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    The Truth About Tired Teens: Why Parents and Teens Fight Over Sleep

    Most Teens are Sleep Deprived
    The research is in: most teens get 25-33% less sleep than they need. Anyone not getting enough sleep has difficulty focusing, reasoning, driving safely, learning, and working.

    Most researchers agree: many of the common traits of adolescence --- moodiness, impulsiveness, disengagement, and depression, even obesity --- are symptoms of chronic sleep deprivation. Sleep deprivation impairs memory, so teens probably aren't being irresponsible when they forget their books and assignments; it's likely a symptom of chronic sleep deprivation.

    According to Dr. Avi Sadeh at Tel Aviv University, "A loss of one hour of sleep is equivalent to the loss of two years of cognitive maturation and development." Since the effects of sleep loss are cumulative, it can impair judgment and performance within several weeks.

    Why Teens Don't Sleep
    During puberty, the circadian rhythms --- the cycle of changes the body undergoes in a 24-hour period --- drastically change. This affects when teens get hungry, when they are most alert, when they want social contact, and the sleep/wake cycle. So even if teens go to bed earlier, they probably can't go to sleep. This is why most teens are "night owls."

    In reality, teens have two sleep problems: because their brains are developing so much, they need a lot of sleep, but because of the circadian shift, they get tired later than everyone else. Yet, because of traditional school schedules, teens often have to get up earlier than everyone else. They are chronically sleep deprived.

    Since teens are short on sleep during the week, they often sleep until early afternoon on the weekend. This can throw of their sleep/wake cycle even further. They are essentially fighting a losing battle with their own bodies to stay awake.

    How Much Sleep Do Teens Need?
    During REM sleep, the brain stores information. So the more you learn during the day, the more you need to sleep that night. Teens need about 9-1/2 hours of sleep every night, yet they tend to stay up late. Just 15 minutes of extra sleep can increase school performance. One hour more can make a dramatic improvement in teens' overall functioning and school/work performance.

    How To Help Teens Sleep?
    In a perfect world, schools would adjust their schedules to accommodate adolescent development by having high school classes start later than other grades. A high school in Edina, Minnesota, did just that. They changed their high school start times to start one hour later. This boosted math SAT scores up 56 points and verbal SAT scores a whopping 156 points. Students also reported higher levels of motivation and lower levels of depression.

    On the home front, you can encourage your teens to go to bed at a decent hour, even if they can't sleep. You can also encourage teens to cut out stimulating activities late at night. Limiting caffeinated beverages, TV, video games, and phone after nine or ten can help convince the adolescent brain that it's time for bed. Also encourage quiet reading, quiet music, and other mellow activities to make the transition to sleep time.

    On the weekends, be tolerant of your teens' need to catch up on sleep, but be sure they don't' get their days and nights mixed up. Sleeping until ten or eleven in the morning is probably fine. Staying in bed until two or three in the afternoon may do teens more harm than good.

    As with many developmental stages and the resulting parenting challenges they can bring, "This, too, shall pass." But adults can be proactive, instead of fighting a losing battle. School administrators and parents can do their part to understand adolescent brain development and adjust schedules accordingly. By educating teens about their bodies, it will help teens self-regulate their sleep.

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    13 comments

    • bookluva  •  1 year 0 months ago
      We don't just stay up because we feel like it. Looking around my AP classes, I always see atleast three drooping heads from late-night studiers.
    • kjzxahsfka  •  1 year 0 months ago
      It's kind of hard to get enough sleep when you're loaded with about 8 hours of homework a night.
    • Saiya  •  1 year 0 months ago
      If teens should be able to run one thing it would be schools!! Or at least having them start 1 hour later in the morning! You get students who aren't getting enough sleep as it doing extracurriclers (EVERY SINGLE ADULT don't even attempt to say other wise every other word out of my teachers mouths when I talked to them was bout Extra curriculers!!) so they aren't able to get there homework done at a decent hour +a part time job in most cases! No wonder teens need so much sleep!
    • MelissaM  •  1 year 0 months ago
      This is so true, I remember going through this as a teen in high school. I wish middle/high schools would recognize the biological facts of the typical teen sleep cycle and adjust their schedules accordingly.
    • 11  •  1 year 0 months ago
      I have bouts of insomnia, so I use to hate being forced into bed early. This was as early as elementary school, where I'd be sent to bed, but would be awake for at least an hour, just sitting in bed, starring at the ceiling.It was very frustrating. I wish school would have started later in the day. I give props to the schools that did that.
    • Rebekah  •  1 year 0 months ago
      Huh...apparently I never grew out of this phase. It's so hard for me to go to bed when I should because I'm my most mentally alert at about 9 pm to midnight or 1 am, and that's when I feel the best. Then I have to drag myself out of bed in the morning for may dayjob. I've said it before--it's hard being a night owl in a society that values morning birds.
    • armybabygrl  •  1 year 0 months ago
      Huh what is wrong with wanting to sleep in? I am 52 years old and I love to sleep late. I always have either afternoon jobs or night shift. It was fun when my son was small and I would get off work at midnight we would watch TV, play games, or whatever we did and then sleep all day. He could never sleep at night and I never could to so we just took advantage of it. When he started school I tried to put him on a bedtime schedule but that kid would be laying in his bed awake all night. After a couple of months of this I just said screw this. He was wide awake for school but when he came home he slept. It worked for us. He made A's through out his entire school years and even got an academic scholarship to a university. After getting into the real world after school he refuses to work during the day hours. My son and I talk in the middle of the night over the phone since we live in another State. Some people are just not morning people. I was in the military for 10 years and I never got used to the morning regime. I was always in a haze up until about 2pm and then I would be alive, and then I would work late in the evening because I had so much energy. If kids want to sleep all day on the weekends during the school year, let them do it. If they want to sleep all day in the summer so what...they would be doing something to fill their time.
    • LBC  •  1 year 0 months ago
      Why don't they just change the school schedules!? I don't get this. America is so slow to accept changes like this... so many Americans are afraid to disrupt the standard routine and social norms that have been laid down before us.... so silly! Just change the damn school schedules!
    • Joe C  •  1 year 0 months ago
      Sleep has nothing to do with it it's, society.
      I have a 13 YO step daughter that sleeps while watching TV 6 hrs a day, does nothing but eat and sleep, when I say nothing I mean NOTHING, then complains about EVERYTHING if I say ANYTHING to her she goes into a total meltdown and life becomes HELL around her for days ....can't wait for the next 5 years to go by
    • A Yahoo! User  •  1 year 0 months ago
      I wrote an article about this when I was in high school (ten years ago) because I was all for having school start later in the day. It didn't work, even though we got a picture of one of the senior honor students passed out face down on her desk!
    • Mysterious Gryphon  •  1 year 0 months ago
      This has been known for DECADES yet the grown-ups consistently insist that their kids' schedule suit their own. BAD PARENTING. A good parent makes sacrifices for their kids - even if that means staying home to raise the children (heaven forbid) and giving their teens the ability to get the rest they need on their own natural schedule.
    • Laura  •  1 year 0 months ago
      I wrote a paper on this in highschool and although teenagers need more sleep I think what it really comes down to is that the older children need to be home before the younger children are out of school. That way parents don't have to pay for extra daycare for the younger child... makes since for the parent and is unfortunate for the teenager... I still think Im sleep deprived from highschool lol I'm 27 now!
    • A Yahoo! User  •  1 year 0 months ago
      I agree with Mysterious Gryphon. This has been known since I was a teen. It's true. They need more sleep and their circadian rhythms are definitely out of whack. The inverse is true for older adults. They need less sleep and often wake up too early. As for the moodiness blamed on lack of sleep, I'm sure that has something to do with it but hormones and growing pains also add to that. Adolescence is a miserable time.

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