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    10 Signs It's Time to Leave Your Job



    By Stephanie Rogers

    Most of us spend more time with our colleagues and bosses than our partners, kids and friends. If that's not motivation to make sure your job is a good fit, what is? The job you choose can determine how physically and mentally healthy you are, your standard of living, your future prospects and whether you look back at your life at the brink of death and feel like you did your best. Consider these 10 signs that it's time to quit, and you might just set yourself onto a much more fulfilling path.

    Just about any task is better than doing your job.


    When you're at work, you'll do just about anything to avoid performing the tasks that are assigned to you. You play around on Facebook, browse the internet and organize your vacation photos. In fact, you're happy to perform menial tasks like taking out the trash and running errands for the boss - anything that will keep you away from your job for another five minutes. In other words, your work is utterly joyless for you.

    You've got unsolvable issues with management.


    There's almost always going to be a certain amount of friction between workers and management; that's just the way of the world. But sometimes, no matter how hard you try to diffuse it, conflicts with your higher-ups can jeopardize your career well into the future. First, make sure that it isn't all your Facebooking, those lunchtime cocktails or any other performance or behavior issues that are causing the problem. Then, talk to your boss' boss. If that doesn't work, think about moving on. Sometimes, it's just not a good fit.

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    Your company is on a downward spiral.


    There have been layoffs left and right, and the company has been reorganized and consolidated so many times it's hardly recognizable. Things are so tight, they've asked white-collar workers to start delivering packages and vacuuming their own cubicles. This ship is probably going down, and even if the company manages to hang on, your position could be eliminated at any time. Don't be caught by surprise. Start researching new jobs right now.

    Your skills aren't valued.


    You feel like you've got a lot to offer, and your company just isn't using you to your full potential. Not only are you rarely challenged, but you're marginalized. Maybe you're not being included in important meetings, or you've been passed over for a promotion. If your job doesn't let you flex, you won't be able to build more skills and grow professionally.

    You're stuck in a dead end.


    You haven't gotten very far in your company, but the growth has stopped, and it doesn't look like things will be getting better any time soon. There are no opportunities to move up, and no opportunities for higher pay. Unless you can come to grips with the fact that you might remain stagnant for the rest of your career, you should explore options that can take you higher.

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    You dread going to work.


    It's Sunday night and your stomach is a ball of lead. The absolute last thing you want to do tomorrow morning is get up and go to work. Maybe your anxiety is so bad, you have a hard time enjoying your weekends because you just can't stop thinking about Monday morning. When you hate your job this much, you're not doing yourself or your employers any favors by staying on.

    You're simply bored.


    Maybe work is not so bad, but you can't muster much enthusiasm about it. You definitely don't feel passionate about what you do - it's just work. This is reality for a lot of people, and in a poor economy, it's probably not enough reason on its own to quit your job. But take this opportunity to imagine what kind of job would make you truly happy. What would you rather be doing right at this moment? Running a food truck, starting a dog grooming business or growing exotic orchids could certainly be a viable business. Your dream might be more achievable than you think.

    You can't pay your bills.


    On the other hand, some people quit well-paying jobs with the hopes of following their dreams only to find that surviving on their new pay is practically impossible. If you truly love what you're doing, make it work. That might mean downsizing your lifestyle so that you don't require as much money to pay the bills. But if you're working to exhaustion every day and still stressing about your paltry paychecks, it's probably not worth it.

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    It's affecting your health.


    Speaking of stress, it can really do some cruel and horrifying things to your body and your mind, putting you at increased risk for heart attacks, respiratory disorders and hormonal imbalances. It can cause tension headaches, nerve pain, irritability, joint pain, ulcers and depression. You shouldn't have to sacrifice your well-being for your job. If you lie in bed every morning wishing you could call in sick yet again, perhaps this gig is not for you.

    It's affecting your personal life.


    You'd love to go out for drinks with friends, catch up with that cute guy that always flirts with you at the gym or attend your daughter's dance recital, but you can't. You've got to go to work. Some people aren't bothered by 80-hour work weeks, and everybody has to decide for themselves what level of personal sacrifice they find acceptable. But being miserable because your job is keeping you from enjoying your life? Not okay.

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    • Renee  •  New Orleans, Louisiana  •  4 months ago
      I have been with my Company for 11 years...I finally got the Promotion I worked so long and hard for...But I was not given a NICKEL more in pay!!!!!!!!!! What is wrong with this picture? Needless to say I am looking for employment with a Company that will pay me what I am worth!!!!!!!!!!!!
      • Susan 4 months ago
        Happened to me last year. I quit. Found a job that paid the same (very little) but had a lot less stress.
      • Katherine 4 months ago
        Good for you Renee, and good luck. Just don't quit until you find it, 'cause it's brutal out there. And do your new job (the promotion) as well as you can, despite the pay. It's good experience and will help you on your new job. The last thing you need is a bad reference, and unfortunately, very few jobs are paying well to start. The fact that you did not receive a raise could be due more to the economy than your performance, so don't take it personally. Marie Callendar's, Sears, the post office, and Bank of America, are just a few major employers that are closing numerous locations due to economic conditions, so unless a company is doing exceptionally well, they are just not giving raises. In fact, a lot of people are taking cuts just to keep their jobs. Also consider that you have 11 years in. If you are vesting for a retirement or have health insurance, it may not be worth it to make a move. Beware, a lot of companies will hire, then lay you off before you become eligible for benefits. You would not want to quit a job that is secure for one that may not keep you on beyond 90 days!
      • WARIOWAC 4 months ago
        it's $$$ for everybody
    • groucho  •  4 months ago
      I dread going to work every day. I wish I could speak the truth about what goes on there.
      • Chief 4 months ago
        Have a backbone & just do it. You don't have to be a jerk about it. Use facts & be tactful. If other employees &/or your boss can't handle it, shame on them.
      • Miss Boop 4 months ago
        You can always speak the truth about your job on paper or online just don't name names or let ppl no where you work so you can't and won't get fired.
      • Magruder Fingers 4 months ago
        Speak the truth and have solutions or ideas to improve things.
    • Kaotik29  •  Buffalo, New York  •  4 months ago
      I have 8 out of 10. And bad management is the cause of it all.
    • Kika  •  4 months ago
      "10 signs it's time to leave your job". Right...like there's another job to go to. Want an example of what it's like here? Here goes...
      I stayed at my job (front desk at a small motel) even though we peons (there were 3 of us) didn't get sick days, holidays or vacation. In fact, if you called in sick, you were told if you didn't come in you would get fired. We were also threatened with being fired if we didn't do some of the motel work, such as making the bank deposits, off the clock so I called the labor board. They told me that was illegal, stay on the clock, and if I was fired to call them back. Well, I wasn't fired. Instead my hours were cut to between 11 and 20/week. Why didn't I leave? If I quit, I couldn't collect unemployment (the boss would fight it and no other employee would stand up to her). Also, there were no other jobs to go to and at least I was making a little money where I was. And when I say no other jobs, I mean nothing! When you go to the unemployment office and the board that lists jobs is blank, you know it's bad. There used to be quite a few jobs to pick from, but now there's nothing available because nobody is quitting. Move, you say? That takes money and I'm trying to save enough to do just that.
      The good news is, I no longer work at that motel.
      The bad news is, it's because the boss ran off with all the money, can't be found in order to file charges, and the motel closed. We all not only lost our jobs, we didn't get our last paycheck (2 weeks of pay). But I'm finally getting unemployment!
      • Sherry F 4 months ago
        I've worked 6 days a week 19 years at a job that pays less than minimum wage. There are also no sick days, no vacation days, and no retirement. It's 30 h0ours a week and pays so little that I have taken on other jobs. One was 3 hours a day . It cost 1 1/2 hours pay to get there each day and 30 minutes worth for taxes, but I got paid minimum wage for an hours worth of work each day. I worked there 5 days a week for 8 years along with m,y other job. They laid me off after that time because the company was having trouble..and they said they would call me back if things were better for them and all, but I could still not collect unemployment. I,m 53. I'm not a teenager..and I am sooo tired. Be glad for your unemployment!
      • Kika 4 months ago
        Sherry - I'm very grateful for my unemployment, but it has almost run out. It isn't much, but it has really helped me survive. And if it wasn't for having a very kind and understanding landlord and a wonderfully helpful ex-husband, I don't know what I would have done.
        I sympathize with you. I'm a few years older than you and I know what you mean about being tired. Not just physically tired, but emotionally tired too...right?
    • Andrea  •  Boynton Beach, Florida  •  4 months ago
      Great article! I used to have nightmares every night and then dread going to work the next day. I didn't change jobs though...I simply changed the way I thought about it. I adopted the idea that if I were to die tomorrow he would find someone to replace me. After I accepted that fact then I was able to leave my work stress at work.
    • Any Mouse  •  Southfield, Michigan  •  4 months ago
      I hate it when people won't get a lower paying job just because they are "used" to the higher pay. I was laid off when I was making over $80,000 a year. I took a job that paid about $46,000 a year. Unfortunatly I had a heart attack shortly after getting the new job and could not work that job any more even though I loved it. I looked for about two months but didn't find a job even at $30,000. But I did go get a job. I started doing security work at eleven dollars an hour. Got lots of overtime. Worked my way up until I got promoted to a supervisor position at $40,000 a year and was getting great reviews and a promise of another $300 a week on my next pay raise. So, it can be done if you just cut back on things you WANT and just buy things you NEED. I'm now retired and have no bills except rent, utilites, necessary insurances, and gas for my car if I want to go somewhere. I have NO credit cards. I paid them all off 7 years ago and I pay cash for everything or I don't buy it. Lay-a-way is great for anything I can't really afford on one monthly retirement payday. Look, really look at where you are and do something about it; right, wrong, or just different.
    • '  •  Atlanta, Georgia  •  4 months ago
      Being bored is never a good reason to leave a job, especially during these times. However I kinda agree with the "affecting your personal life" reason. These days companies want you to live at work: "must be flexible, must be willing to work holidays, nights, evenings and weekends" all for $ 8.50/hr. In other words, we want you to be our slave and when we say jump be sure to ask us "how high?". Companies have to to be willing to work with people, regardless of one's station in life. Children or no children, everyone has some sort of obligations in life outside of work. We all have families who need us and we all try to fit our schedules around helping one another out. Neither big businesses or small care about that. It's like they don't value the concept of family anymore
    • Connie  •  4 months ago
      Great advice, I had most of this signs and yet it was hard for me to leave finally I was let go. I am unemployed now but I have enrolled in online classes for a degree and I am currently collecting unemployment benefits. I realized that my health comes first. I am happy,stress free and healthy. I'm making the necessary changes to succeed in life. I will never get in an unrewarding job situation again.
    • Susan  •  Denver, Colorado  •  4 months ago
      Who makes enough to pay their bills these days? My last 2 jobs paid the grocery bill. My mortgage and other expenses came out of my savings/IRA.
    • cj  •  Richardson, Texas  •  4 months ago
      Its an employers market but they usually will get what they pay for. I'm changing jobs tomorrow. Its a sellers market if you've learned the right trade.
    • M  •  4 months ago
      Been with my company for 12 years. Hired on in my mid 20's. It's not a great or ideal job but it pays my bills, maintainence for my car and a roof over my head and these things i am thankful for. But more and more I'm thinking i want to do something else. I've gone as far as i can go here, i'll never be lead or supervisor (not that i entirely *want those positions, but it'd be nice to know that i could have the option or opportunity.) . The branch of this company went from 90 associates from when i started, down to 23 including 3 temporary employees. we have 4 leads, 2 supervisors 1 operations manager and 1 DC manager. 8 management for less than 24 employees. that's over a 2 to 1 ratio. Corporate even demoted our HR rep to working in one of the other departments, so management handles HR stuff now.

      The company as a whole seems to be doing well and i do get along with everyone there even with the "social hierarchy". There's one in every job. I try to refrain from offering ideas simply because they're either borrowed or someone else gets credit for them. I still continue to observe ways to improve things though, i just keep that to myself. Granted, everyone has someone to answer for, even management, so i cut them some slack. but it still doesn't appease that eagerness of wanting to learn more.

      It's not a matter of entitlement or deserving anything. I just want for more opportunities. I've given 150% but i've only managed to keep my job and not make anymore headway into learning more about other aspects and fields and i cannot readily do so when there's no room for growth, especially in a streamlined 23 person roster.

      I guess it boils down to taking that plunge or remaining stagnant. I do fear leaving the safety of a steady job for the uncertainty.... however that in no way diminishes the exhilaration and desire of learning something new.
    • Liz  •  Dubai, United Arab Emirates  •  4 months ago
      I go through all of these in my job, can't find another though & I've been looking for 2 years! It's gotten so bad last year that I started getting random panic attacks from the stress. This is probably a sign that I'm better off going back to school to get a Masters degree.
    • Jason P  •  Manassas, Virginia  •  4 months ago
      1)Your skills aren't valued. 2)You're stuck in a dead end. 3) You've got unsolvable issues with management. 4)It's affecting your health. "c, I had told Craig & em I was gon kick it with them, gta go, c ya when I c ya"
    • CHRIS  •  4 months ago
      I work 2 PT jobs. One at a Exxon station. 20 miles from home. Each way. $8 Hr. I also work for AAFES on a military base. Not making much more than that. No health insurance. Several of the signs above apply to me. Biggest being that I cant afford Heat in the apartment. And still can pay all the bills each month.
    • Caitie  •  4 months ago
      ahh, all of the above.
    • Bad Karma  •  Washington, District of Columbia  •  4 months ago
      It took almost two years but I got out. I could have left earlier but I wanted to land a better job not just another job. It paid off.
    • Toma P  •  Columbus, Ohio  •  4 months ago
      I love my job and the people in it, but my manager has a way of just singling me out from the team. I've had thoughts of moving on to another job, but there is not many that provide the same money or benefits right now, and I have invested so many years in the company I feel I shouldn't be the one to move on maybe something just needs done about his behavior!

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