3 Ways to Deal with a Hater

As a general rule, people who are extremely negative and hateful with no obvious reason behind it are very unhappy or insecure and are taking it out on an easy target. If I have to deal with someone who is just mean for the sake of being mean, I usually don't take it very seriously because it's more about them than me. It's easier to avoid and ignore nasty people because confronting them and lowering yourself down to their level is exactly what they want.

There will be a time when loud-mouthed, incompetent people seem to be getting the best of you. When that happens, you only have to be patient and wait for them to self destruct. It never fails.
Richard Rybolt

haters suck. the only reason some people are haters....is because their jealous and they want something that the other person has or is just jealous of their success. it's really quite sad. lol

I put up with them and then go home to the people in my life whose opinion really matters my family

If there is one thing Yahoo board are known for, it's the sheer amount of haters.

These people hate out of jealously, I think she is lovely and hope she continues with her career.

It's easy to deal with what others have to say, it's what they do that can be horrible. Bullied through school, thought I was done with that until adult bullies destroyed my business.

I generally just smile. Bless your heart

Don't hate the haters. Everyone needs a hobby.

I was actually quite surprised when I first read what that casting agent said. Brutal, and not true. I hope that she doesn't take it to heart. Yes, she is rich and beautiful but I still feel bad when people are trashed for no good reason.

I don't hate her, but her breasts in the swimsuit look odd, and every cosmetic flaw has been airbrushed out, so you probably wouldn't recognize her on the street. To address the gist of the article, the best advice is to minimize the haters. If somebody calls you a #$%$ look them dead in the eye, and say "I love peer recognition, thank you!" and walk away. If someone makes a personal attack like "You are lazy", just say "I wouldn't be if I had more enthusiasm" and again, walk away. Once you minimize them, you take away their power.

Keep living your life. Whenever I start something new like a job or shedding weight people swore that my attitude had changed when it had not. I just got tired of dealing with the same people and got happier in life. My motto in life to worry about yourself.

If I was paid beaucoup bucks to pose on a magazine cover, do you think I would give a #$%$ about other people's thoughts?

Let Haters be your motivators look why is it we feel that everybody should like us or have the approval of others look some will and some won't it shoudln't matter for if you don't think highly of yourself or feel good about yourself then the real hater is you.

I'm having a salad and soup for lunch...

You can discover what your critics loathe most about themselves by what they say about you.

Why is "hateer" the new leftist buzz word?? People act like hate is always a bad thing. Is it not ok to hate the thought of child molestation? Is is not good to hate murder?? Even God Himself is a "hater", as He hates sin! Thanks, people, for ruining another perfectly good word.

I'm a big fan of "killing them with kindness."

And if you can't find any kindness, a brick will work.

Criticism is not hatred and equating the two is even more divisive. Envy is not hatred. Jeolousy is not hatred. It is believing that they are that has caused the demand for political correctness which is no more than restricting the speech and thought of others. Why is everybody so sensitive?

Liberal progressive people are the biggest group of haters in this country even though they attempt to portray themselves are being open minded and accepting of those who don't have the same warped views as them. They also have a superiority complex and consider those with conservative views as being less intelligent which is totally out of touch with reality.