Send Your Child Safely to College

As a college administrator for more than 30 years, I suggest parents investigate whether all these suggested items are actually allowed on their kid's campus.

Instead, I suggest parents have open and honest discussions (that start long before the trip to the dorm) about responsible (and legal) drinking behaviors, appropriate and respectful sexual experimentation vs. hook ups with strangers, setting limits and boundaries, being aware of their surroundings, HOW TO ACCESS CAMPUS/LOCAL POLICE and SECURITY,and consequences of their personal choices and decisions.

If a person is educated, aware and responsible, there is a greater probability s/he will not be in a situation that requires a taser. Teach your child to be PROACTIVE, not REACTIVE about their personal safety and wellness.

Andygirl,
The more your child knows about life's dangers and how to prevent them, the better off they will be. This applies to health, relationships, crime, etc. Being street smart now a days is just as important as being book smart or having a career. I realize that some parents can become extremely paranoid, but most just want to make sure their child knows how to avoid danger and yes; stay confident and independent!

These are all good advice. You can never say too much on how to stay safe...
I also want to add:
If you are going to drink while in college or anywhere else for that matter... keep your eye on your drink. Try to get your own drink, instead of someone else getting it for you.

As another University administrator, I also agree opinionly. Plus, it is the helicopter parents who worry too much and are too involved in their students' lives who ultimately stunt their college career. Instead, teach your student about safety, learn what resources there are, and send them off with confidence and independence.

Teach your child street smarts. No one should be walking by themself at night. I took several night classes and would walk back to the dorm or my car with other people. Even if your child is going to college in a small town they still need the buddy system. Most incidences take place at a gas station close to the campsus so once again the buddy system at night. Never go into a guys dorm/apt. by yourself when you have just met him.

Remember all campuses have self defense classes.

If you're going to drink, only drink with people you trust. If you're at a party, bring a wingman or winglady. Never drink alone or with strangers. And if you're drunk, get an escort home - a friend, even campus police.

I bartended for many years and some bars have coasters which you can pour a tiny bit of your drink on (with a straw) and it will turn a certain color if anything has been added to it. Useful to get pocket size test strips. AND NEVER drink from the punch bowl mixed at frat parties.