Breakups on Shine

"It's Not You, It's Me..." Is Closure Really Important?

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Recently I read a letter written to an advice columnist which detailed a relationship that ended after (3 years). The man in this relationship asked his now ex why she was dumping him and she told him. "It's not you, it's me". When he pressed her he got…

How Do You Know If You Were Ever Really in Love?

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Dear Em & Lo,

Four months ago my girlfriend of three years ended our relationship. She gave me generic reasons: "It's not you, it's me; we're too young for such a serious relationship; we have a lot to…

Should I Breakup with My College Boyfriend?

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Dear Em & Lo,

Some may call us v-card clingers, but my boyfriend and I have been together for three years now. Giving our virginity to each other was not our first first--we were incredibly inexperienced before meeting. Although the relationship began out of lust it has…

Holy psycho! Scorned woman goes on cellphone hacking spree

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And you thought you were bad about breakups. On Monday, Ali Wise, a fancy New York lady and former P.R. director for fashion house Dolce & Gabbana, was charged with hacking into the voicemails of women who dated her ex-boyfriends. She faces four counts of trespassing, tampering, eavesdropping, and stalking--all felonies. If convicted, she could be sentenced to four years in prison.

According to the New York Post, Wise used a software program called SpoofCard (tagline: "Be Who You Want To Be"--yikes!) to break into the new girlfriends' voicemail systems. She then listened to and deleted their messages. She engaged in this practice more than 1,000 times.