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By YourTango, on Thu Nov 5, 2009 8:05am PST
For the first time ever, couples don't have to
fight over who said what. SpatSolver has you covered! Are you in
the habit of zoning out when your spouse is speaking to you?
Don't worry, SpatSolver is listening for you!
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Why do some couples stay happy together for a lifetime, while
others are in conflict almost from the beginning? Part of the
answer is compatibility - making the initial choice of a partner
with whom you share common values. Equally much, however, depends
upon the choices each partner chooses to make during the
relationship. Here are seven choices made by happy couples: Read More »
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Everything is based on mind, is led by mind, and is
fashioned by mind. If you speak and act with a polluted mind,
suffering will follow you, as the wheels of the oxcart follow the
footsteps of the ox. Everything is based on mind, is led by mind,
is fashioned by mind. If you speak and act…
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Compassion literally means to feel with, to suffer with. Everyone
is capable of compassion, and yet everyone tends to avoid it
because it's uncomfortable. And the avoidance produces psychic
numbing -- resistance to experiencing our pain for the world and
other beings.
It had been raining for…
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She looked at the photograph of her son. He would always be
seven years old, tow haired and missing two front teeth. Grasping
the framed photo tighter in her quivering hands, so tight that the
corners of the brass colored left impressions in her flesh, she
looked at the American flag covered…
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Once upon a time, there lived a man who wanted to achieve
everything he was capable of achieving. He was obsessed with this
desire. He ate, slept, and walked with one and only dream: to die,
having accomplished every single thing he was able to accomplish.
There were so many things he could…
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