7 Things NOT to Say to a Woman Who's Just Given Birth
After the birth of my first child, I can be honest and say I was not really prepared for all the emotions that would come flooding in. I was prepared for the intense onset of love for my baby, the possibility of depression, and the baby blues as hormones regulate. I was prepared for the soreness, the fatigue and, to some degree, the changes it would have on my body. But I wasn't prepared for some of the strange, insensitive comments I received, or for my emotional reaction to these comments. No one should ever be told insensitive things, but it can be especially hurtful after birth - especially so if you're criticizing her choices, things that are out of her control, or her body. Here are 7 things not to say to a woman who has just given birth: -- By Devan McGuinness
See, I Told You a Birth Plan Was Pointless
Well, hello there snotty and unsupportive comment! If your friend/family member decided to put together a birth plan yet it didn't go as planned, don't rub in in their face. Instead be there to listen if they need to talk about it and offer an ear, not judgement.
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See, I Told You a Birth Plan Was Pointless
Well, hello there snotty and unsupportive comment! If your friend/family member decided to put together a birth plan yet it didn't go as planned, don't rub in in their face. Instead be there to listen if they need to talk about it and offer an ear, not judgement.