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    10 Ways to Schmooze Your Way to Success


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    Everybody knows that in this day and age, it's not always about what you know, it's who you know. During trying economic times like these, the key to landing your dream job is to stand out from the competition by showcasing both your talent and personality.

    For a quick and painless networking experience, follow a few tips that will help you leave a lasting impression:

    1. A handshake can make or break a first impression, so practice, practice, practice! Demonstrate your self-confidence and genuine interest by executing a firm shake.

    2. Don't be shy! Attend events related to the industry that you're interested in and mingle. Whether you're waiting in line at the coat check or sitting up at the bar, you just never know who you might meet.

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    3. While chatting it up with people you've just met, be sure to talk about topics other than the industry you're trying to break into. Listen and ask questions. It's important to showcase your personality, and who knows, maybe you'll find out that you share common interests!

    4. Don't be too pushy. When meeting someone new, don't simply shove your resume at them. Everyone knows you're talented, so establish a friendship first. After all, no one likes to feel as though they're being used.

    5. When attending events, don't forget to ask for a person's business card or contact information at the end of a conversation. People love to know that others are interested in what they do, so chances are, they would love to continue talking with you, even if it's just via email.

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    6. That being said, be ready to hand out a business card of your own! Some may think that business cards are outdated, but it's a lot easier to remember to contact someone with a concrete reminder sitting in a coat pocket.

    7. Stop apologizing. Too often, inexperienced networkers tend to apologize to those they're reaching out to. If you don't think you're worth their time, why would they? And more importantly, networking doesn't have to be a burden...just think of it as building new relationships!

    8. People receive tons of emails each day, so it's easy to miss one. To make a more lasting (and tangible!) impression, send a handwritten note when saying "thank you." Even if it's a coffee date with a friend of a friend, a handwritten note adds a personal touch as you thank someone for their time.

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    9. Follow up. Again, potential employers meet new people every day, so it's important to stay on their radar by sending an email or making a call every few months. Just started a new internship? Finished an awesome class project? Let them know! It shows them you're gaining experience and reminds them that you're out there.

    10. And finally, take a risk. Many people fear networking because they're afraid they'll be rejected. Such a fear will prevent you from meeting interesting (and interested!) people.

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    22 comments

    • micahg  •  2 years 4 months ago
      How about earning your position dumbasses?
    • Brainard  •  2 years 4 months ago
      so, what is the basics we are talking about here?
    • steelblack  •  2 years 4 months ago
      God bless America, embrace any, and everything promoting,prosperity, and integrity, everthing else will work out...
    • three  •  2 years 4 months ago
      "schmooze" your way to success? really? there isn't a better way to put it?
    • Primary PBD  •  2 years 4 months ago
      I have always aspired to be a schmoozer. Schmoozers are so highly thought of and well respected in the workforce.
      No new information here. I do have a pet peeve for apologists
      This piece of crap is just another sign of the times - all about icing while the cake tastes like doo ...........
    • amberl  •  2 years 4 months ago
      You are so right bluejeangirl.
    • Greg  •  2 years 4 months ago
      Just follow what's written in "How to win friends and influence people" the interviewer isn't a faceless drone but rather a human being.
    • SUZIS  •  2 years 4 months ago
      And this is different than it's always been, how?
    • SUZIS  •  2 years 4 months ago
      Did you need a filler? There are plenty of us stringers out here who could have given you an actual page of something everyone doesn't already know. Disappointing......
    • bluejeangirl  •  2 years 4 months ago
      I agree with those that say hardwork and potential. You can shmooze into a job and try to kissa&& to keep it, but if you are not a good worker and just a pony--GOODBYE in my book. I have worked with too many people who play up to the boss and dont know squat about what they are doing, no wonder our economy is in teh toilet and the good employees are in the unemployment line they let go the ones that actually know what they are doing and keep the butt kissers.
      Networking is important, but reaching out to others is more important than the schmooze portion and most see right through that if they have any integrity.
    • David  •  2 years 4 months ago
      This is very basic, and is really just about being a socialized adult ... with a business cards of course. I believe if people are seeking a "dream job" there is definite strategy and purpose to almost every action they take. If you wanted to learn to to be a Chess Master, then learn from someone who plays chess and is a Chess Master. If you want to learn how to network and land your career dream, go see a skilled and accomplished pro. (head hunter executive recruiter). They are the Chess Masters for that space Or you can feel your way around in the dark for a decade trying it your way.
    • A Yahoo! User  •  2 years 4 months ago
      SCHMOOZE,WHAT A HELL IS IT????????
    • Jim D  •  2 years 4 months ago
      Here's a real tip:

      Use LinkedIn.

      When someone leaves your company consider connecting to them on LinkedIn. (Of course you can connect with them while you're at the same company; but especially when you see some mail e-mailing that contains some phrase like: "It is with great regret that we accept the ..." then make that connection).

      If you're already connected to them then carefully consider how to express appropriate congratulations or condolences to them. Doing so hints that you'd be open to working with them again some time.

      Don't be afraid to connect even with someone as high as the former CEO. While he was there it might have seemed a bit pushy to put out a connection request all the way up to the highest echelons of management (assuming you're not one of his direct reports or with one level below that). However, if he's likely to recognize your name then making that connection while he's transitioning outward, is one of those mildly audacious acts that might reap rewards as he settles in to a new position elsewhere.

      (Basically he might end up needing to fill out positions at his next place, or the one after that ... and even if he doesn't think of you directly, some of his new subordinates are likely to tap into his connections when filling out their departments).
    • Charlie  •  2 years 4 months ago
      Ahh Duh!
      Now there is a lesson there, see you get in and get out. what you do schmooze is zing em!
    • poffat  •  2 years 4 months ago
      My God, what a stupid article. Nothing new here... same old stale information. And, by the way, networking is NOT the best way to find a job. It's too time consuming. Better to spend your time researching companies that have some reason to be interested in you, and approach them directly. Or hire a career service to help you with your search.
    • Rochelle  •  2 years 4 months ago
      The majority of this sounds like it came straight out of the "Career Success For Dummies" manual. Unfortunately, having been in the hiring position, I know all too well that many job seekers do, in fact, need a refresher course in the basics. That said, I found this piece rather disappointing - not enough info, far too basic, and just plain dull.
    • michael  •  2 years 4 months ago
      in todays world we all need allllll the help we can get. no right or wrong thoughts, please keep an open mind have a great new year.
    • Shirley  •  2 years 4 months ago
      schmooze is Yiddish... it happens to be a great word!
    • Shirley  •  2 years 4 months ago
      i dont agree with the top comments... Rochelle, it is the most important not to lose site of the basics. i think this article does a great job of keeping these concepts simple and easy to activate.
    • Shirley  •  2 years 4 months ago
      New Years Res. I AM GETTING A PROMOTION!!!

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