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Advice From Our Guy Friends: Can I quit trimming my pubic hair?

nospam@example.com (Em and Lo, The Daily Bedpost) — Thu, 04 Sep 2008 17:31:01 -0700

Q: My boyfriend is hairy and does no pubic trimming. I'm ready to go full '70s bush myself. Any advice? Straight Married Guy (Frederick): By all means, let the garden grow! Full bush is sexy. You're a woman, not a girl. Of course, I'm a product of the '70s,...

Ask Em and Lo: My boyfriend won't go down on me

nospam@example.com (Em and Lo, The Daily Bedpost) — Thu, 04 Sep 2008 17:19:18 -0700

Dear Em & Lo, Long story short: My partner refuses to perform cunnilingus on me, claiming that the taste is unpleasant. Any suggestions on how to make it better? I've tried all the obvious hygiene solutions, including douching and internal feminine deodorants, but this seems not to improve...

Reproductive rights and sexual freedoms, take cover!

nospam@example.com (Em and Lo, The Daily Bedpost) — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 21:19:38 -0700

Even though McCain's choice for VP last week is a woman, the evangelical, socially conservative Sarah Palin couldn't be more anti-woman. According to Cecile Richards, the Planned Parenthood Action Fund President (who...

Things (not) to say during sex

nospam@example.com (Em and Lo, The Daily Bedpost) — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 15:57:02 -0700

If you've ever wanted a bit of help figuring out what's dirty sexy talk and what's just plain weird, then this

What we sing about when we sing about the body

nospam@example.com (Em and Lo, The Daily Bedpost) — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 14:48:01 -0700

Did you know that the eyes are the most common body part sung about in most music genres, from electronica to folk to country to R&B? Even metal! The only exceptions are hip hop, in which la derriere takes the prize, and blues and gospel, where the hands are in the lead (though we're pretty sure...

We ask you: How many sex partners?

nospam@example.com (Em and Lo, The Daily Bedpost) — Tue, 02 Sep 2008 15:41:45 -0700

Em & Lo get personal this week, asking New Yorkers if they'll reveal their magic number.

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LOVE HOROSCOPE: Seeing stars for the week of September 1st

nospam@example.com (Em and Lo, The Daily Bedpost) — Tue, 02 Sep 2008 16:05:21 -0700

aries (Mar. 21st-Apr. 20th) You will find it difficult to hide your true feelings. You'll be passionate, warm, and affectionate in your gestures, and this will incur "interesting" responses. Especially if all this "warmth" and "affection" is being...

Before I die I want to... experiment with a woman

nospam@example.com (Em and Lo, The Daily Bedpost) — Tue, 02 Sep 2008 15:52:11 -0700

This week's bucket list edition goes out to a whole bunch of women who have written in to say that they're straight but fancy getting jiggy with a lady. Take this note from Allie, for example: "Before I die (actually, before I settle down), I want to sleep with another woman. How do I tap into my bi-curious side, and how do I even find someone to experiment with?" Oh, and if you're on the fence about attacking your own bucket list, consider this: Dave Freeman, co-author of the original 100 Things to Do Before You Die book, died this week at age 47, after hitting his head in a fall (his family says he got through about half his list). So here are a few tips for all you post-college L.U.G.s out there. Go on, do it for Dave!

Advice from our guy friends: My boyfriend won't cuddle. Help!

nospam@example.com (Em and Lo, The Daily Bedpost) — Tue, 02 Sep 2008 15:53:16 -0700

Q: Why doesn't my boyfriend like to cuddle? Gay Committed Guy (Terence): Boys don't like to cuddle 'cause it rarely means foreplay. Cuddling is an end to itself. You cuddle, and that's it. No climax. And half the time you wind up with a kink...

When someone's been a very naughty boy...Spanked by Rachel Kramer Bussel

nospam@example.com (Em and Lo, The Daily Bedpost) — Thu, 28 Aug 2008 16:28:40 -0700

Rachel Kramer Bussel is a prolific producer of erotica anthologies--the last time we spoke with her, we marveled that she was the editor of not one but two anthologies just on spanking...