of us by that age(teen pregnancy) and never made us feel like they had given up their lives but that we had added to theirs by being who we were. I always felt loved and appreciated and it hit me that my parents did it with less resources and support than me and I was crying cause of having one child while in a stable marriage and job. Wow, what an example to set for your kids. I hope I have lived up to it.
    • Debbie
      Debbie  •  Harrisburg, Pennsylvania  •  3 months ago
      When I was in labor with my first child, I was thinking about all the things I would do for him and then my whole life flashed before me showing me all the sacrifices my mom always made for me and my brothers.
    • lucky
      lucky  •  3 months ago
      I do not have children, but never realized how much my mom did for me until she passed away this past summer. She did so much for me I never gave her enough credit.
      • Teresa
        Teresa 3 months ago
        I do not have children either but it scares me half to death just the thought of loosing my Mom. God's blessing and strength to you. She knew you appreciated her. . . don't ever doubt it! She is a mother . . . they know everything.
    • joan
      joan  •  Littleton, Massachusetts  •  3 months ago
      Makes you wanna call your mom. I have the best one ever!!!!!
    • joan
      joan  •  Littleton, Massachusetts  •  3 months ago
      When I became a mother I apologized to mine for all the times I broke curfew or didnt call,I get it now.
    • Miss V1
      Miss V1  •  3 months ago
      When my Mom died I did not think of all the things she did for me. I thought of all the things I did not do for her.
    • Anon
      Anon  •  Englewood, Colorado  •  3 months ago
      though i don't have children, the times i choose to stand up for myself and realize that it might be a different story if i had a child/ren to take care of - not having to suck up sometimes, makes me realize what sacrifices my single mom must have had to make
      • A Yahoo! User 3 months ago
        Amen; as a single mom of three I have taken so much from employers that I hope my children have learned this lesson along with the fact of don't take it!
    • Sheila
      Sheila  •  Wausau, Wisconsin  •  3 months ago
      My Mom raised 11 children. All of the cooking, laundry and running a business on top of that. Plus, in the summer and fall she canned most of our food too. Always made Christmas special. Don't know how she did it. She was wonderful....wish I could call her in heaven. Miss her...she was our rock.
    • greene_teeth
      greene_teeth  •  Chattanooga, Tennessee  •  3 months ago
      Yes, Laura. What are you going to do about it?
    • Teresa
      Teresa  •  Olathe, Kansas  •  3 months ago
      When I was old enough to start fighting with the insurance company . . . with 7 of us kids Mom did it quite frequently . . . especially with me!
    • me
      me  •  3 months ago
      wish my 3 living children would really show their appreciation to me now instead of waiting until after im gone, then cry crocodile tears because they never really told or showed me how much they appreciate all i have done and still do for them. jelousy and disinterest is far from showing someone dear to you that you truly appreciate all the sacrifices moms make for their children. i cry silent tears each day that i live. its not too late, remember this children, you know who you are........
    • Kat H
      Kat H  •  Killeen, Texas  •  3 months ago
      My mom had seven I don't know how she did it!! I went nuts with one..Thank you Mom
    • Laura
      Laura  •  Dallas, Texas  •  3 months ago
      Sleepless nights wondering if my girls are safe....just like mom did me.
      • Peg
        Peg 3 months ago
        I have a 19 year old daughter. I sleep less now than I did when she was an infant. Sometimes the stress is unimaginable. It was so much easier when the kids were little.
      • Laura
        Laura 3 months ago
        Yes u are so right....just girls ....so lots of sleepless nights....
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