Parenting Guru: 5 dreams for my son

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When I look at my 8 year old son I'm filled with so much hope for his bright, bright future. I've got some big dreams for this amazing kid and hope he shares in these dreams as he grows:

1. May my son continue his love of art for a lifetime. He has been taking art lessons ever since he first exhibited artistic skill with a crayon. He's been blessed with amazing talent and hope he continues to develop his craft for as long as it gives him joy. The ability to give beauty back to the world is a tremendous gift.

2. May my son grow to be a dreamer. In the last year my husband and I have focused on defining our personal dreams to make them a reality, even if only in a small way. It is my hope that my son recognizes the power of his dreams and the overwhelming joy that comes from reaching for the stars.

3. May my son marry well. So maybe it's a bit premature to begin thinking about marriage but I don't have to tell you how quickly time passes. I dream my son chooses a wonderful woman to love and care for him, not to mention remind him to pick up his socks. I'm working hard to raise a wonderful husband worthy of a wonderful wife.

4. May my son continue to guide and care for his little brother in the beautiful way he always has. The brotherly bond between them is strong; I hope they continue to be each other's biggest fans and confidants. I promised myself I wouldn't cry *sniff*!

5. May my son grow to embrace the qualities that make him uniquely him. He is entering into an age where fitting in is of utmost importance. I hope he grows to understand his authenticity is worthy of celebration. There will never be another quite like him.

What are your dreams for your children?

Mommyfriend goes by Lori Garcia in real life and is a Shine Parenting Guru. She writes at www.mommyfriend.com where she's busy finding perfection in imperfection daily. When she's not folding laundry she's a Featured Parenting Contributor for Associated Content for Yahoo!