How to React when Your Husband Says You Look a Mess

Photo by: Roger Kirby

Remember: your goal is togetherness
For the most part I have been doing a pretty good job of keeping these things in mind when Lamar and I are communicating, but I am not perfect. There are some days that I am stressed, or overwhelmed, or just plain moody, and during those times, I may snap at him, or might say something that offends him, or I might be overly sensitive to something that he says to me. Those are the days ... more 

Photo by: Roger Kirby

Remember: your goal is togetherness
For the most part I have been doing a pretty good job of keeping these things in mind when Lamar and I are communicating, but I am not perfect. There are some days that I am stressed, or overwhelmed, or just plain moody, and during those times, I may snap at him, or might say something that offends him, or I might be overly sensitive to something that he says to me. Those are the days that he cuts me some slack and remembers my heart, and has incredible patience with me. In the end Lamar and I love each other and we want our marriage to work. We know that if we want to achieve one-ness in our marriage, then we have to choose loving actions, even in those times when we don't feel so loving.
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