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Too busy for date night? Try a date day
On a recent national holiday (not yesterday), as I was scrambling to figure out how I was going to juggle work and childcare, I realized that I didn't actually have to drive in to the office that day and, for some reason, my kids' daycare was actually open.
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My husband didn't have to drive in to the office, either. But he's so used to having to catch up on work from home, and I'm so used to having a big bunch of freelance irons in the fire, that it took us a while to see the potential in the situation: Work (optional) + daycare (open) = pre-paid childcare and time to ourselves. Alone.
He did the math more quickly than I did; when he asked me if I wanted to go to the movies after I dropped the wee ones off, I almost told him that I had been planning to work from home that day and wouldn't have time. Sad, isn't it?
When you and your partner are both working and juggling all the time, its easy to let your relationship simmer along on the back burner. Read More »
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What happens when the breadwinner gets laid off?
Working mother Jennifer Zipp was on maternity leave when she got the call. Laid off, along with 800 others in her company. She was a new mom, a new homeowner, and supplied the main source of income for her family. How did she stay positive?
"After just having bought a house, we were afraid of not being able to pay our mortgage," Jennifer says. "We did have a savings, but it was scary timing because of the economy and that there weren't many jobs out there." Read More »- Let’s talk: Comment (11) | Blog
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Kids and TV: Welcome to the working mom's guilt show
One of the things I always tell other parents -- especially other working moms who are struggling with their juggling of career and motherhood -- is that they shouldn't feel guilty for letting their little kids watch TV if they need to get their work done.
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It's something I really believe is OK. It's something I do more often than I'd like. And it's something that makes me feel like a total hypocrite because, half a lifetime ago, when I was a nanny, I never turned the TV on when the kids were around. Ever. Read More »- Let’s talk: Comment (13) | Blog
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Cheating at supermomming
Karen Walrond is a corporate attorney and wife, mother, amateur photographer and admitted supermom cheater. You can find more of her writing at Work It, Mom!
I have a confession.
I'm not one of those supermoms who kicks ass in corporate pumps all day, just to come home and construct a perfect princess castle for my adoring four-year-old with nothing but glitter and love in the evening. I'm not that friend who brings home the bacon, fries it up in a pan, and neverevereverever lets you forget you're a man. Seriously, I'm not. The truth is, I totally cheat. Read More »
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Working moms and the Mommy Drive-By: Why do we do this to one another?
We've all experienced it at one time or another: The Mommy Drive-By. When someone -- a relative, another mom, a total stranger -- takes it upon herself to question your judgment or criticize your parenting.
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Single moms get flak about their social lives. Step moms are looked down upon for not being "a real parent." Breast-feeding mamas get hit when they nurse their child in public; formula-feeding mothers get the evil eye when they whip out a bottle instead of a breast. Mothers from all walks of life are questioned for decisions large and small. And working mothers, well, they get a little bit of "all of the above."
I'm positive that I thought I knew more about parenting before I became a parent, so I can kind of see why non-parents feel compelled to tell parents what they should do differently, whether they are qualified to say anything or not. But when the drive-by comes from another working mom, I'm baffled... why do we do this to one another? Read More »
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Returning to Our Unique Nature
In 1976, times were fun, safe, and carefree. I was 16 years old with the whole world before me and I had big plans. Growing up on the heels of the 60’s meant gleefully exploring the trails blazed by the generation before us. Things not previously thought possible were now both acceptable and... Read More »- Let’s talk: Comment (0) | Blog
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