7 Benefits of Dating Men Who Need "Fixing"
The definition of potential is "having or showing the capacity to become or develop into something in the future." And that's the kind of men I used to date. Not on purpose, of course. I always state (out loud) that I want a man who is ready for all of this, a man who is ready to commit and love me like an hombre. Pretty much, I desire someone who has his life together. Professional success, financial stability, an open heart, maturity, self-awareness, and strength: I want it all! And then I'd end up with college dropouts, struggling artists (I want to be a rapper, yo!), freelance writers (living that check-to-check life), and men who resided in their momma's back room. But why? Why did I date men who had potential instead of attracting those who were already developed? Oh, there was a rationalization behind my self-sabotaging choices. Here are seven reasons why I dated men with potential. -By Sujeiry Gonzalez