Your man recently told you that he has slept with quite a few women before he met you. While you didn't expect him to be a virgin, you also didn't think he had been with so many different women. It's perfectly normal to be a little shocked and upset if you found out your man has had sex with at least 10 or 20 women before he met you. It might even cause you to constantly compare yourself to these other women. But you shouldn't allow your man's sexual past to drive you crazy. Here are some tips on dealing with your man's sexual past.
Realize that his sexual past has nothing to do with you
I know it can be difficult, but you must realize that his sexual past has nothing to do with you. He had sex with these women before he knew you, so you shouldn't hold it against him. There is nothing he can do to change his past; all he can do is concentrate on the present with you.
Don't assume he is still promiscuous
Just because he slept with a lot of women in the past doesn't mean he is still promiscuous. It's quite possible that he got it out of his system and is content with being with just one woman. You shouldn't worry that he will want to be with other women while he is dating you.
Avoid trying to make him feel bad about his sexual past
He didn't have to tell you about his sexual past, but he did. That's why you should avoid trying to make him feel bad about it. Don't constantly bring the subject up or say things like, "I can't understand how you could have slept with so many women!" Doing this will upset him and make him regret that he even told you about his past.
Appreciate That His Sexual Experience Could Make Him Better in Bed
He's had a lot of experience with sex, which probably means he's a good lover. Appreciate the fact that other women got the brunt of his awkward phase instead of you.
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