You've been dating your guy for several months. The two of you seem to get along well together, and you can really see yourself getting serious with him. But there's just one little problem. He has yet to introduce you to his parents. And whenever you bring it up, he just seems to change the subject. It might make you wonder if he truly even wants you to meet his parents. Here are some possible reasons why he doesn't want you to meet them.
He doesn't get along with his parents
Something might have happened in the past that put a strain on his relationship with his parents. If he doesn't get along with his parents, he most likely doesn't want you to meet them, and you should respect that. Don't badger him to introduce you to his parents if he feels uncomfortable around them. It's best for him to reconcile things with his parents before he lets you meet them.
His parents embarrass him
It's possible that his parents embarrass him. Maybe his dad always tells offensive jokes or his mom dresses too young for his age. If this is the case, you should let him know that he shouldn't be embarrassed of his parents around you. Tell him that you are not a judgmental person and that you can accept his parents for who they are, even if they are a little goofy.
You embarrass him
It sounds harsh, but maybe he doesn't want to introduce you to his parents because you embarrass him. He might believe his parents will think that you are not the girl he should end up with. If you find out that this is the reason he doesn't want to introduce you to his parents, you should really consider breaking things off with him. It's not good to be with someone who isn't proud to be with you. You deserve to be with someone who appreciates you for who you are and doesn't want you to change.
It's important for you to just flat out ask him why he doesn't want to introduce you to his parents. When he gives you his answer, you can figure out how you want to handle the situation from there.More from Katya Gordeeva:
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