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    Weird New Trend: Would You Reveal Your Baby's Sex in a Cake?

    Any excuse for a party, right? But does revealing the sex of your baby count? Apparently so. It's the new trend in babyland, and it works like this:

    The parents-to-be ask their doctor to write the baby's gender on a slip of paper and seal it in an envelope. Then they drop off the envelope at a bakery and ask the baker to whip up a pink or blue cake , depending on the gender. The icing is white, so no one knows the secret - not even the parents - until the cake is cut.

    The ritual appears to have taken off after Josh Duggar - one of the infamous kids on the show 19 Kids and Counting - cut a cake on the Today show with his pregnant wife, revealing pink innards. Aww.

    But the parties are causing quite a brouhaha on the baby blogs. At issue: Are the hosts being obnoxious, presuming everyone cares as much about their baby's gender as they do? Or just having a little fun, sharing their news with pals over a slice of cake? "The debate definitely gets heated," says Rebecca Gruber, an editor at LilSugar.com. Actually, we have a question of our own: If you go to the gender party, can you skip the shower?

    What do YOU think of the baby gender cake trend--cute or obnoxious? Take the poll now!

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    11 comments

    • Charizard427  •  8 months ago
      This is such a cute idea! It probably shouldn't be a big deal - your friends and distant family don't need to go to a "gender revealing" as well as the baby shower. But I'd probably do this to tell my parents and my husband's parents. It's a cute, close-knit revealing! Maybe have a little get-together on a Saturday at the grandparent's house and bring the cake to share the news with close family :)
    • Charizard427  •  8 months ago
      I also wanted to say that I wouldn't keep the news from myself or my husband. We'd learn the sex together at the ultrasound. It's just a good way to let the grandparents know!
    • Poptart  •  7 days ago
      If the baby has Down's does the cake have black icing?
    • Nikki  •  1 year 6 months ago
      Obnoxious. Finding out is special and exciting enough. I wouldn't see why you'd have to try so hard to make it more so.
    • Lainey  •  1 year 6 months ago
      i think it's a cute idea. that's one of the first questions people ask when they find a woman is pregnant, so why not make the revelation fun?
    • Amanda  •  1 year 6 months ago
      It's a cute idea but it seems like it would work better at a baby shower or family gathering(if you aren't having a baby shower). This would save on the cost of an extra party that isn't really needed and you won't have people worrying if they HAVE to go to both. At least with this idea you won't have that odd relative or friend being upset because they weren't the first person you let know the gender of the baby.
    • KariR  •  1 year 6 months ago
      This is similar to how I told my husband we were having a girl (after 2 boys this news was especially exciting!) Having had a CVS, we had decided to find out, but expected the results on a monday (it was Friday). I took the call, and then having nearly fainted, went to the ice cream store and got a pint of strawberry, wrapped it in ribbon that had tiny writing on it that said "it's a girl" and then showed up at a small family gathering my husband was at. As I served the ice cream, I didn't say anything at all, just let the surprise unfold. I will never forget the expression on my husband's face as he realized we were going to have a daughter. A moment none of us will forget!
    • TheGirl  •  1 year 6 months ago
      i would do it with just me and my husband and kids (if we already had some). Then I would have a baby shower later. I would not wait until my child is born to know the sex... but i would also not want to know what it was right away because i would go crazy with all the planning.
    • Donna  •  1 year 6 months ago
      I had my three children back in the day when husband's weren't in the delivery room with us. And, to my knowledge, no one knew the baby's sex until after their birth. So, I think the cake is a splendid idea, especially at a Baby shower when family and friends can all find out together.
    • Jamie  •  1 year 6 months ago
      I didnt think this was a trend!! I was planning on getting a cake and taking it to a Sunday dinner, when I am pregnant, and having my husbands grandmother cut the cake and have everyone find out together- well, my husband and I will know!
      Man, I thought I was being creative- now I dont think I want to do this... anyone have any other ways of creatively letting your family know what gender your baby is?
    • Liss Moonbeam  •  1 year 6 months ago
      This is cute. I'd do it!

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