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    10 Questionable Reasons to Adopt a Child

    Adoption is a wonderful thing - when it's done in the right context. There are many reasons to adopt, but there are just as many pretty terrible reasons. From pressure to fitting in, many people can convince themselves that a child will fix whatever seems to be wrong. When in reality, you'll need to fix it as best you can before you bring a child, with it's own needs, into your family. A child should never be a therapist, a savior, or a catch all for your emotional needs. Click through to 10 things that should never be the only reason (or even one of the reasons) to consider adoption. - By Diana Stone

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      If thoughts like, "My friends will think I'm such an incredible person," cross your mind when you think about adopting, then you're not ready. When the baby is up all night screaming with colic or giving you the bird at 16 as she walks out the door with her boyfriend, your friends jealousy in your selfless act will be the furthest thing from your mind.
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      If thoughts like, "My friends will think I'm such an incredible person," cross your mind when you think about adopting, then you're not ready. When the baby is up all night screaming with colic or giving you the bird at 16 as she walks out the door with her boyfriend, your friends jealousy in your selfless act will be the furthest thing from your mind.

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