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    Seven Ways to Let Go (of a Person Place or Thing)

    Buddhism asserts that attachment is the primary source of suffering. So then detachment or "non-attachment" would be our ticket out of that pain. Except that it's not so easy... letting go of a person, place, or thing that has our heart temporarily held hostage.

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    You may be grieving the death of a loved one, or the end of a friendship you had hoped would be more, or merely the realization that your father will never be able to give you what you need from that relationship. It seems as though every moment of this life is about letting go, of something or someone that is renting far too much space in our heads.

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    And while there is no way I'd call myself a "let go" expert, I have done a considerable amount of research in this area. So the following are some techniques that... well... will at least get us started.

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      Break Up the Pain
      In Elisha Goldstein's book, Mindful-Based Stress Reduction Workbook, he teaches you how to meditate through pain. Much like a woman does in labor, if you can break up the cycle of pain into pangs of acute pain, followed by interludes less-intense pain, then you can begin to manage it, and breathe through it. I have found the same with swimming. I will be sprinting, trying to make a short interval, and then... more 
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      Break Up the Pain
      In Elisha Goldstein's book, Mindful-Based Stress Reduction Workbook, he teaches you how to meditate through pain. Much like a woman does in labor, if you can break up the cycle of pain into pangs of acute pain, followed by interludes less-intense pain, then you can begin to manage it, and breathe through it. I have found the same with swimming. I will be sprinting, trying to make a short interval, and then I get two lap to regain my breath. If you process letting go that way, you can enjoy the brief reprieves between the periods of intense pain.

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