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Allow Him to See Your Reality
So many people thought I had it together when inside I sometimes felt like my world was falling apart. I was going through a divorce, attending school full-time, working and taking care of a baby who I supported on my own. I was honest with Chris from day one about my situation and the challenges I was dealing with concerning my ex. I let him know that I didn't always know what I was doing but that I ...
more Photo by: Babble
Allow Him to See Your Reality
So many people thought I had it together when inside I sometimes felt like my world was falling apart. I was going through a divorce, attending school full-time, working and taking care of a baby who I supported on my own. I was honest with Chris from day one about my situation and the challenges I was dealing with concerning my ex. I let him know that I didn't always know what I was doing but that I was doing my best. He knew my child was my first priority and he saw firsthand how much I loved her. He also saw that being a parent wasn't easy and that by being in my life he may be forced to deal with some of the things I was dealing with. By seeing what my reality was like it allowed him to take a step back and decide if he wanted to move forward and more importantly decide if he could handle it. Not everyone can handle an ex-spouse or being with someone who has someone in their life who takes precedence over them and can't go on a 7 day cruise because they have a toddler at home.
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