8 Ways to Prepare Your Little Boy for His First Crush
My 8 year old son climbed into the car after school the other day and said, "I know a secret." The secret? A girl in his grade has a crush on him. My first reaction? "Don't embarrass her." As a mother, I probably should have taken in the news from my son's perspective, but instead I was instantly transformed into my girlhood self wrangling with her first crush-like feelings. And I panicked for her just a little. As my son moves more into the age of crushes, it has me thinking about his feelings and the feelings of the girls who may like him. So I polled some of the smartest moms I know and put together this list of ways to raise a son who won't "crush" the spirits of his admirers. Here are 8 ways to raise a crush-worthy son: - By Megan Jordan
Model kindness so he can be kind
Knowing how to respond when you find out someone has a crush on you is half the battle, regardless of whether you like-like them back. His first response will probably be embarrassment, so help him fight the knee-jerk reaction to laugh it off. "They're all trying to figure what attraction means, boys and girls, so if you have figured out a girl has a crush on you, you don't have to let it ... more
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Model kindness so he can be kind
Knowing how to respond when you find out someone has a crush on you is half the battle, regardless of whether you like-like them back. His first response will probably be embarrassment, so help him fight the knee-jerk reaction to laugh it off. "They're all trying to figure what attraction means, boys and girls, so if you have figured out a girl has a crush on you, you don't have to let it go to your head. At some point, you too will have a crush on someone who is not interested." -- Wendy at Let the Dog In!less