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    When Less Romance is More

    Spontaneous getaways and supersize bouquets settle squabbles in rom-coms and other fantasy realms, but in the real world, romantic gestures aren't cure-alls for relationship woes. In fact, unromantic gestures can be the better salve. Because couples are marrying later and living together before they do, continual improvement of the partnership is more important (and effective) than quick fixes, says Lisa Thomas, a licensed marriage therapist in Colorado. Nobody is suggesting romance be killed off completely - far from it. It's just smart to add these unconventional strengtheners into the happy-couple mix.
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      The convention: Focusing only on the positives helps couples through tough times.
      The counter: In fragile unions, having some don't-want-the-neighbours-to-hear disagreements can help the relationship survive, per a study from the University of Tennessee. Doing so helps probe - and repair - what's wrong. 'You have to feel free to tell your partner something about them isn't fantastic,' says Mary Vandergrift, 35, of ... more 
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      The convention: Focusing only on the positives helps couples through tough times.
      The counter: In fragile unions, having some don't-want-the-neighbours-to-hear disagreements can help the relationship survive, per a study from the University of Tennessee. Doing so helps probe - and repair - what's wrong. 'You have to feel free to tell your partner something about them isn't fantastic,' says Mary Vandergrift, 35, of Pittsburgh, who practices this with her husband.
      The realistic approach: Fight clean, advises Thomas. Remember to focus on finding a solution, not KO'ing your sparring partner. If you do get nasty, apologize for morphing into a mean girl and explain why you got upset.
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