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    7 Lessons Kids Can Learn from NOT Making the Team

    Last year my daughter Casey made the freshman volleyball team. The next night, I was talking to several mothers whose daughters did not make the team; they felt that everyone should have been put on the squad, a concept that made me bristle. And I told them so. And I continue to stand by my conviction, even after my daughter didn't make the JV squad this year. While I wanted to email the coach to tell her how good Casey was and inform her of the very grave mistake she was making, I did not. Why? Because not everyone deserves to make the team. Now here's the part that might blow your mind a little. I maintain that not making the team was good for Casey, providing 7 invaluable (albeit painful) life lessons. - By Rene Syler

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      But I won't fight her battles. As I said I really wanted to call the coach and have seen parents do exactly that. But that would not teach Casey anything except how to expect me to ride in to save the day. I told her I would help her figure out what to say to the coach, even attend the meeting with her but she would call it and she would do the talking.
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      But I won't fight her battles. As I said I really wanted to call the coach and have seen parents do exactly that. But that would not teach Casey anything except how to expect me to ride in to save the day. I told her I would help her figure out what to say to the coach, even attend the meeting with her but she would call it and she would do the talking.
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