David Zinczenko on Shine

Are his standards too high?

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There's absolutely nothing wrong with a man or woman making sure they get what they want out of a relationship. Whether or not you have (or he has) a literal checklist of an ideal mate or just a mental one doesn't matter. But what about the guy whose standards are so high—we're talking...

Get him to listen to you

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Sometimes your guy's attention isn't focused where you want it to be: on you. Maybe he's spent the last month obsessing over the playoffs, and when he wasn't doing that, he was fiddling with his work email on a Blackberry, or simply wondering how the heck he got sucked into digging...

How does he judge you?

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I know it can be pretty hard to understand what a guy's thinking—especially when he's thinking about you. One way to think about it is to compare your guy to the three most-watched judges in the country right now: the ones on American Idol...