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    10 Easy Ways to Become a Better Person

    Making a change in the world can be an easy part of your everyday life. Here are 10 ways you can make a difference. From Most Good, Least Harm: A Simple Principle for a Better World and Meaningful Life by Zoe Weil

    1. Commit to the 3 I's: Inquire, Introspect, live with Integrity. Expose yourself to information and ideas about most good (MOGO) living by talking to and learning from people from all walks of life -- especially people who are also trying to do the most good and the least harm; by reading widely and deeply; by visiting websites aimed at making a difference; and by viewing relevant films. You can find a list of regularly updated websites, books, magazines, and films in the resources section at HumaneEducation.org. Then introspect: identify your values, consider what is most important to you, assess your talents and interests, and seek out ways to put these together practically and productively. Finally, live with integrity. To the best of your ability, put your values into practice.

    2. Work for change. Give some of your time, resources, and talents to create systemic change that benefits all. Choose the issues that most concern and compel you, get involved, and relish the joy that such generosity brings to yourself and others. If you can, make your career one that is MOGO.

    3. Rethink, Reuse, Repair, and Recycle. As much as possible, rethink your use of products that are unnecessary, inhumane, produced through exploitive business practices, non-recyclable, over-packaged, toxic, and/or unsustainable. When you do make purchases, choose the most sustainable, efficient, humane, fairly traded, and healthy versions. Then reuse what you can, repair what is reparable, and recycle when you are through. And in the midst of these 4 Rs, consider what you could borrow instead of buy, and what you could share with friends and neighbors so that they can better rethink unnecessary products, too.

    4. Eat for life. As much as possible, choose plant-based foods produced close to where you live, grown organically, and unprocessed. This will improve your health, the environment, the lives of animals, and the wellbeing of other people.

    5. Reduce your ecological footprint. Drive less, carpool, walk, bike, car-share, and use public transportation more. If you need to own a car, choose one with the best fuel efficiency to meet your needs. Choose the most energy efficient and ecologically friendly options for homes, home repair, appliances, lighting, heating, and cooling. Choose your recreation and vacations with MOGO in mind as well: an ecotourism excursion over a cruise; cross-country skiing instead of downhill skiing; canoeing more often than motor boating.

    6. Transform education. People need relevant information, tools for critical thinking, and motivation to lead meaningful lives that contribute to a better world. Whether you are a parent, student, teacher, elder, or concerned citizen, help make living sustainably and peacefully the very purpose of education at all levels by engaging in dialogue with lawmakers, educators, and school and university administrators.

    7. Invest your money ethically. If you are going to rely on a mutual fund for retirement or college, choose a socially responsible investment fund. Ask for a portfolio and assess whether the company invests in the kinds of businesses you want to support. Seek out community banks and credit unions, and consider micro-lending and investment in social businesses as a means of using your money to help others.

    8. Build community. Find others who share your desire to make MOGO choices by joining existing groups or creating your own group, and invite people to join you. You will enjoy the friendship and camaraderie, and help make a difference at the same time. Don't forget the communities of which you are already a part. Get to know your neighbors, and work with them to make your neighborhood healthy, supportive, and safe.

    9. Teach others. Share what you know with others and engage them in the challenge of living a MOGO life by using positive communication that does not judge or blame. Listen as often as you speak. Teaching and learning happen everywhere: one on one, in schools, in religious congregations, at camps, in families, in print and film, at learning centers, on social networking internet sites, at senior facilities, and so on. Model your message, and speak your truth in kind and inspiring ways wherever you are and with whomever you're in contact.

    10. Strive for balance. Set reasonable goals for yourself, and remember that the "most good, least harm" equation includes you. You are a role model for a MOGO life, so find the balance that lets you live joyfully, enthusiastically, and compassionately.

    Learn how change starts with you with Zoe Weil's Most Good, Least Harm.

    ABOUT THE AUTHOR
    Zoe Weil, author of Most Good, Least Harm: A Simple Principle for a Better World and Meaningful Life (Copyright © 2009 by Zoe Weil), is the co-founder and president of the Institute for Humane Education. She created the first M.Ed degree and certificate programs in humane education in the United States. Zoe leads MOGO and humane education workshops throughout the Unite States and Canada. She lives in coastal Maine. Visit zoeweil.com for information on workshops and presentations.

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    542 comments

    • RickyP  •  1 year 0 months ago
      I kind of liked it... call me crazy! :)
    • Ratna  •  1 year 1 month ago
      good thing but i dont think we can do all that... mission impossible..
    • Way E  •  1 year 1 month ago
      Holy cow, CassieL, you hit the nail exactly on the head. Excellent post!
    • HenryD  •  1 year 1 month ago
      Shop at Walmart. They are raising the standard of living in America by making more products available and lowering prices. They are also giving jobs to the poor Chinese. You will feel good saving an average of $3000 per year per family.
    • HenryD  •  1 year 1 month ago
      Become a successful capitalist who employs people so they can get health care and feel good about themselves,
    • Chewvacas and spit them o ...  •  1 year 1 month ago
      Posted by Robert Tue Jan 25, 2011 6:35am PST

      Neshah, I have just one question; WHAT?
      I love it!! LOL

      Posted by James Tue Jan 25, 2011 6:37am PST

      One that isn't on here that I have found to be profoundly positive is "eliminate toxic people from your life". I have taken stock and done this several times, and while it may seem harsh, it's extremely uplifting to let go of emotional vampires that will never be pleased with anything you do or say. And you can apply it to chronically troublesome relatives too--not just friends.
      SOOOO TRUE!! Good one, James!
    • Jackie  •  1 year 1 month ago
      "Man the people who comment on here are just the most negative people. Being a better person is up for interpretation, take the article how u want, but all 10 are positive things."
      TOTALLY AGREE WITH REDR
    • Jackie  •  1 year 1 month ago
      I really like this article. I guess we all have our own ways of understanding/point of view. It is about making this WORLD better for all of US! in doing so it makes us feel better about ourself inside and outside. REMEMBER WE SHARE ONE PLANET AND WE ARE DOSTROYING IT, BUT WE ALSO DAMAGE OURSELVES FOR THE POOR DECISIONS WE MAKE, THAT'S IT.
    • Daniel  •  1 year 1 month ago
      These actions might make you a better person according to human standards. It would be difficult to implement these 100% all the time, but even if you could, you would only appear good to others and you may feel good about yourself most of the time. Even if you were perfect by these standards, you would still fall short of the ultimate good: God!
      God does not use human standards of judgment; he uses Himself (Mt 5:48), and no one can meet that standard (Rom 3:23). Even if you have NEVER lied, stolen, or mistreated another, etc. not even once, you would still be guilty, because God judges your heart and motives. Jesus said, “You have heard that it was said to the people long ago, ‘You shall not murder, and anyone who murders will be subject to judgment.’ But I tell you that anyone who is angry with a brother or sister will be subject to judgment (Mt 5:22). Even tougher He said, “You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.” (Mt. 5:27). Compared to God’s standards our good deeds are like “filthy rags” (Is 64:6). God says every person will be judged (Heb 9:27), and He’ll use his standards, not ours. We’re all sunk!
      Because god is perfectly just, he can’t just let us off the hook. Just like in court, if you break a law, the judge still has to punish you, even if you tried not to break the law or are sorry. Fortunately, God loves us so much that he came to earth in the person of Jesus Christ and took our punishment for us. Justice was satisfied, and Jesus took on our punishment and in exchange gave us His righteousness! Even though all people fall short, whoever accepts God’s offer by turning away from sin and accepting the fact of Jesus’ lordship will be imputed God’s perfect righteousness.
      Forget human wisdom and human standards of “good;” you can have God’s goodness!
    • Matt  •  1 year 1 month ago
      10.Avoid religion.
      9.Avoid religion.
      8.Avoid religion.
      7.Avoid religion.
      6.Avoid religion.
      5.Avoid religion.
      4.Avoid religion.
      3.Avoid religion.
      2.Avoid religion.
      1.Read rules 10-2.
    • Scott  •  1 year 1 month ago
      God bless the industrial revolution for exploiting our environment and giving us the great things we have today. If people had learned to live with less a long time ago, the world would be a horrid place to live for future generations.

      Teaching yourself that life is about living with as little as possible will make you misrable.
    • jc  •  1 year 1 month ago
      get a life
      how damn judgmental is this?
      want to be a better person
      stop telling others how to and what to think and do
      got it
      live and let live
    • notphilfan  •  1 year 1 month ago
      they should call this the 6 ways to promote mogo..................what a crock......................even the first one, the three I's is wrong....live with integrity would be LWI.....................another self help expert who is probably twice divorced and living on food stamps......buy my book, please buy my book................
    • dick  •  1 year 1 month ago
      10 ways to be broke and finish last in america!
    • Tim  •  1 year 1 month ago
      I'll stick to my own plan. Thanks.
    • Lori  •  1 year 1 month ago
      10 easy ways? Really. Doesn't sound very easy to me.
    • Gert S  •  1 year 1 month ago
      Wow.. sure are a bunch of negative people posting. Apparently they don't get it that this is for THEM.

      All the author is stating is leave smaller footprints in the world. Most people don't know how to do that yet.

      As for the person who said anyone following these mandates will just become an egotistical jerk.. go look in a mirror. Your superiority complex is apparent by your post. ALL effort to better yourself counts even if you have a very VERY long way to go.

      Would you rather people just give up and not try simply because none of these suggestions will solve ALL social's ills all at once?
    • Monkey Say  •  1 year 1 month ago
      Very liberal and regressive. A mother-earthy, Godless outlook.
    • di  •  1 year 1 month ago
      be kind and encouraging to people around you that you encounter each day. Think well of them and give them the benefit of the doubt, even if you disagree on things like what to drive, what to eat, where and how to vacation.
    • Brent  •  1 year 1 month ago
      Sounds like 10 ways to be a better Hippie.